Smackmeisters: Slappers of Slappingdale, Order of the Exalted SmackyMcGee
@Amanda84
@SmackyMcGee
Welcome back 🥰
Food provider I shall be , only if you are trapped on a deserted island that is 😂
@Amanda84
Thanks!! I'm sad Ailura is gone but I'm hoping she'll come back. I don't think @RunningMachine is terribly active anymore. I don't love change but at least you and @jesusredeemed2425 are still around. Oh, and about providing the food.. Well, I guess in a way you are providing the food but we can fill you in more when we get there
@SmackyMcGee
I am apologies that made you feel sad and ia m still here, smacky! 😊 Hope you are doing alright :) it makes me feel good to know that some people's miss my presence <3
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@AiluraTheCat
Well you really haven't missed much. All we really decided is that we are going to eat @Amanda84 if we get stranded on an island
And hearts right back
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@Amanda84
And you're just going to let me get away with this posts name?! Are you feeling under the weather or something?
@SmackyMcGee
Oh I absolutely did see that, virtual slaps coming your way 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Amanda84
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@SmackyMcGee
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@SmackyMcGee
Tomigotchis passed me by so your post has me lost.
I'm not online all that often as I'm working on my loneliness and social life offline. I found I was relying on Cups too much and was spending too much time in introspection answering posts which overall wasn't helping.
@RunningMachine
The important part is the pyramid scheme. It doesn't have to be with Tomagotchi's. I get it on not overusing social media. I felt pretty lonely too (sometimes I still do) but I kind of realized that's something I need to fix within myself not from an outside source.
Have gotten into any of the Game of Thrones stuff by the way? A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms is great and I think House of the Dragon season 3 is coming out soon
@RunningMachine
@jesusredeemedme2425
So if each of us gets 3 people to sell them to 3 people each for a dollar more a piece, then those 3 people get to sell it to 3 other people for one dollar more a piece, then each of the 3 people sell it to 3 people for a dollar more a peace then we'll be in business. We just have to make sure to convince everyone below us that they'll get rich and make sure the money flows upwards
That's called an MLM. ;)
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA this title HAS to stay XD
@jesusredeemedme2425
You're going to go far here. Would you like to be the one who hands out to Kool-Aid?
Can it be onion flavored?
@jesusredeemedme2425
I don't see why not. What kind of a freak doesn't like onion water?
Kool aid people ;)
Never had a Tomigotchi lol... But I'll definitely sell them lol. I'll be in charge of the money... For secrety reason of course...
I have no input for name... I'm like the worst at that lol. Thanks for including me! Hope everyone is having a good day!
@agreeableSkies9889
Then it's settled! You'll be the Tomigotchi Treasurer. So you'll be the treasurer and @Amanda84 will be the person we eat if we get stranded on an island. Now we just have to decide who hands out the Kool-Aid for the ascension ceremony
@Amanda84 @JesusRedeemedMe2425 @AiluraTheCat @RunningMachine @agreeableSkies9889
Updating you guys on my life. I now work exclusively with horses which is what I've always wanted. I have an ex horse jockey teaching me English Saddle. My goal is to be able to shoot an arrow off the back of a horse like a dothraki screamer. I have sunburn which is unfortunate. My nephews had their baseball championship today but they lost unfortunately. My uncle is mad at me for going because we usually play video games Tuesday night which is complete bull. I'm about to cancel video game night forever because I'm annoyed and don't really like playing them anyways.
What have you guys been up to?
Working with horse's is cool! I work at a bakery lol... I want to do something in the medical field eventually though once I have more stuff figured out!
@agreeableSkies9889
I have a friend that worked in a bakery (a grocery store bakery so nothing too fancy). She loved it so much she said she'd never leave. I couldn't work there because I lack impulse control. The only reason I can stay in shape is I live alone and can make sure there's no junk food in my house. I will straight up eat an entire bag of chips when I wake up at 2AM do go pee.
