Personality Disorders Community Check-in: November 20th–November 26th
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💙 What have you been thinking about lately?
💚 What's something important or life-altering that's happened in the past year or so?
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@QuietMagic
💙 What have you been thinking about lately?
a lot of stuff, mostly academic, jobs, here and family xd
💚 What's something important or life-altering that's happened in the past year or so?
probably entering my internship 2 months ago
@QuietMagic
@peacefulvibes96
Hi there, sorry that things have been a struggle lately. 💜 (I'm curious about what's happening with the long-term friendships and mental health, but also don't want to be overly nosy.)
@QuietMagic it's a long story, but it's mostly my fault. Basically, my friends are very sensitive, I made them uncomfortable, and I gossiped to strangers about them when I shouldn't. I also lost my job today, so I'm struggling for real. Thanks for your kind words
@QuietMagic
What have you been thinking about lately?
health stuff and apartment stuff another inspection to day this one by HUD but we think management behind this so hoping we not getting evicted or some other thing but she said the manger that apartment looked a lot better then before and we had other government people in apartment within last two weeks so we will see what happens
💚 What's something important or life-altering that's happened in the past year or so?
for us it a change in our health it got worst some new things added to it too this our physical health so we having to ajust to the new health issues too
@stormieandpaws
Hi there, I hope the surgeries are finished for now. 💜 Yeah, it does feel a little suspicious that HUD would show up, though on the other hand if the manager said that things looked a lot better then that feels like a pretty positive sign.
@QuietMagic
it went well they moved up the HUD inspection that would have been in april 2026 they trying to get everyone on same day that has HUD in our apartment park to make less trips to the apartment park he said it looks like better then last time he was here and well that is great take worry off us
so we glad it was not management trying to get HUD on her side as we have no were to move also really like it here due to ground floor and they do all yard work also all snow removal i too we not have to do any of that stuff
so lot relieved now but am very sore due to crawling around to do cleaning on floors so time to try to heal up the sores and bruises again
hope you doing well thank you
@stormieandpaws
Glad to hear it went well! (And now you can recover in peace from the cleaning, knowing that you're probably not getting evicted. 💜) That makes sense that HUD wasn't targeting you specifically (or reacting to a complaint from management) but rather they just needed to do routine inspections for the entire apartment park and it made sense to push everyone up sooner for efficiency reasons.
@QuietMagic
thanks just we allowed free to take over we lost apartment before not evictions but for other reasons we end up back with family each time so not homeless in away but each time added more abuse and put downs from members of family so that the root of our fear of lossing apartment but we can no longer move back in with family so we end up homeless so yes it makes sense now but at the time letter came it did not