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LGBTQ+ Community Check-In: Week of Aug 28 - Sept 3

User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener August 28th, 2023

Hello everyone! Another week, another check-in!

You may notice our forum has a new banner, I took a bit of time this past Saturday to create it. I hope you’ll like it and find a representation of at least one flag you connect with in it. Here it is if you’d like to see the full image without darkening.

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[Image consists of a series of overlayed triangular representations of various LGBTQ+ flags with a heart depicting the updated pride flag centered over the image.]

So what have you been up to this past week?

  • Thinking over the last month, what has been your most unexpected moment this month?

    • Was it a good surprise? Something challenging?

  • So September is coming, are you ready? What are you looking forward to most in September?

  • Do you like making art? What kind?

    • Have you made any recently? Perhaps share it with us?



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User Profile: tidyHickory3283
tidyHickory3283 August 28th, 2023

@EmotionsListener

omg wow the banner is amazing! 🤩


and the questions I won’t be able to answer them all atm since I need to get back to studying but like an hour ago I completed a painting I had started days ago and had left it unfinished (didn’t get the time :’) ) But it looks super awful so 🙃

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP September 4th, 2023

@tidyHickory3283

Thank you so much, I hope your studying went (and continues) to go well!

I'm sure your painting isn't awful, but we can often be our own harshest critic.

Thank you for checking in just the same!
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User Profile: tidyHickory3283
tidyHickory3283 September 6th, 2023

@EmotionsListener

It did (a little 😛) and yes I hope my studies gets better with time


True and it’s something that I need to work on myself (among many other things) hehe)

*rainbow hugs if okie*

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User Profile: tommy
tommy August 28th, 2023

I love the new banner!! It represents the community extremely well. Thank you so much for updating it 💛

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP September 4th, 2023

@tommy

Thank you! I really hope all members are able to feel represented.
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User Profile: Lou73
Lou73 August 29th, 2023

The banner looks amazing @EmotionsListener !!!! 🌈🏳‍🌈🌈🏳‍🌈

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP September 4th, 2023

@Lou73

Thank you Lou! I will admit, I may have had a bit too much fun creating it.
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User Profile: Jon7Cups
Jon7Cups August 29th, 2023

Love the banner @EmotionsListener. Great work!

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EmotionsListener OP September 4th, 2023

@Jon7Cups

Thank you! I was trying to make sure it would work in all the different formats across platforms so it was a fun challenge!
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User Profile: IndigoShade00
IndigoShade00 August 29th, 2023

Nice banner @emotions listener


What have I been up to? I came out in June to my wife and navigating what that means and trying to work through it has been H E double hockey sticks. I never thought it was going to be this hard.

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP September 4th, 2023

@kindShade6465

Thank you.

As for coming out to your wife and trying to work through all that it means for you both and your relationship etc., I can only imagine how difficult that has been! What are some of the things that have been most difficult for you? Is there anything that's been making it easier?

Thanks for checking in!
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User Profile: LostinTranslation90
LostinTranslation90 August 30th, 2023

The new banner looks wonderful!! You did an amazing job! 😊

This week has been so busy. My classes are starting tomorrow - I'm kind of nervous, kind of excited, dreading how much homework I'll have to do 😥 I'm hoping to join a club this semester and make some friends. This is one of the last semesters I have on campus and I definitely feel pressure to make the most of it and meet people while I can. This semester is really different so I'm optimistic that I'll be able to go out and explore more!

My most unexpected moment has actually been a few moments this month where I pushed myself to do something out of my comfort zone when all I wanted to do was give up and go home. I'm very glad I did, I had a great time and I'm feeling more confident in myself. It feels like my world expanded a little 😊 This was also the month I kind of accepted that I'm a lesbian. It was kind of a relief, honestly, and I actually feel so much more hopeful about my future than I used to be? It just feels like I can be so much more comfortable in my own skin now and it just feels so nice to be part of a community

I'm cautiously optimistic about September! 😅 I'm not ready for classes and homework, but autumn is my favorite season and I'm looking forward to it 😊

I love making art - more arts and crafts, like making stickers and collages and clay things - and right now I'm working on making a pink and orange embroidery bracelet with hearts 😊 I'm hoping to finish it tonight, and I really want to make some pride flag bracelets!

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User Profile: EmotionsListener
EmotionsListener OP September 4th, 2023

@LostinTranslation90

Thank you, I'm glad you like our new banner.

Busy seems to be a common theme this time of year, how did your classes go? Do you have a lot of homework already? As to joining a club, that can be a great way to make some friends and have some fun especially before graduating or leaving campus. I hope you will be able to enjoy the journey this year and make the most of it without rushing through.

It definitely sounds like you are challenging yourself to try new things and expand your comfort zone, and so far enjoying the benefits of greater self acceptance, I really hope that continues for you and you are able to build a full life with things you want and enjoy more readily accessible as a result!

I would love to see some of your arts and crafts, I can definitely relate to more of the 'crafts' side myself. That bracelet sounds cool, were you able to finish it? Any others?

Thank you for taking the time to check in and share some of what is going on for you!
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User Profile: blitheSun94
blitheSun94 August 30th, 2023

@EmotionsListener

Beautiful work as per usual! 🌈

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EmotionsListener OP September 4th, 2023

@blitheSun94

Thank you!
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User Profile: incredibleCloud2222
incredibleCloud2222 September 5th, 2023

Unbelievable