(OUTDATED) Course 1: Personal Leadership 101 - (Discussion 2) Understanding Your Gifts and Strengths from the MBTI
PLEASE VISIT THIS SUBFORUM TO PARTICIPATE.
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Hello Leadership Crew!
I have just gone through the introduction thread and read about all of you. If you havent yet introduced yourself, then please stop by and share a little about yourself so we can get to know you. Im encouraged by all the great people that have joined. This should be a fun and enriching program!
Let me first zoom back and talk more broadly about your career and how we can help. When you become a leader on 7 Cups, we want you to find the work fulfilling. Fulfilling work means that it is:
a) work you are good at;
b) work that is interesting to you; and
c) work that solves an important problem or meets an important goal (Thiel, 2015).
The sweet spot is that blue area in the middle below.
If you do work that you are good at, but not interested in, then you wont do a great job. If you do work that you are interested in, but not particularly good at, then it wont be great work. If you do work that you are good at and interested in, but it isnt helping to solve an important problem, then we wont be a good fit for you. We need alignment on all 3 things. We work very hard at the beginning of your work with us to match your inherent strengths and interests with needs we have so that we can work together to solve problems that we all care about.
You have strengths – things that you are just really good at when compared with others. Operating out of your strengths feels good, is personally fulfilling, and enables you to hit flow states. As a result, you are much more effective and productive. Operating out of weaknesses is a drain. If you have to do work that you are not good at, then you wont be as effective. Doubling down on your strengths enables you to level up much faster and it helps 7 Cups make much more progress.
The next step becomes helping you find ways to identify your strengths, gifts or natural talents. You can learn some of this through self-observation - what do you seem especially good at? Are there things that just come natural to you that are more challenging for others? My wife, for example, is really good at writing; it just comes natural to her. Im pretty good at public speaking, whereas others find it more challenging.
Another way is to ask people you trust. You can say: What do you think Im good at? Or: what do you think are my top 1-3 strengths? Things that stand out to you about me? Note: only ask people you trust because sometimes people can give you feedback in a harmful rather than helpful way especially if they are not trustworthy.
For the purposes of this course, we are going to use personality tests to help you identify your strengths. Some of these are better than others; they are more reliable and have more research behind them. Broadly, we are using them here to help you begin to map out your strengths and to help you find ways where you can naturally excel here on 7 Cups, in your personal life, and in whatever career your are in or choose further down the road.
To start:
Go to this site here and take the test: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Next, in the thread below, answer the following questions:
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
4. Please then reply to 3 of your peers in this thread with encouraging or supportive words!
Last, when people interact with one another, it makes the course more enriching and it allows us to learn more about one another. In addition to posting in the thread, please also be sure to respond in a helpful and positive way to at least 3 other comments in this thread.
You can also ask any questions in this thread and well respond to them as well.
Very excited to kick this off with all of you!
What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please
ISFJ-T
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
I've done these types of things a few times, I keep getting different ones. I'm not sure if it's due to different questions or just how I answer them. I do know had I answered these 10 years ago some of my answers would have been different, due to my physical state. So I would say that personality tests don't always measure my true personality, they often reflect some of my coping strategies too.
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
excellent analytical abilities - good at using logical reasoning
receptive to new ideas (although reluctant to change) - I agree with this, I think it's good to look at new things but I also like to analyze what could be problematic by implementing them.
Supportive – Defenders are the universal helpers, sharing their knowledge, experience, time and energy with anyone who needs it, and all the more so with friends and family. People with this personality type strive for win-win situations, choosing empathy over judgment whenever possible.
@Heather225
i used to be INFJ-T Advocate now I'm
INFP - T Mediator
things I have learnt about myself
Mediator personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, Mediators have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the Mediator personality type – but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration.
At their best, these qualities enable Mediators to communicate deeply with others, easily speaking in metaphors and parables, and understanding and creating symbols to share their ideas. Fantasy worlds in particular fascinate Mediators, more than any other personality type. The strength of their visionary communication style lends itself well to creative works, and it comes as no surprise that many famous Mediators are poets, writers and actors. Understanding themselves and their place in the world is important to Mediators, and they explore these ideas by projecting themselves into their work.
Very Creative – Mediators combine their visionary nature with their open-mindedness to allow them to see things from unconventional perspectives. Being able to connect many far-flung dots into a single theme, its no wonder that many Mediators are celebrated poets and authors.
