One Thing I Want To Change About Myself
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If you get a chance to change one thing about yourself, what will it be and why? 
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I wish I would be a little more proactive. I feel I could be doing much more than what I am. I cannot figure out if I Am like this, or I have Become like this, either way I want to change this, I wish I could change it.
@plumBeechwood7549 We can do this Plum. We are with you to support this mission. Any plans on how could we get started?
@ASilentObserver
Thank you for your message. I guess I could try by getting started on a routine.
@ASilentObserver
If I had to change one thing, I would change my quick reaction to everything. Sometimes it does me a lot of good, when I don't have much time to think. But more often than not, I end up reacting to some things too fast and say something without thinking. I would have never said it if I actually thought about the consequences, but somehow I don't usually do that.
That's something I would really love to change in myself. "Think, then talk" is waayyy easier said than done!
@Emirson2018 I can relate to it Emir and agree. Easier said than done but probably we could try to be mindful and practice it until it become a habit.
If you get a chance to change one thing about yourself, what will it be and why?
stop self sabotaging when things get rough.
@LPyMP that is a good thing to change LP. any plans on how could we do it?
@ASilentObserver
For starters stop letting self doubt self loathing and that annoying as shit negative voice in the far reaches of my mind pipe in it's ugly little opinion.
Be much more confident in myself and dammit ask for help whenever I need it. I'm learning that asking for help is not a weakness but a sign of strength.
And learn to recognize my triggers as far as when I'm falling or almost falling into my destructive pattern and skittaddle the fuck out of that path before I even start it.
I have trust issue but if I could change I want to trust everyone without giving much thought. Want to explore without fear of hurt and wanna stop over thinking.
@orangeSpruce8973 hmm I hear ya Orange. It is not easy to trust someone after past betrayals and bitter experiences. It makes hard to trust anyone but I guess we need to keep trying because trust is the first step in communicating and building relationships
yeah thanks @ASilentObserver for your kind words and understanding soul. i will try my best.
I want to change my way of thinking, acting. I want to be more, but it's like I'm on auto pilot and i can't get to manual. I want to tell myself i can do something and actually do it.
If there was one thing that I could change about myself would be to have better health.
@ASilentObserver
My name is Zuleika. I would like to change my tough side and bad aditude. Sometimes I do have to use it when I go out with my friends or to a bar/nightclub. But I have learned how to control it and not react as much. I would also like to try people a chance when they talk to me and not smartasssing them so they will leave me alone.
I want to be able to take firm decisions. I'm always second guessing myself.
@ASilentObserver
I think I would try to change my shyness and procrastination