I don’t know how to take this can someone help
Hey
I wanna share something and hopefully get some advice. I’ve had feelings from a guy I’ve been working with for just under a year. Very strong feelings of which couldn’t be acted on or spoke of due to him being in a relationship. We are good friends and speak often.
he has messaged me today saying he is going to break up with his current partner. I really don’t know how to feel. He’s younger than me and after being in a long term relationship I’m assuming he wants to be on his own and go on a hoe phase type situation but I’m unsure.
I really like him, and I also really want to maintain that close friendship we have as we both benefit from it. I don’t know how to act from here on out or what my expectations should be if any.
@lovingBirch549 Aww that is such a tricky situation, I see you like him so much and he's now single, but you don't know if he likes you because he just broke up and would probably need time, and it's perfectly okay. Thing is, you can support him and be there for him, without expecting a relationship early, because like you said, he may not be ready for it at the moment.
@lovingBirch549
He messaged you just as a friend or was it letting you know he was single again......... perhaps a bit of both.
I always find the talk of timing or if he/ she are in a relationship etc........ i see most people met their spouse or partner when they were with someone else ... and if and when a connection happens it is not about timing in comparison to other relationships
