Do you forgive someone's mistakes easily?
umm i used too but not anymore :p @fancifulPainting19
@fancifulPainting19
this is a nice question to discuss paintings.
I usually try my best to forgive because I find it hard to carry the baggage and focus on my tasks. It constantly keeps me thinking and lead to unwanted stress. So I try to resonate to convince my mind to forgive and move on.
But sometimes it is really hard for me to forgive and forget because somewhere they have a huge impact on me and I feel not ready to forgive them for what they did. So, I struggle.
I guess it depends on the situation and the person.
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If someone apologised and meant it, I might forgive them. Overall I'm not a very forgiving person in general though...
@ItsReganingRain makes sense, Rain. So how do you figure out if they really meant and apologizing?
Glad to see you again. How are you doing?
@ASilentObserver I'm pretty stressed but in a couple of hours I'll be okay.
It's a lot to do with things like body language and tone of voice (that I can understand). I admit that I'm not very good with these things, and mostly it's just apologising at all because most people don't bother.
@ItsReganingRain I am sorry to hear you feeling stressed. If you like, you can vent it, I am here with you.
I agree with you. Body language and tone of voice reflects the person's intentions and you can understand these if you are observing them. I appreciate how observing you are to figure out this.
I guess nobody is perfect in observing but I appreciate your efforts to do. Keep it going <3 We could really learn one or two things about observing from you.
@ASilentObserver Thanks. I'm about to do an exam that I know I'm going to fail, but I feel oddly calm and panicked at the same time. It's really weird.
Yes I forgive easily but never forget 🤭
@Feepersane hmm i guess that is what we all need to do. Fee thank you
Yes I forgive easily. However their actions moving forward dictates how close I am with them.
@Wittie96 that makes sense Witie. Their future actions really define how the relationship going to be
@fancifulPainting19
that all depends. On what they did that needs to be forgiven.
@crazycountry210 hmm, that makes sense Crazy. It could depend upon the situation whether they deserve to be forgiven or not.
No, Usually i don't forgive.
If someone have let me down i take into account such action duly noted, and if anything happens in the future i'll let him/her remember such action until the end of days.
@JohnDoe00 hmm, makes sense John. Forgiving is not easy.
@ASilentObserver Never is, so i better opted out to never forvgive.
Since i tend to not forget things i can take into account what have they done and see them suffer.
for the most part :)
@Mellietronx okay Mellie. got it
@fancifulPainting19
I tend to forgive but it takes me a long time for my trust to rebuild
@Amber555 that is right Amber. Building the same level of trust takes time and I guess it is never the same.
I always did, love is above mistakes
@SakoombaKero
You said it best
@SakoombaKero hmm, quite a big-hearted person you are Kero <3