Medical field is cool. My x started for nurses before we broke up. She was coming from marketing and wasn't really happy or making the money she wanted to make. Nurses are too tough IMO (coming from a combat vet). I don't know how you could deal with people dying so often
I just work at a grocery store too.
Do you like living alone? I've always lived with my family though they annoy me a lot and really hurt me sometimes, my mom's really the only cool person in my family.
I'm trying to distance myself from my extended family but I hope my immediate family will eventually come around. Never really dated or had many friends. I hope that changes eventually though because I feel really lonely and like talking to people. Honestly my only friends RN are online and at work
@agreeableSkies9889
"I just work at a grocery store too."
Don't sell yourself short! How many birthdays have you made happy or smiles you've put on the little one's faces?
Uhh no lol. I hate living alone. I like my house. I take very good care of it (got a new driveway today, bug about the lawn etc). But living alone? Not great. Maybe you would have better luck but I wish I had a wife and kids. I've been alone 6 years now. Saturday is the worse day of the week because I'm off
I guess that's true, I try to think on the good side though recently it's been hard. I used to be a custodian and this job is clearer and my manager is an awesome person so that helps.
I get that. I honestly have always day dreamed about living alone but I think it's just because of the people I'm surrounded by. I feel really uncomfortable around most people. I never really had any close friends. I really hate Sundays because they're my day off lol. My family is very religious and thinks I'm evil and makes fun of how I dress/that I'm more feminine then masculine I guess. My dad really hates his life and gets mad when others aren't miserable.
I always wanted to date but am scared to because I'm afraid that I couldn't handle it because I have a lot of trauma and I don't think my family would approve of the people I'd date.
@agreeableSkies9889
If they think you're evil I'd argue they aren't very good at being doing what God wants. Righteousness does exist and if God does indeed exist (I believe he does), he knows right from wrong even better than we do. I saw a bumper sticker today saying be careful who you hate because it might be someone you love. Pretty spot on. If you're using your faith as an excuse to hate people you're definitely not doing it right but oh well not everyone gets it
I think living alone is probably best in your situation from the sounds of it. It's generally better to be alone than around people that put you down. I'd argue you should still love them but maybe love them from a distance. People are greatly flawed. Not just your family but you and I as well. I promise you I've done some pretty morally bankrupt things and if you were to judge me just on that I'd be in big trouble. if I were to judge you on the worst parts of you then I'd never get to see the good
Anyways, eventually, after being alone for a bit I think you should try and find someone. I guess giving advice is bad juju here but I do it anyways. I've a lot of life for someone who's 36 and picked up a bit of old man wisdom along the way
I'd definitely forgive them! I love them a lot and I know people do stuff they regret and bad stuff but it's just constantly bothering me and I've tried to change them or reason with with them but they don't really want to.
Thanks for the advice!
@agreeableSkies9889
Yeah I'd say maybe a little distance might not be the worst thing. It does suck to be alone but if people are being a jerk then you kind of have to put some space between you and them. Otherwise you're not going to have the best mental health. Being alone will just be a middle step though. Eventually you won't be. In the mean time maybe call your mom or talk to us on 7cups
@SmackyMcGee
I'm glad that you are able to work full time now with horses! That's great 😊
I'm good, busy, currently enjoying the world cup and many matches a day 😁💚
@Amanda84
I wasn't aware the world cup going on but that's pretty neat. Football (we call it soccer) isn't as big here and I don't really watch TV. I was at my pastor's daughter's softball game tonight though and she won! It was awesome. My nephew had his championship baseball game last night but he wasn't as fortunate. His team got second out of all the teams though, and he was one of the best on his team so he'll go on to the "all stars" team. I'm very excited for him and glad the games will go on.
My life is all horses and children's sporting events and it's incredibly rewarding. I feel truly happy. I never thought I would after the loss of Bella.
