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Forum Discussion: How can we help to motivate others?

User Profile: blossombreathe
blossombreathe March 12th, 2018

Heya everyone - super happy to see you here! :3 heart

The Motivation and Self Help sub-community has only just launched (woohoo!), if you haven't joined yet, check out all the wonderful posts we've made so far and get participating here.

There will be 7 questions in this discussion, and well be posting a new question every day. Make sure you subscribe to this thread so you know when a new question has been posted!

The question for today is:

How would YOU define motivation? (not Google c:)

My definition: Motivation is the will to do something, supported with a reason you believe in to do something :3

So, join in and share with us what motivation means to you! Let us know! ^-^ *huggles* :3 heart

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User Profile: CalmWhisper22
CalmWhisper22 March 12th, 2018

How would YOU define motivation? (not Google c:)

My definition: Motivation is helping others and caring about others but I also need help so if someone is up for that job please let me know. Thanks

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User Profile: happyface1014
happyface1014 March 12th, 2018

@DanaMH

The entire 7cup community is there to help you. But if you want I can be your friend and motivate you :)

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User Profile: CalmWhisper22
CalmWhisper22 March 12th, 2018

@happyface1014

I would love you to help me. The others never respond to me or give up on me.

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User Profile: Penguin1511
Penguin1511 March 12th, 2018

I believe motivation is wanting the best for others and showing them in what ever way that the best is achievable because they deserve it whether it's friends and family or perfect strangers for example the lovely anonymous members on 7 cups

User Profile: Keola
Keola March 12th, 2018

How do YOU define motivation?

Motivation to me is that feeling, that great willingness to do something. Like that spark that can light a fire under your bum to get you going to do something awesome for yourself or others.

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User Profile: Amphios
Amphios March 13th, 2018

@Keola well said <3 thank you for sharing with us lovely :)

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User Profile: Keola
Keola March 14th, 2018

@PolarLight ... thank you, it was my pleasure :p

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User Profile: Alctim
Alctim March 12th, 2018

Uhm my definition of motivation is that when you see the point in achiving a goal. For example i want to talk with People and to do so i need to get out of bed. Then the goal motivstes me to do something.

User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 12th, 2018

In my view, motivation is the internal force that pushes me to do better or keep going despite my struggles. It provides perserverance and confidence. :)

User Profile: Zeraphim
Zeraphim March 12th, 2018

Motivation is an intrinsic felt inner momentum to exert one's ability to try and accomplish something. The focusing part and choosing what task to accomplish is more of a cognitive process, which can certainly be done indepently of having this felt motivation, like with people who have depression.

For example, I can know I need to do the laundry, but I don't have the instrinsic felt inner momentum to exert my ability to try and accomplish it. I know it's a task I'm capable of completing, but I can't feel that inner momentum I need to do it.

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User Profile: Zeraphim
Zeraphim March 12th, 2018

It is also separate from willpower, which is when one places pressure on oneself to perform, regardless of lacking this intrinsic felt inner momentum, and forcing oneself to do it anyway. The problem with this is that it breeds feelings of resentment and willfulness. Willpower is a depletable resource and can often backfire when relied on too much to accomplish things.

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User Profile: Amphios
Amphios March 13th, 2018

@Zeraphim really loved it <3

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User Profile: Totheskyandbeyond
Totheskyandbeyond March 13th, 2018

Motivation = Something that inspires you. Your drive to do something.

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User Profile: blossombreathe
blossombreathe OP March 13th, 2018

@Totheskyandbeyond

Great definition! Thanks for sharing :3

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User Profile: Totheskyandbeyond
Totheskyandbeyond March 13th, 2018

@blossombreathe Sure breathe. =) =)

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User Profile: rebecca947
rebecca947 March 13th, 2018

@blossombreathe

Ooh, I love your definition! And damnit, no Googling! :p you caught me...

Hmm, motivation to me is knowing why you're doing what you're doing, and having a strong enough passion in it to persevere despite any obstacles you may face along the way.

Feels like I'm delving a bit into resilience here :p

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User Profile: blossombreathe
blossombreathe OP March 13th, 2018

@rebecca947

Awesome definition lovely >.< I agree with you - motivation is all about the reasoning behind why we do things and feel great afterwards :3 *huggles* heart

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User Profile: rebecca947
rebecca947 March 13th, 2018

@blossombreathe

Ooh, I love your definition! And damnit, no Googling! :p you caught me...

