Mindfulness Daily Check-In Nove. 14
Hi everyone in the Mindfulness Community. I wish you a lovely weekend. 
How can you make yourself the right person for you?
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@amiablePeace77
I think the most important thing would be for me to be honest with myself. For example, if I don't want to do something, I just shouldn't. I shouldn't have to act a certain way to please people. I need to learn to be ME. Everyone is unique and embracing our true self is liberating and beautiful, in my opinion.
@peachStrawberries1909 YES! I agree with you! We have to be patient with ourselves and learn to listen to ourselves!
@peachStrawberries190
Very wise words, you do not need to become a people's pleaser - what you want is important.
@amiablePeace77 I am not sure I understand the question but what that impresses me is the question "How can I be the person I really am beneath the masks I wear?"
I think for me the first step is making peace with myself and all other people. Whenever I am locked in struggle with people or conditions, I cannot really be who I am. Who I am is behind the mask, behind the struggle, behind the human drama. And so I keep breathing and that is the closest I feel to who I really am.
@soulsings
Many people focus on finding the right person, the right "Man" or the right "Women" so that their lives will be "right" not realizing that first we have to make ourselves "right" inside = inner peace like you mentioned.
@amiablePeace77 I can make myself the right person for me by practicing lots and lots of self-care and being more patient with myself!
@lavenderpeach1107
Awesome insight lavender
@amiablePeace77 Why thank you!!!
@amiablePeace77
All I gotta say is.............
hahahaha
How can you make yourself the right person for you?
I honestly never been asked this in all my years. But it is a very mindful honest and direct question that each of us can ask ourselves. So for me I'd do these things
1. Be honest with myself. I owe honesty at least to me. Yes Me!!
2. Forgive myself. I am human that did not come with a "do things right" manual. So I will make mistakes-but I also will learn from them. If I can not at least forgive my own perfections then right here I am not right.
3. Treat myself nice. There are so many things I do not like about me. All them can really wreck me. So I learn slowly to love each thing about me
4. Share my happiness. My cup of happiness is full most of the time. I love to share my happiness and joy and of course silly humor with others. I've gotten hugs and some cry while hugging me as that is really all they needed.
Omg I can go on and on with this. But this is just fine. I think when I or someone else feels not content with their daily life- this is a great question to figure out why.
@RumpleSteeleSkin
Thanks for sharing these deep insight views, I agree at some point we need to ask yourself what's going wrong in our lives and how can I get out of the self-imposed prison.
@RumpleSteeleSkin Beautifully said my friend!
Never compromising what my morals, boundaries or happiness for anyone else
@LPyMP
Those are 3 things we need to keep our lives healthy, not to be discussed 
@amiablePeace77 To become the person I would like to be I would like to spend more time observing nature. I would eat more healthy foods and more slowly and mindfully.
@adventurousBranch3786
Branch, I think those are good ways to live a healthy and conscious life, what could you do make it happen?
By keeping my promises!
@betterchoices
Nice, that's why promises are made, particularly the promises we give ourselves 
If we allways try to make ourselves the right person for ourselves there will be no community and no humanity...the moment I feel fine with myself then I stop reaching out, am self sufficient in every respect and left with my own lonely world in which I feel fulfilled...
I will never be right for myself...
@reddotonblack I agree if we care only about ourselves and our needs and wants, we become blind to others.
But we can accept what is here in us and around us and we can realize we are the people in this world and help to make their lives a little better. And we see the world with new eyes.
@soulsings
You were aways so wise Soul...😔😔😔
Not sure what "right" means but I am already the person I want to be - myself! I'm following the 8 fold path, I'm already complete, whole, as I am, I'm me and I accept myself completely! When I'm pushed away from my center, I return. When I'm not at peace, I notice it and recover peacefulness. My body is functioning and I'm thankful and greatful for so many things I already am! Most of the things I'm working on understanding inside myself are around my behaviors, but my behaviors are not who I "am", they're not me, they're just what I do and how I react, things I can control. At the core, I'm already "right" - right here, right now.
@onwardforevenmore
I am very sorry for the delay in answering, somehow I did not see your message 
Your post sounds very positive and I believe you are on a very good path.