I hope you're hanging in there. You're in my thoughts whenever kingfisher plays on my playlist. I know life isn't easy and you're doing a lot for your family
@SmackyMcGee
Appreciate the good wishes 🥰
Oh football is massive here 😁
My parents are as good as they can be, thankfully!
I know what you mean, my six nephews and niece keep me pretty busy and broke 😂😂😂
@Amanda84
You're so great to look after them. I'm glad they're doing well. I worry sometimes. Busy helping asking everyone but never asking for it yourself. The little ones too. I spoil the rascals all the time.
And for what it's worth I think most of us think football and soccer should be named vice versa. I mean one you use your foot and the other one you don't. Metric makes way more sense too but it's slowly seeping in over here finally
Also you're not the food provider for the island. You're the food. it's a very important role which is why I gave it to you and nobody else
@SmackyMcGee
I appreciate you worrying about me but I'm made of strong stuff 🥰
@Amanda84
I know you're almost as strong as me.
@SmackyMcGee
@Amanda84
Boy I missed a lot of comments on this somehow. I'm clueless to how all this world cup business works. 3 host countries? Do they change? How many games?
I just figured out FIFA is soccer. That's how much I dont know about this XD
@jesusredeemedme2425
I guess it's called football everywhere else. If you think about it it kind of makes sense
@jesusredeemedme2425
Soccer for Americans 😁 football for the rest of us 🤗💚
@SmackyMcGee
Over 200 games
It's hosted in USA, Mexico and Canada this year 😁🤗
@Amanda84 I haven't been watching, but I've been watching all the foreigners absolutely lose it over American food on YouTube. Y'all are going home fat 😂
JEALOUS OF YOU WORKING WITH HORSES!!!!! <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Yes I'm incredibly blessed. Soooo grateful. They were always a part of my life but now I get to spend every day with them. Do you just like horses are you a crazy horse girl? No shame in it I'm a crazy horse dude!
I'm not obsessed like some girls were when they were younger, but I love horses and mucking stables <3
Men can ABSOLUTELY be crazy horse dudes! No shame! <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
I'm a bit of a stall mucking extraordinare myself.
Not a lot of people get to work with horses but they're all over where I live so I'm pretty blessed
It's so calming and relaxing!
Yes you are <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Like a zen garden... But with horse poop 😆
@Amanda84 @JesusRedeemedMe2425 @AiluraTheCat @RunningMachine @agreeableSkies9889
I got rejected today. First person I've asked out in 6 years. A cute chick at checkout in a store near by. I was confident friendly and not too forward. Thought for sure I nailed it. But it's ok. If I can do it once I can do again
Sorry to hear that. I know how hard it can be to get confidence to ask someone out, I've only ever asked one person out and they said no lol. For me it's hard to view someone romanticly before I get to know them better and I have way to much anxiety to do it. Hey but you did it and there's plenty of people out there! Also some people don't really like getting approach in public aka me lol... Just don't let it get to you! Who knows maybe you wouldn't have gotten along with them or they could have sucked.
@agreeableSkies9889
I hate online dating. I hate that that's how people meet now. It used to take courage and backbone to will someone out. It was more organic than listing your income and height then being put in a list in order based off things they don't matter
Have you ever tried online dating? Or is that not really your thing?
@agreeableSkies9889
Yeah I despise it. I met one of my x's through it and she was fine but it's the whole format. It's shallow and judgemental etc
I think I'm better off in reality. I think these things should happen organically instead of being chose by some algorithm
Yeah I get that. I've heard that from almost everyone I know who's used them. For me I feel like my anxiety would be way to high to go up to someone and ask them out. There's someone who I've liked for a while and I was pretty sure liked me back for awhile but I was way too nervous and scared and now we just act really awkward and don't say anything to each other. So I think it's so strong of you to ask someone out.
