Personality Disorders Community Check-in: April 16th–April 22nd
Hello, PD Support Community!
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💜 How are you feeling right now?
🤍 What's a way that you might have described yourself in the past that no longer feels like it fits?
If you prefer not to answer these questions, feel free to say hello, ask for a hug, or share anything else that's on your mind. 💚
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@QuietMagic Thanks for doing a check in for us all. I hope you are well.
I'm just stopping by for hugs. Giving hugs and happily accepting hugs. 🤗👐🫂Hope everyone has a good day.
@YourCaringConfidant
@stormieandpaws Awww, yayy! ❤️ Thank you for that and big hug right back at you. 😀
@YourCaringConfidant
Thank you! Hugs for you 🤗
@QuietMagic
💜 How are you feeling right now?… Feeling Accomplished & Peaceful~.... Got in a great early-morning workout first thing this morning with some “Aqua Zumba” 💦 💃… Got all my tasks done & completed once home… And now Sitting outdoors in the Sunshine & grass with the furbaby after our Walk, just taking in the quietness & breeze of the moment together~ And of course feeling very glad that it’s Friday..(Always at peace on Fridays)~ ✌🏼
☀️Happy Weekend~ Thx for the Check-in~
@PoliteOcean
Awesome, that sounds like a super-productive/balanced day (exercise -> getting things done -> being able to relax with the furbaby 😊)
@QuietMagic
How are you feeling right now?
we having issues the storm within getting to us tonight it like mixed feelings and thoughts coming to fast if that make sense
What's a way that you might have described yourself in the past that no longer feels like it fits?
we say would be fearful of things around us we still on high alert still but not in a fearful way this changed after we moved away from family
@stormieandpaws I hope that y'all will be ok and safe from the storm. 🙏🤲
@stormieandpaws
Sorry that everything's pouring in so quickly. I remember you mentioned that before in the past that there are layers and the new layers come up when they're ready to (after the layers above that have been healed), and that feels like a really nice/comforting mindset. The storm is happening because things are going well
My other thought is that if the ones who were hiding in the caves felt comfortable coming out and checking to see if it's okay to exist, that's a sign that they're feeling safer than before. 💜 And that's pretty brave of them to take that risk of reappearing if the last time they were active, your mom was staying with you and they felt like they needed to hide
@QuietMagic
thanks we feel everything about ones mindset in the end that what move one either way as inseeing hope and healing or seeing doom and no healing we each have to take time to see what our mindset is as that important as if in doom and hopeless one will not do the work to heal as they see no point to it due to belief nothing will ever get better that healing impossible so come back to ones mindset
yes ones that were in the caves hiding did not feel safe with mom coming to visit so they moved back into the caves but now seeing that no one around to abuse them so free to come out and live life again be safe
tonight we scared feeling alone today the one online we call momma we known 20 + years we throwing up 24 hours and it was turning green so infection so we went in they found she has a twisted and blocked bowel so she going into unplanned surgery this scary for us as no want to loss her but we also was in 24/7 support chat felt unsupported by ones in their but went into sharing circle not many in there but they did support us
we know many not think one can bond with others online but with momma we did she even saved our life a few times she one helped us get to point we could move away from family too
so to us she b like a healthy mom who has showed love and support for over 20 years we scared and sad