Boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up!
Hey y’all, ny boyfriend and I broke up last week. We share an apartment and 2 dogs. I don’t have a car so he still offered to take me to work and pay the rent for me so I could save. We really love eachother but he left to work on himself. He also told me he needs to be alone because He doesn’t think he is good enough for me. He feels very overwhelmed. His dad told me i need to give him space and show him I can be independent and that he will probably come back. I miss him so much and believe he’s the one! What should I do? I want to work on myself too and told him this could be good for us if he decides to come back and he said “thats good i agree, that’s attractive. Stay strong”. I dont wanna lose him!
Hi, I understand how this is as I’m also going through a breakup too, and it’s incredibly hard. I agree that It’s important to try and work on yourself for the time being. Focusing on yourself will not only take your mind off of it and help to heal, but it’ll also help you become the version of yourself that you want to be. Once you both have healed and worked on yourself then it would be better to discuss the possibility of getting back together. If you both fit after some space, then maybe it is meant to be or could be that you grow separately. This is something that only time can tell. But in the meantime, don’t be so hard on yourself and take care of yourself.