Personality Disorders Community Check-in: February 1st-4th, 2021
Heya amazing people! We’ve made it to February, I hope this new month will bring us all plenty of good times!
Here are some essential reminders to start off the month on a good note!
How are you feeling today?
What is going well and not-so-well lately?
What other important reminders would you like to add to this list?
I can’t wait to hear from you all! If you’re not feeling like following the questions, that’s very okay you don’t have to, you can share what’s on your mind, you can say hi, you can grab a hug, whatever feels right for you! Remember that this is a safe place for you to share <3
Sending you all much love,
Waves ~
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@LinearWaves I am doing pretty okay, gonna have a job interview in a few days so I'm a little worried. Today is my 4th Cuppiversary as well! How about you, hope you're doing well?
@FinleyTews
Heya Finley! Sorry for the delay in my answer!
I hope your job interview went well if you had it already, and else I hope it goes great, lots of luck! Also happy belated cuppiversary! 4 years is a long time!
I’m doing okay thanks for asking, work is pretty busy/tiring but I can’t complain!
Thanks for checking in, take care!
Just wanted to remind you...
You is kind. You is smart. You is important.
Please keep going ❤️🌟✨
@SpeakUpMentalhealth
Lovely reminder, thanks for sharing it <3
@LinearWaves
How are you feeling today?.......Was feeling a little Over-whelmed at the start of the day b/c I had 3 appointments back to back (couldn't be scheduled any other way).. so I had to do it that way. Then had a Zumba class to instruct after it all. So I really did feel overwhelmed the night before and during the early part of the day. By the time I started to lead my class though, everything fell in place. So I felt pretty good after it all and that I didn't completely crack under the pressure! 
What is going well and not-so-well lately?....Well, mostly things are going well, I've been staying on track more with my goals recently,.. something in my life if starting to show some improvement and I could tell today,... & attendance picked up a little in my class today. So that was nice to finally see again after over a month.
As far as not going well....nothing to complain about today so will just keep it at that for now.
What other important reminders would you like to add to this list?.....Nothing that I can think of at the moment. Its rather late at this time though so my brain isn't ready to do any extra "thinking"! 
Hi, @PoliteOcean . You've had a really busy week! You deserve to congratulate yourself. It's great that you've been remaining on track with your goal. You're an attentive person when it comes to your responsibilities, I believe you will succeed in your goals because of it. Having some time to relax so your brain can reguvinate it's energy reserve will ensure you are less overwhelmed.
@FirstLight4762
Awww..thank you so very much for your positive words and feedback. I really appreciate your kindness! 
@PoliteOcean
Heya Ocean! Well done for your appointments plus class! It can be tough to have to do so many things but you nailed it so congrats! I don’t know if you see it this way, but sometimes a bit of stress before all that can have some positives as it kinda gets you ready and pushes you to accomplish things (although feeling overwhelmed definitely isn’t a positive!)
Well done on staying on track with your goals! It’s really good to hear that you’re seeing improvements, because often, the work we do pays off in the very long term and it can be hard to see results, and also hard on the motivation not to see results… Plus it’s amazing to hear that attendance has been picking up a little, I hope it stays this way!!
Thanks for checking in, take care!
@LinearWaves
1. How are you feeling today?
I was feeling bullistic today. I feel better now.
2. What is going well and not-so-well lately?
Considering my life, that question actually makes me laugh.I’ll answer the question based on one item that happened this week.We moved into a new house on Monday and were supposed to have internet.We just had it installed today, Thursday.I really needed the internet for multiple important reasons.
3. What other important reminders would you like to add to this list?
Things people say are external to you.They are not internal to you unless you let them be.
@purpleTree4652 I am proud of you being using your skills to cope effectively with the things people say to you. You are strong and resilient. <3
@purpleTree4652
Heya ! It’s good to hear you have been feeling better, I hope it stayed this way !
Internet can definitely be an issue when moving… I hope you can somehow catch up or salvage/fix what you needed internet for and hopefully now that it’s installed, it won’t bring any more problem!
This is a really important message thanks for sharing it! Do you have ways not to let these external things get internal? I know I sometimes tend to struggle with that!
Thanks for checking in, take care!
@LinearWaves, i am trying to draw a fence between me and the other person, then just walk away. If their comments are external to me, then I can walk away from the comments and the person.
How are you feeling today?
Iv'e been more anxious than usual today but I guess I'm doing a bit better now.
What is going well and not-so-well lately?
I've been feeling more prepared to move out but my addiction's been staying just as bad as usual.
What other important reminders would you like to add to this list?
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@TheMeadowSystem I'm sorry that you have been struggling with your addiction. I don't blame you. I's not easy to cope with stress in life.
@TheMeadowSystem
Heya ! It’s good to hear that you’ve been doing a bit better regarding anxiety ! Do you think something specific caused you to feel more anxiety?
It’s good to hear that you’ve been feeling more prepared! I’m not sure to fully understand and I don’t want to assume anything wrong, is moving out related to your addiction in some way?
As for your addiction, I’m sorry to hear it’s been as bad as usual… Addictions are tough to cope with, are there some coping mechanisms that help or have helped you in the past?
Thanks for checking in, take care!