Any advice

I’ve been dealing with a guy off and on for the last year he is older (35) and I am(28)I met him off a dating site last year and we matched immediately he started messaging me repeatedly and calling me through the app repeatedly so finally I responded and he told me that he liked what he saw and that he was interested in getting to know me so for the first 3 days he would constantly call me or text me through out the day even when I told him I was busy at work or that I would respond when I get a chance he still would try to text and call and once I explained to him that I’m not attached to my phone 24/7 he got upset but he got over it so everything seemed okay until he started saying he wanted to get married(we have only been talking 4 days at this point)I told him let’s get to know one another first he advised me that we can do that when we are married and also he was talking about kids having kids with 3 weeks.I told him that things were moving too fast and that I think he needed to find someone who fits his needs and he proceeded to ask me was I dumping him (I did not know

We were official!) and after I insisted that he move on he tells me that he loves me

I told him to just move on and he never responded.i blocked him on the dating app 3 weeks later he figured out I blocked him and he makes a new profile and reaches out to me asking me for forgiveness and that he made a mistake and too give him another chance to make a good impression so for like 3 days everything was going okay then he started wanting me to sleep with him and Wanting to have threesomes I am more

Of an monogamous type of woman (I do not

Judge other peoples lifestyles)and at the time I worked in retail part time he had a issue with that he didn’t want guys looking at me all or me speaking to the opposite sex didn’t like the fact that although we had the same car model his was a 2015 Honda Accord and mine was a 2019 Honda Accord he didn’t like that mine was newer than his .i caught him still being on the dating site while supposedly wanting to be with me

I would ask him to take me out on a date and also get a Std test before I become intimate with him he refused both and would not even consider wearing a condom .he said he was too old to be hanging out but yet he would go out to the clubs with this brother but made every excuse as too why he couldn’t take me out unless we go to a strip club.or a hotel And also he made comments toward my weight and that I needed too lose weight!:( So I again ceases Contact andThis off and on would continue until January where again he contacts me again same

Old same old I told him what I wanted I wanted a date to be treated like somebody and I wanted to get to know him

Seriously but again he would say things then do the opposite .after I refused the threesome again. He left me on read and did notRespond to me so I blocked

And changed my number and 7 months went by and he reached out to me In September via dating app stating his missed me very much and that he was sorry and wants another shot we talked for 2 days and all he could

Talk About was sex sex and that he did not

Sleep With anyone the whole time we were not talking and I told him That I would love to move forward and start clean but I would prefer to be taken out on a real date and let’s start to build a relationship I found out he was talking to another girl at this point I am mad and I did not speak to

Him and 1 Month later he texts me

And says he thought I was ignoring him and following it up with texts Messages back to back and finally he called me but I did not answer I am Tired I told him that if I find somebody and move on how would he feel ? He told me that he would be mad and that he will not get over it ! And while we were having a norMal conversation I must have said something that made him

Upset he ghosted me mid conversation and did not respond or call me until

The next day and I ended up

Apologizing to him because I felt

Like I did something wrong and all he said was okay .he told me he wants 1

Child but he do not like kids and I told him I’m not ready itsThings I still want to accomplish and that I enjoy having no kids too Look after he told me that that’s why he is going To give me a baby so that way I will not have any freedom!i am so tired I do not know what to do or feel I have never dealt with someone like this before

It’s new to me he says he loves me but In the same breathe has not taking me out on any dates I’ have blocked him for

Good This time I just so emotionally drained and confused I do not know what to do

I haven’t had many relationships maybe 1

But that was back in high school

This is my first adult situation does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this ?