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is this normal?

User Profile: slumberparty
slumberparty March 8th

im in my first wlw relationship and i was wondering if this is normal, she always makes me keep my location on and if i turn it off for like a minute she gets really mad at me. She also doesn’t let me talk or hang out with certain people. idek anymore

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 March 8th

@slumberparty

No, that's not normal at all.

It's controlling.

She has no right to want to know where you are every minute of the day, or talk you who to talk to , that's not healthy at all and you deserve better 🧡🤗

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla March 10th
@slumberparty I'm sorry, it's tough to deal with this, especially on a first relationship. This is controlling behavior and it's not what a healthy relationship should look like. It shows she's not willing to put trust in you, and if there's no trust, there's no basis to build a strong relationship on. I know you're into her, but this type of behavior is going to make things really bad for you in the long run. 
It's ok to stand up for yourself. You have a right to be treated better, or else look for another person who can treat you like you deserve.
User Profile: loyalTown2415
loyalTown2415 March 11th

Whether a wlw relationship or not, this behavior isn't normal, dear. It's controlling. You needn't feel bad for feeling bad, talk to her about it and follow your intuition, love is supposed to free you, not bind you.

User Profile: GoodTrouble19
GoodTrouble19 April 3rd

@slumberparty

definitely Red flags

User Profile: GoodTrouble19
GoodTrouble19 April 4th

@slumberparty plz move on someone I know was in the same situation 

User Profile: 1ond0nn
1ond0nn April 10th

@slumberparty ummm. it's not normal. maybe she's a little too possessive and insecure. talk to her about it and if she doesn't understand you or change for you. leave immediately.