Relationship Stress Community: Check-In (December 4 - December 17)
Hello there, Relationship Stress Community!
As December has arrived, the holidays are getting even closer… 🎅🏻❄️
To start off this week…
How are you feeling today?
What is your ideal date?
This or that! Hot chocolate or hot tea?
Excited to hear from all of you! Have a great week ahead <3
[white bear jumping around in excitement with hearts coming out of its head]
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@KateDoskocilova
How are you feeling today?
I am doing quite alright today!What is your ideal date?
My ideal date would be to watch the sunset while having chocolate, or a nice drink (non-alcoholic)This or that! Hot chocolate or hot tea?
I honestly cannot choose! But if I had to, I'd choose hot choco :3
@KateDoskocilova
Katey Kate!! It's nice to see you lurking around here again 🤣💗 This is such a fun forum thread, like usual! I am very happy to have the opportunity to answer your questions. 😁
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How are you feeling today?
Today is filled with tedious tasks that I have to finish, but it's going amazing because I just finished watching a movie and eating popcorn! That is just my way of motivating myself. I have been a lot happier than usual these days, and it's all thanks to this program and its amazing communities!
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This or that! Hot chocolate or hot tea?
I would definitely choose hot chocolate! It makes me feel satisfyingly warm, and it somehow always tastes SCRUMPTIOUS! Honestly, I would choose it over all hot drinks, especially during winter! I love seeking warmth from it. 🤣
I hope you're having a wonderful day, Katey!! 🤗
~ Xaverie
@crypticwhisperss1 so happy to be seeing you again, Xaverie!! 🥰
tedious tasks sound quite a lot :o but i am glad you are finding ways to cheer yourself up!! so happy to have you here in the community :33
and i agree! hot chocolate is really the perfect winter drink!
@KateDoskocilova
Thank you so much, Kate! Your replies truly made my day! I have many projects to do, and I also have an academic document that I have to finish typing within a few hours. It has to be in the language that I am typically slow at, but I am getting through it! I can feel the motivation in me! I appreciate your support and kindness, Katey! I am even happier to be on this community. It's been a pleasure! (Hot chocolate team for life! 💪🏻) 😁💕
How are you feeling today?
Feeling OK for the most part. Felt some sharp pain earlier and ended up taking an Advil and some edibles... I just have a busy mind and try to distract it with other things.
What is your ideal date?
As corny as it sounds, my ideal date is surprising my partner and taking him to a place I think he would really like to go! I love making my significant other happy. He says he's a homebody mostly, so I'm thinking of maybe cooking a nicer meal from my mother's home country, and getting more furniture in my minimalist, temporary apartment to make it more cozy and inviting.
I've gotten some things for his stay, such as body wash, conditioner, beard wash, and toothbrush/tooth paste. I was going to buy him some clothes too, for when he stayed, but he ended up buying it himself. I just helped a bit here and there with my input(if he wanted it lol).
I want to do more for him if I can, considering he's done a lot for me. He pretty much met me at one of my lowest points in my life, which makes me feel bad that I don't have what I used to have... I can't spoil him really as I don't make the same amount I used to... My brain isn't all there anymore either nor my health 100%. I need to work on those things.
This or that! Hot chocolate or hot tea?
Hot chocolate while cuddling with my significant other and playing videogames or watching videos.
@ImpudentIncognito thank you so much for your sweet answers, cognito!! very happy to see you here 🥰❄️
@KateDoskocilova
Hey there Kate~
How are you feeling today? …..Feeling well… been a busy day.
What is your ideal date?…..Getting out and about doing something we enjoy together….Eating dinner (preferably Out since I’m not cooking! Lol), …. good conversation, taking in a good sight, maybe a drive, and maybe a good movie.
This or that! Hot chocolate or hot tea?….Definitely Hot Chocolate (I’ve actually been having that Almost daily for the past week!
@PoliteOcean thank you for your sweet response, Ocean!
@KateDoskocilova
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How are you feeling today?
I am alright today. Got somethings done but could have gotten more done. It is what it is though and there is always tomorrow.
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What is your ideal date?
My ideal date involves delicious food, chatting/laughing while enjoying the sunset.
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This or that! Hot chocolate or hot tea?
Hot tea all the way. :)
@CherryBerryPie haha indeed, theres always tomorrow!
@KateDoskocilova
Good post Kate! Thank you.
How are you feeling today?
I feel judgmental.
What is your ideal date?
Something active like a bike ride or longboard/skateboard at the skatepark, hitting the climbing wall or going for a round of frisbee or regular golf.
Then an epic Mario Cart showdown on a projector where I'll see how good of a loser they are because I win at that game every time.
And then some karaoke because it's important to see how seriously someone takes themselves and their ability to have fun and step outside their comfort zone.
This or that! Hot chocolate or hot tea?
I mean I say hot chocolate every time but I'm needing to do more self care. So will grudgingly pick hot tea. :-( ☕
Thanks again Kate 😀
@communicativePond1728 i hear you. what’s making you feel judgemental?
your ideal date idea sounds quite nice! i like it :D doing something active and then having fun with mario kart and a karaoke is really cool!
thats oki, hot tea is also rather nice :3
thank you for your response!