I wanna move on

I have no advice hunni...but I feel your pain xx

Something my therapist told me is that we need to go through the grief and pain in order to heal and to learn the lessons. Unfortunately there are no shortcuts. It’s frustrating because we just want to feel better but sometimes things just take time. Make sure to take care of yourself in the meantime though, connect with friends/family, journal, meditate, exercise, get therapy or counseling if you can and set goals for yourself. I’m going through a difficult breakup (after 9 years together and we broke up 4 months ago, still love him) and just want to move on too but I remind myself to be patient and gentle with myself. Sending you positive vibes 💜

@TheBunBun Sometimes people need to work on themselves before they can make a relationship work. If you both still talk then be supportive and encourage him while he works on his mental issues but don't be too smothering either. He may have to work on whatever it is himself but positive reinforcement is always good and there may be options down the road for each other again.