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I am new, beckybush.  

@ASilentObserver hi, 👋🏾 I’m Zee and what brings me here is lack of trust in my relationship and infidelity by my partner. The thing I like most about myself is that I am a strong person and I don’t let anything or anybody tear me down! 

Hi,

I'm Butterfly and I just joined the community. In the last year, I've dealt with an emotional rollercoaster that has ultimately ended. While I should feel relieved, I feel hurt and stressed and sick. My ex used the silent treatment as a form of emotional abuse many times during our time together, and has now outright ghosted me. It hurts the most because there is no closure. It's like an investment; but instead of giving your money, you gave your heart. And right now, in that regard, I feel very poor. 

I'm hoping this new journey will lead to new enlightenment, a new perspective, and ultimately, a happy and healthy path forward. 

I look forward to connecting with everyone, and am grateful to be here.

Love and light,

Butterfly 🦋

@ASilentObserver

Hi~ newly joined... (I had an acct for a while but was inactive on it...) 

I suppose my question is would the "Relationship" need to be a 1on1 type or can "relationship" be a generic, relationship with the community, around me... basically interaction with society?...

Thx~

Hiii I joined this app 2 days ago. Extremely anxious girly, especially regarding relationships. Going through heartbreak at this moment and I don't handle that well and I recognize my codependency and the way my world shatters when I'm anxious about a relationship and preoccupation with relationships is not healthy. I really want to be better. One thing I like about myself ummm the fact that I'm self-aware I guess lol. Here's to healing

I'm pretty sure I posted to the wrong group before. I think I'm meant to be here.

I'm here because I love my partner but we clash quite strongly on some things. I don't think my partner deserves to hear all my very sided feeling when he is actually very smart and attractive. I don't want to be the bossy boss. I don't think my partner wants a new boss, either. I'm trying what I can to keep a good attitude and be creative with healthy examples of my opinion, or what I believe is "the" opinion...

Hello I'm YoungRestles. :)

Not sure if I'm in the right place. I'm booklover36 cuz well....I love books and I'm 36. 

What brings me here is a conglomeration of things. Financial stress which has led to relationship stress, but my own "relationship" is kind of weird to begin with because it isn't a traditional relationship in any sense. But all that aside, I'm trying to keep it together and be a strong, kind, caring best friend, but we're both going through a lot of things right now and even my person has said my behavior in general has really gone downhill since about September. And admittedly I do catch myself being careless or thoughtless a lot more lately, not even intentionally. There's no malicious intent behind anything, I just get too in my own head, too worked up, too stressed, and it causes me to space out and do things that are well....inconsiderate or thoughtless. 

@ASilentObserver, hi! I just joined. I’ve been with my husband for 18 years. We have two kids and a dog. We haven’t been fine for quite some time but that’s never affected our sex life and today I realized it finally did. I’m exhausted of pulling the weight for our marriage and family. He has checked out and now is going to therapy because I told him it’s over and I’m leaving. I haven’t left and I’m still here. I’m heart broken he won’t fight for us and won’t fight for me.