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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic November 21st, 2025

Hello, PD Support Community!

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💙 What have you been thinking about lately?

💚 What's something important or life-altering that's happened in the past year or so?

If you prefer not to answer these questions, feel free to say hello, ask for a hug, or share anything else that's on your mind. 🧡


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User Profile: daydreammemories
daydreammemories November 21st, 2025

@QuietMagic

💙 What have you been thinking about lately?
a lot of stuff, mostly academic, jobs, here and family xd

💚 What's something important or life-altering that's happened in the past year or so?
probably entering my internship 2 months ago

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP November 23rd, 2025

@daydreammemories

That sounds busy! Props for being able to keep all of those plates spinning 😊

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User Profile: CelticStar7
CelticStar7 November 22nd, 2025

I became a parent

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP November 23rd, 2025

@CelticStar7

Congratulations! 🎉🎊🎈 That would definitely qualify as important/life-altering 😊

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User Profile: peacefulvibes96
peacefulvibes96 November 23rd, 2025

@QuietMagic 

💙 What have you been thinking about lately?
Family trip to Colorado, possibly losing long-term friendships, dealing with negative MH symptoms

💚 What's something important or life-altering that's happened in the past year or so?
Finding a new job, dealing with multiple mental health struggles
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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP November 25th, 2025

@peacefulvibes96

Hi there, sorry that things have been a struggle lately. 💜 (I'm curious about what's happening with the long-term friendships and mental health, but also don't want to be overly nosy.)

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User Profile: peacefulvibes96
peacefulvibes96 November 25th, 2025

@QuietMagic it's a long story, but it's mostly my fault. Basically, my friends are very sensitive, I made them uncomfortable, and I gossiped to strangers about them when I shouldn't. I also lost my job today, so I'm struggling for real. Thanks for your kind words

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws November 24th, 2025

@QuietMagic

 What have you been thinking about lately?

health  stuff and apartment stuff another inspection to day this one by HUD but we think management behind   this so hoping we not getting evicted or some other thing but she said the manger that apartment looked a lot better then before and we had other  government people in apartment within last two weeks so we will see what happens 

💚 What's something important or life-altering that's happened in the past year or so?

for us it  a change in our health it got worst some new things added to it too this our physical health so we having to ajust to the new health issues too 


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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP November 25th, 2025

@stormieandpaws

Hi there, I hope the surgeries are finished for now. 💜 Yeah, it does feel a little suspicious that HUD would show up, though on the other hand if the manager said that things looked a lot better then that feels like a pretty positive sign.

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws November 25th, 2025

@QuietMagic

it went well they moved up  the HUD inspection that would have been in april 2026 they trying to get everyone on same day that has HUD in our apartment park to make less trips to the apartment park he said it looks like better then last time he was here and well that is great take worry off us 

so we glad it was not management  trying to get  HUD on her side as we have no were to move also really like it here due to ground floor and they do all yard work also all snow removal i too we not have to do any of that stuff

so lot relieved  now but am very sore due to crawling around to do  cleaning on floors so time to try to heal up the sores and bruises again

 hope you doing well thank you 

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User Profile: QuietMagic
QuietMagic OP November 26th, 2025

@stormieandpaws

Glad to hear it went well! (And now you can recover in peace from the cleaning, knowing that you're probably not getting evicted. 💜) That makes sense that HUD wasn't targeting you specifically (or reacting to a complaint from management) but rather they just needed to do routine inspections for the entire apartment park and it made sense to push everyone up sooner for efficiency reasons.

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User Profile: stormieandpaws
stormieandpaws November 27th, 2025

@QuietMagic

thanks just we allowed free to take over we lost apartment  before not evictions  but for other reasons we end up back with family each time so not homeless in away but each time added more abuse and put downs from members of family  so that the root of our fear of lossing apartment but  we can no longer move back in with family so we end up homeless so yes it makes sense now but at the time letter came it did not 

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