I did it! He's out of my house and out of state.
I did it! I started packing to move to my parents house, and he realized that he couldn't pay the bills or support himself without me. He called a friend several states away and asked to stay in his spare room.
It was really scary and he was really angry, but my parents helped me and my dog get out for the night so he could leave. He couldn't take our big tv with him (the only thing he cared about besides his Playstation) so I bought it and the rest of our joint property from him and made him sign a contract stating such. He called me a fu@$<ng bi^$h several times that day.
He's still trying to talk to me so that he can blame me for his problems, but I've asked him to stop and am prepared to file a restraining order if I have to.
He dragged my name through the mud on his way out to his family and friends, but it doesn't matter.
I'm still standing and it's going to be okay.
Congratulations! You were incredibly brave to do what you've done, you are very strong, and with this strength I'm sure you'll be able to make yourself a new, happy life! You stood you're ground and didn't let him ruin your life, you claimed your freedom back, and with a strength like yours you'll be able to do great things with your life.
You're truly an inspiration! <3