@agreeableSkies9889
Man I've got anxiety and panic I get it. I think if the desire is high enough it supersedes it. She seemed really sweet and I wasn't going to leave without trying. If you find someone who really matters to you you might do the same
Dude, the fact that you even tried! So many guys over the years have been too scared to tell me they like me. I'm proud of you! <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
It does feel good, even though I haven't heard from her. I've been avoiding these kinds of things for 6 years not. I feel like I've got my mojo back haha.
Sometimes you just have to be brave!
How does one figure out if a guy likes you or if he's just being nice?
@jesusredeemedme2425
Got me spinning. I can tell you personally that I get nervous. I'm not really nervous around women who are generally considered attractive but if there's some sort of deeper feelings there I can clam up. But that's just me. I think everyone is different
Spinning?
I've had the opposite, guys tease me more when they like me. I think. Lol
@jesusredeemedme2425
I just saw this. I think I'm not getting all of the notifications. Wdym tease? Like flirt? I get a lot of that but it rarely materializes into anything. Maybe it's my own fault 🤔
@SmackyMcGee
I'm not even tempted to try online dating as I couldn't agree with you more I can't think of many things I'd rather not do than write a profile !!
@RunningMachine
You know.. I've finally broken down and did it. I was in a men's group at church today with like 8 other men and they were all married. I guess it's time 😭
@JesusRedeemedMe2425
@AiluraTheCat
@SmacktMcGee
@RunningMachine
What's something you did to push or better yourselves today? I planned an appointment with my bank and therapist. Also I helped out at my food bank!!!
Told my therapist about my gender identity through our messages too.
Awww, I'm proud of you! <3
Uhhh... I didn't. LOL! I did dishes and laundry. Does that count? Lol
@jesusredeemedme2425
I fed horses and cleaned paddocks, fixed a fence, helped my friend work on his garage, then went to my friend's daughter's soft ball game. I didn't realize until 6PM they I hadn't ate anything yet 😂
@jesusredeemedme2425
That counts! Sometimes just brushing my teeth, Landry, and emptying kitty litter feel too much for me. I'm proud of you
@agreeableSkies9889
I actually went to see a doctor about a hereditary arthritis flare that was every bit as disappointing as I expected, I was nagged into it by a friend so at least she might stop nagging me now 🤪🤪
I'm honestly so scared of the doctor lol especially the dentist 🦷 I haven't been in like 4 years 😞 I know they're going to tell me I need to get my wisdom teeth removed and I'm afraid my parents will hear me say something crazy if I'm under drugs lol.
I got a fear that I'll bad Arthritis when I get older because of playing instruments and doing a lot with my hand, and I'm addicted to cracking my knuckles lol.
Congrats on getting through it even if it was a disappointment.
@agreeableSkies9889
It's hereditary, I've had a lifetime of managing it and after blood clots I can't take anti inflammatories so not much the docs can do, at least Emma's stopped nagging though 🤪🤪
That sucks 😞 well it's good your friend stopped nagging.
I miss you too RunningMachine
@jesusRedeemedMe2425
@AiluraTheCat
@SmacktMcGee
@RunningMachine
I've been talking to my mom a lot... She's a lot more chill the rest of my family. I haven't told her exactly how I'm feeling but I've told her that I'm confused and she said she'd always love me and accept me no matter who I turn out to be.
I'm honestly considering coming out to her as trans eventually, maybe in a couple months. I just don't know, it's really scary and I still don't know if it's smart to live a life out with how dangerous it is. Anyways I just wanted to hear what you guys thought. Hope your days are going good.
Watch any good TV shows recently?
@agreeableSkies9889
Just seeing this sorry. The tag wasn't quite right but I'll forgive you.. I wish you good luck on your journey.
Knight of the Seven kingdoms for sure. It's a about a hedge knight (lowborn) and is more about the common folk. 5 out of 5 stars
I think having this eat you alive isn't a good alternative. Just tell her <3
And Gilmore Girls! Hehe
Omg, I love Gilmore girls! Jess is my favorite
I love Logan, he's cute and sassy hehe
Both are better than Dean in my opinion. Dean always kinda annoyed me lol
DUDE THE DONNA REED EPISODE!!!!!