Passionate and Energetic – When something captures Mediators imagination and speaks to their beliefs, they go all in, dedicating their time, energy, thoughts and emotions to the project. Their shyness keeps them from the podium, but they are the first to lend a helping hand where its needed.
3 top strengths are
Idealistic – Mediators friends and loved ones will come to admire and depend on them for their optimism. Their unshaken belief that all people are inherently good, perhaps simply misunderstood, lends itself to an incredibly resilient attitude in the face of hardship.
Seek and Value Harmony – People with the Mediator personality type have no interest in having power over others, and dont much care for domineering attitudes at all. They prefer a more democratic approach, and work hard to ensure that every voice and perspective is heard.
Open-Minded and Flexible – A live-and-let-live attitude comes naturally to Mediators, and they dislike being constrained by rules. Mediators give the benefit of the doubt too, and so long as their principles and ideas are not being challenged, theyll support others right to do what they think is right.
@CaringBrit
Oooh another INFP-T!! I am one too! Glad to meet you, keep up the good work!
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please
my personality type is 'the defender'(ISFJ-T)
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
ive learned that i can do anything i put my mind to, im a careing, understand and compassionate person that loves to help anyway i can i have a goal and im going to reach it ive also learned that having someone to listen to your problem gives you that reassurance that your not alone and that there are people here to support you and now that im one of those listeners it makes me feel fatastic to know im making a difference
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
Supportive – Defenders are the universal helpers, sharing their knowledge, experience, time and energy with anyone who needs it, and all the more so with friends and family. People with this personality type strive for win-win situations, choosing empathy over judgment whenever possible.
Reliable and Patient – Rather than offering sporadic, excited rushes that leave things half finished, Defenders are meticulous and careful, taking a steady approach and bending with the needs of the situation just enough to accomplish their end goals. Defenders not only ensure that things are done to the highest standard, but often go well beyond what is required.
Imaginative and Observant – Defenders are very imaginative, and use this quality as an accessory to empathy, observing others emotional states and seeing things from their perspective. With their feet firmly planted on the ground, it is a very practical imagination, though they do find things quite fascinating and inspiring.
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please
Im an INFP-T
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
I learned that I am a compassionate and creative person. I also learned that I am highly introverted and need loads of time alone.
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
I am very value-oriented:
I know from a gut level when something seems right or wrong, or whether it aligns with my values or not. Everything that I do has to resonate with what I feel is meaningful, and authentic to what I believe in.
I am creative and imaginative:
I absolutely love thinking outside the box and doing things differently! Most of the time, Im bursting with new ideas and possibilities.
I am open-minded and curious:
I am so interested and drawn towards new things, ideas, people – new everything! I love learning about different cultures and people from different countries. I am also very accepting and non-judgemental towards people who are very different from me.
That's a very impressive set of qualities, Heart! You make a very valuable asset to this community! Keep doing your great work!!
@compassionateendofarainbow
@miraculousheart9815 (forgot to tag you)
@compassionateendofarainbow
Thank you Rainbow!
@Heather225
Hi There Heather !! Thank You for providing such awesome post again .
>> My personalaity type is Protagonist. Four letters include " ENFJ-T ".
>> The main things I learned about myself are I am an active volnuteer, I am more optimitic rather than pessimistic. I am highly motivated and energetic, am a good at de-escalating situations when situtaion arises and yes, I believe in everything happens for a reason.
>> 1. Extraverted = It means I am more concerned with the social and physical environment. That is certainly better for me and I was a bit aware of this that yes I am Extravert/Extrovert.
2. Intuitive = I am able to know or understand something because of feelings rather than facts or proof: I got to know this new one which let me know something new about me.
3. Feeling = It was in highest percentage in me. It means I try to understand more and more what the other person might be feeling and to feel their feelings so as to get a bit more information. This think was already familiar to me but I got this again.
Thanks. 

1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please
INFP-T (turbulent mediator)
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
-naturally going to others for encouragement and feedback
-viewing life as endless possibilities waiting to be realized (aka a quiet, private, free spirit)
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
-intuitive-questioning, wondering, connecting and looking for the bigger picture
-feeling-decisions tend to be based on the wellbeing of others
-prospecting-more flexible when it comes to dealing with unexpected challenges
Thank you so much for the encouragement @ generousdiamond35, @ youcanbeyou and @ Affyavo :-)
@ Bookchunky thats such a great quality, looking for the good in people always :-)
@ Brightbubbles88 - Its such an amazing thing to be intuitive and looking for the bigger picture :-)
@Rupcompassion20 aww thank you! that is very kind of you to say :) <3