Happiness in Friendship
Finding "our tribe" or having a so-called best friend is one of the happiness in life. It creates a sense of belonging and purpose.
Having a good friend is believed to help reduce stress and improve self-confidence and self-worth.
What are things that can build a meaningful long lasting friendship?
Share one tip on how to make a new friend.
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@ouiCherie
Great question! So many thoughts and such great input so far. For me...
1. What are things that can build a meaningful long lasting friendship? For me, it’s quality over the quantity. It’s about feeling connected to someone despite all the external factors that prevent us from hanging out more often (job, family, even other social activities or friends). When you value the time spent together and there’s no judgment – this is an unconditional friendship that will stand the test of time. With my best friend, we pick up like it was only yesterday when we last saw one another, and that is a great feeling.
Share one tip on how to make a new friend. We all desire to be heard, and in order for that to happen, we need to listen. I spend a lot of time interacting with new people by asking them questions and trying to understand more about who they are. A potential friend will start to ask me same or similar questions in return, rather than simply remaining in interview mode. It’s during that open and mutual sharing of lives and experiences that I usually place someone into my potential friend zone. I’m happy to continue interacting with anyone at a casual level, but deeper friendships are formed when there is genuine, two-way communication.
@MidwesternCalmSeeker
Couldn't agree more. Quality over quantity. Your friendship reminds me of my own 😊 and that's a great tip on making a new friend. Everyone needs those pair of ears and heart that listen without judgment. And see if they care enough to be one too. Thanks Mia!
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What are things that can build a meaningful long lasting friendship?
I think you can find the most compatible friendships doing things that you enjoy. When you find something mutually enjoyable, you are more than likely to bump into someone who you can connect with. That's my 2 cents for today. 😊
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Share one tip on how to make a new friend.
Ditto the above. If you are doing what you love, that's where you will find common ground with others. Beyond that, don't put up immediate blocks to a relationship just because there's a few differences between you. There's too much black and white - right and left, going on in our world. We're loosing the point of connectivity, how it really works. We all have our individual beliefs, likes, dislikes, values etc etc. Let people have their own voice. Listen. Be kind. Be tolerant. If it doesn't cross a deal-breaker-line in your value system, be tolerant. You could be walking away from a soul sister/brother who can love you dearly and at the same time challenge you to think and explore.
@EmbStitcher33
That's a cool one Stitcher! Things in common but be tolerant with differences as long as it doesn't cross a deal-breaker-line in your value system. 💙
What are things that can build a meaningful long lasting friendship? Honesty and trust. Sometimes you have to make compromises. If there's something that they do that upsets you be straight forward and talk with them about it. Most people don't do well with hints. If there's something you don't understand - ask questions don't just jump to conclusions
Share one tip on how to make a new friend. Take it slowly. It takes time to get to know people. Some people take longer than others. Don't go into it expecting anything. Maybe with time it will be a deeper level of friendship but be open to just being casual friends too. Everyone's needs are different
@mytwistedsoul whoa! ⭐️ If I could pin this I would 😍
@ouiCherie 😊
@ouiCherie
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What are things that can build a meaningful long lasting friendship?
respect,trust,kindness,humor,empathy
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Share one tip on how to make a new friend.
going to community events or taking a new class putting yourself out there,
@magicalOcean594 love every bit! Creative as always, Sara 😊💙
@ouicherie
i never actually thought of myself as creative but if the shoe fits! :p
thank you, thats a huge compliment as i said i never think im very creative <3
@ouiCherie
What are things that can build a meaningful long lasting friendship? communication, kindness, patience, honesty
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Share one tip on how to make a new friend.
find communities that share common interest :)
@Mellietronx
beautifully said, Mellie! 🥰🙏🏻
True friendship is truly a divine gift.
It is built on selflessness, trust, being there for each other.
It is fostered and strengthed by being a heartful listener and nurturing your bond beyond any agenda and more of giving than receiving.
@ouiCherie
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What are things that can build a meaningful long lasting friendship?
One thing is to be there for each friend, let them know that you are there for them anytime as they would be there for you.
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Share one tip on how to make a new friend.
Introduce yourself to someone new, make them feel their welcome whether it is to the neighborhood or a place you go to a lot.
@ouiCherie
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What are things that can build a meaningful long-lasting friendship?
trust, understanding, acceptance, being there...
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Share one tip on how to make a new friend.
Be your spontaneous and natural self ...