@jesusredeemedme2425
LOGAN?!?!
What is wrong with you?! He's just some rich jerk who couldn't care less about anyone but himself.
Dean is the real winner. Look at him dadding in the reboot. Idk how you could like Logan more than Dean.
.. I watched it with my x guys give me freaking break
Why are we yelling :(
@jesusredeemedme2425
I'm just messing around!
Logan is definitely a huge jerk though
Logan's probably the best fit for Rory though. I don't love Logan but Dean always felt really controlling to me. Both are cheaters though which makes Jess better
@agreeableSkies9889
I don't remember Dean cheating but I watched this with my x like a decade ago. I'll concede Jess is better. I remember particularly despising Logan. I suppose he is good for Rory though because she's also kind of morally bankrupt
Dean cheated on his wife with Rory 😞
@agreeableSkies9889
Dean is now dead to me.
I'll be honest, I'm watching it right now and I JUST made it to that episode... I completely forgot about him doing that :'(
Sorry, hope I didn't spoil it for you. It's constantly on in my house lol
I've watched the entire series many times over, no spoiler worries on my end <3
@Amanda84 @JesusRedeemedMe2425 @AiluraTheCat @RunningMachine @agreeableSkies9889
@JesusRedeemedMe2425 @AiluraTheCat @RunningMachine
Hey man, I warned y'all that I've been offline a lot lately XD
I’m big mad I was forgotten again.
You weren't forgotten <3
Sorry lol... I listen to it just had nothing to add lol. I thought it was a good song though!
@SmackyMcGee
@JesusRedeemedMe @RunningMachine @agreeableskies9889
Pay no attention to my pouting I was just joking. You're not obligated to comment to every post haha
@LadyInSilence
I know I'm sorry. I had a note in my app but it got deleted so I didn't have your account name
@Amanda84
You're still on the hook
Beautiful song and lyrics. I read the lyrics before listening to the song.
You sound better and stronger, no doubt. We miss you rambling about anything and everything 🤭
@LadyInSilence
I just had a dream that Bella was in my arms. I knew I let her go shed go back to being dead. So I stayed in that position until I woke up to go pee.
if I thought the world burning would bring her back to me, then let it burn
You miss her alot. Bella is in a better place.
We still live in this world, don’t burn us all please.
So your shoulders are getting big I hear, anyone noticing that from around you?!
@LadyInSilence
I will hold off on destroying the planet but I still can't promise I won't go full blown sith mode eventually. The harder you love the harder you grieve. Hopefully I don't drown in it
Shoulders getting big? I'm afraid I don't understand
Rock climbing, shoulders aching. Keep up with me please. I can be all over the place sometimes 😄
Yes the harder you love the harder you grief. I surely have learned that lesson. Its been 14 years since Bella gone but you seem to be floating. I must give you credit for reaching that far. Stay strong Mitch
Who's Bella?
@jesusredeemedme2425
She was my dog. She was the sweetest thing to walk the earth. I miss her dearly. It's been 14 months since she passed and I'm still not right. I dream about her a lot. I'll be ok, sorry I said that haha
No apologies. Feeling are allowed and very welcome here <3
Awww I'm so sorry :'(
@SmackyMcGee
Thought I best give it a listen at 5:30am as I was awake, musically not my taste and as I struggle with loneliness I use music to escape the feeling not be reminded of it.
@RunningMachine
Oh man, my bad. I have different playlists for different feeling; hope, joy, despair, loneliness, etc etc etc. I try to just let myself feel the way I guss but maybe I'm just ruminating.
Sorry for making you feel bad 😞
@SmackyMcGee
No problem, it's partly why I'm not on Cups as much, was spending to much time ruminating, reflecting back and feeling sorry for myself.
@LadyInSilence
I didn't forget you, I forgot your account name 😂
I just saw it on Ailuras post. Welcome to the cult
*Lurking* xD
