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Course 3, Discussion 2: Accepting and Providing Feedback

User Profile: FrenchToast
FrenchToast December 5th, 2022

If you prefer a video/audio explanation, please watch this video.

Some reasons why accepting feedback is important:

  • It helps us improve our craft/skills/ourselves

  • We become aware of our own short comings.

  • We can learn how others may perceive us.

Reasons why it can be challenging to hear constructive feedback:

  • We might associate it with who we are as a whole.

  • We may think the person giving it has lost respect for us.

  • It can hurt our ego.

The choice is yours! Are you willing to deal with discomfort for your greater good? If so then constructive feedback is an essential tool you must utilize.

Now let's see how to give feedback!

If you prefer a video/audio explanation, please watch this video.

Steps to give useful feedback:

  • Sandwich it between genuine positive feedback.

  • Don’t do it too often. Remember a person can only accept so much constructive feedback before it drains them. Use it sparingly.

  • Ask yourself what you are communicating is beneficial to the person or your own personal preference. Only provide feedback if it will help the person.

Let's practice giving constructive feedback.

This is the situation.

Username: CoffeePerson198

Positive traits: is punctual, responds in under 24 hours, cares about people and is empathetic.

Areas of improvement: Is not completing assigned task for 3 weeks, not communicating with you (the leader) why the task is not being completed.

✒️ You are a leader of the team and have been tasked with giving constructive feedback. Please draft a message of no less than two sentences using the sandwich method (praise + constructive feedback + praise).

✒️ Please reply to at least 1 of your peers in this thread with encouraging or supportive words!

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User Profile: SerenitywithKat
SerenitywithKat May 5th, 2025

@FrenchToast

You are a leader of the team and have been tasked with giving constructive feedback. Please draft a message of no less than two sentences using the sandwich method (praise + constructive feedback + praise).

Username: CoffeePerson198

Good morning Coffee, I wanted to thank you first and foremost for all ways being caring and empathetic with everyone on the team. Your support here is so wonderful. I am wondering though, if there is something I need to be aware of?  As you have not been your normal self and communicated with me as to why you haven't been completing assignments for 3 weeks now? Your responds have always been under 24 hrs. which is amazing and i am so proud of you for that. Also, normally your always so punctual which is super. If there is anything I can do to support, you please reach out. I look forward to hearing from you soon.


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User Profile: twerp
twerp May 7th, 2025

@SerenitywithKat

Oooo such big words hahaha! Foremost.. I might have to steal that. 😛

Nice work! 🫂🤍🌞

User Profile: EllaListens
EllaListens May 19th, 2025

oh wow @SerenitywithKat, the way you say it, it doesn't make anyone feel the need to take the feedback personally or be hurt by it. well written!

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User Profile: SerenitywithKat
SerenitywithKat May 22nd, 2025

@EllaListens

thank you so much for that.

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User Profile: twerp
twerp May 7th, 2025

@FrenchToast

✒️ You are a leader of the team and have been tasked with giving constructive feedback. Please draft a message of no less than two sentences using the sandwich method (praise + constructive feedback + praise). 

Hello, Coffee! I wanted to talk with you about your overall work performance. Your ability to communicate with others in timely matter with such empathy is remarkable. However, I did notice that you are behind on your work from the past three weeks, it’s essential to not only communicate with others but with me as well. I am here for you if you need support, don’t be afraid to reach out!

User Profile: EllaListens
EllaListens May 19th, 2025

@FrenchToast

✒️ You are a leader of the team and have been tasked with giving constructive feedback. Please draft a message of no less than two sentences using the sandwich method (praise + constructive feedback + praise).

Hi CoffeePerson198, I really love how consistently punctual and responsive you are. Your quick replies and care for the team make a difference.

I did want to check in, though, as the assigned task has been pending for about three weeks, and I haven’t received any updates; if there’s anything getting in the way or if you need support, please let me know.

Your empathy and commitment to people really shine, and I believe with clear communication, we can move forward smoothly together.

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User Profile: Diego7Cups
Diego7Cups May 20th, 2025

@EllaListens


YIt's very inspiring You expressed and it is clear that you have a very human perspective on leadership

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User Profile: Diego7Cups
Diego7Cups May 20th, 2025

@FrenchToast

Hi @CoffeePerson198, I really appreciate your punctuality and how consistently you respond within 24 hours  it shows your commitment and empathy toward the team. I did notice that the assigned task hasn’t been completed for the past three weeks, and I haven’t received any updates about it; I’d appreciate it if you could keep me posted so we can support you better. That said, your genuine care for others truly stands out, and it’s something I deeply value in our team.