Hmm, motivation to me is knowing why you're doing what you're doing, and having a strong enough passion in it to persevere despite any obstacles you may face along the way.

Feels like I'm delving a bit into resilience here :p

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User Profile: rebecca947
rebecca947 March 13th, 2018

@rebecca947

Oops internet stuffed and apparently I replied twice... :p I'll just leave it here haha

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 13th, 2018

Hello all! Thanks to everyone who participated in our first question; I enjoyed reading all your insights on what motivation means to you. Let us now discuss its value in everyday life. Onto to question 2!

The question for today is:

Why do you think motivation is important in our daily life?

My answer: Motivation essentially drives us to get through the day. It pushes us to complete tasks; in a way, it's like an internal coach.

Let us know why you think motivation is important in everyday life! I look forward to reading your replies. ^_^





Tagging current participants: @blossombreathe @happyface1014 @DanaMH @Penguin1511 @Keola @Alctim @Zeraphim @Totheskyandbeyond

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User Profile: rebecca947
rebecca947 March 13th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66

I think it's important in daily life, as we have to know why we do what we do, and have a direction and sense of purpose in our lives. Without it, we'd be lost and feel minimal sense of grstification and grstitude in life. My opinion anyway :) motivation helps us achieve our goals.

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 13th, 2018

@rebecca947 I totally agree, motivation can certainly act as a compass and help us navigate through the day. It is a major force in keeping us inspired to follow through with goals. Thank you for sharing!

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User Profile: Amphios
Amphios March 13th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66 Motivation helps us to be the best we can be when doing a task, gives us a purpose to strive. It also helps to clarify our goal and give confidence, so we know exactly what we are working for.

"People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing. That's why we recommend it daily"

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 13th, 2018

@PolarLight Oh, nice quote! Motivation certainly fluctuates quite often. I love how you mention that it gives clarification for our goals as well; it helps us stay on track to reach out our goals. Thank you for your response!

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User Profile: neatBalloon7178
neatBalloon7178 March 13th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66

Motivation is important in our daily life because we need it in order to accomplish things. Some things are easier to be motivated about, but others can be a lot tougher.

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 13th, 2018

@neatBalloon7178 I totally agree, motivation can help us through difficult times. Some things certainly require more motivation than others, and it also varies by person. Motivation is key to accomplishing things; it's a driving force for sure. Thanks so much for your response!

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 March 13th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66

Motivation is the engine that drives us. After some time of practising it our autopilot will be set on self-motivation and we can react to challenges much better, feel stronger and have more self confidence.

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 13th, 2018

@amiablePeace77 I love your analogy of motivation acting as an internal engine. It certainly can kick in at any time whether we are conscious of it or not. In a way, it's like an instinct! Thank you for your response!

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User Profile: Reececup1986
Reececup1986 March 13th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66

Its important to me bacuse it gives me the push to better myself and to learn

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 13th, 2018

@Reececup1986 Hi Reece, nice to see you here! Yes, motivation really does push us to do our best. It can definitely lead us to new experiences to learn from. Thank you so much for sharing!

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User Profile: Reececup1986
Reececup1986 March 13th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66

Thank you, and Your welcome and I also posted on the other question to be part here and im happy to be here as well

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User Profile: Ugarte1989
Ugarte1989 March 14th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66 it's important cause gets u to get up and do anything and not letting what ever holding you back to win. And doing something is way to help show that there's way. Show us that we can do it.

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 14th, 2018

@Ugarte1989 Well said! I totally agree that motivation can help us reveal our true and full potential. It can push us to do our very best. :) Thanks for sharing!

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User Profile: Erato
Erato March 14th, 2018

@lovelyWhisper66 Heya lovely! Just like what you said by being motivated, it helps us to get through the day. It also helps us to see the positive in everything and find some encouragement to be able to overcome struggles. 💜

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 March 14th, 2018

@Erato Hey there Erato, it's wonderful to see you here; it's been quite some time! Indeed, motivation truly can allow us to be optimistic; it can give us the strength to overcome obstacles. Thank you for sharing!

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