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User Profile: royalpainting409
royalpainting409 June 3rd, 2025

@OyenteDiego Great feedback! It sounded short and straight to the point while also highlighting the positive aspects about Coffee! 

User Profile: adorableGrace87
adorableGrace87 June 6th, 2025

@OyenteDiego

I really love your answer. Very genuine and constructive. Couldn’t have put it better myself. 

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User Profile: royalpainting409
royalpainting409 June 3rd, 2025

@FrenchToast

This is the situation.

Username: CoffeePerson198

Positive traits: is punctual, responds in under 24 hours, cares about people and is empathetic.

Areas of improvement: Is not completing assigned task for 3 weeks, not communicating with you (the leader) why the task is not being completed.

✒️ You are a leader of the team and have been tasked with giving constructive feedback. Please draft a message of no less than two sentences using the sandwich method (praise + constructive feedback + praise).

Hi CoffeePerson198! I hope you're doing well! I wanted to take a minute to talk about your performance lately. I've noticed that you've been very punctual and are responding quickly to members! That is an excellent trait as it shows your commitment and dedication to 7cups! I have also noticed that you have not completed the assigned task for 3 weeks now. This unfortunetly has pushed back our community forum posting schedule, which will affect our members. It is okay if you are not able to complete the task, but going forward, please let me know if you are struggling to complete a task and we can get you some help with it. Overall though, you're doing a great job, and I can tell how much you truely care about what you do. 

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User Profile: Admirablerainbow2825
Admirablerainbow2825 June 22nd, 2025

👏👏👏👏👏

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User Profile: wonderfulBlueberry7326
wonderfulBlueberry7326 June 6th, 2025
Hi Coffee, hope things are going well for you. I wanted to thank you for your dedication to being punctual and displaying empathy. I noticed you haven't completed your task from three weeks ago, if there's anything from my end I can do to help in your process please don't hesitate to reach out. The work you're doing for others is appreciated, I hope you keep up with your warm attitude and approach with others.
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User Profile: greka7
greka7 June 23rd, 2025

@wonderfulBlueberry7326

Simple, forward, and yet effective! I love how you structured this response; it's the perfect balance of giving constructive criticism and also showing that you're there to support them along the way in their 7Cups journey. Thanks for your response!

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User Profile: adorableGrace87
adorableGrace87 June 6th, 2025

@FrenchToast

 “Hey CoffeePerson198, I wanted to start by acknowledging the great job you’re doing in being timely with your responses and showing genuine care for our team members. I’ve noticed, however, that you’ve been struggling to complete assigned tasks recently, and I’d appreciate it if you could fill me in on why that’s been happening.

User Profile: calmingcomfortero
calmingcomfortero June 18th, 2025

Hii Coffee. Great work for being responsive and empathetic. You have an amazing personality that is valued. On the side note, would you be able to complete the assigned task? It has been some time and I am worried about you. If you are facing difficulties, don't hesitate to approach me. We will find a way out. Don't worry. All the best

User Profile: Admirablerainbow2825
Admirablerainbow2825 June 22nd, 2025

Hi CoffeePerson198. I am here to provide some feedback about your progress. I am happy that you have been punctual in responding within 24 hours. I have found that you care about people and is empathetic. However, we can move forward only when we get the assigned task completed. I have noticed that you are very interested in this task. However, there is a lack of proper understanding of why the task is not completed. If you need help with anything, feel free to talk and communicate. Thank you for your time.

User Profile: greka7
greka7 June 23rd, 2025

This is the situation.

Username: CoffeePerson198

Positive traits: is punctual, responds in under 24 hours, cares about people and is empathetic.

Areas of improvement: Is not completing assigned task for 3 weeks, not communicating with you (the leader) why the task is not being completed.

✒️ You are a leader of the team and have been tasked with giving constructive feedback. Please draft a message of no less than two sentences using the sandwich method (praise + constructive feedback + praise).

Hey CoffeePerson198, just wanted to let you know how much we value your service for the 7Cups community. From being punctual to continuously being empathetic, you have tremendously helped the community in several ways. Aside from this, I would like to check-in with you as well regarding the tasked assigned 3 week ago; we truly value you as well as your well-being, so please don't hesitate to reach out for help or guidance in these matters

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User Profile: Always25
Always25 June 30th, 2025

@greka7

This is great, and you have manged to fit the compliments and constructive feedback in really nicely! Well done to you :) 

User Profile: resilience2025
resilience2025 July 6th, 2025

@greka7

That's really a considerate and generous way of dealing with the situation. I appreciate your empathy!💕

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