I don't care about my friends anymore
If my friends all moved cities, I don't think I would care at all. At lunchtime, I just sit there, not saying anything, because I don't want to be annoying (people always tell me I talk too much). They're always whispering and never tell me things. It doesn't upset me; I don't care at all. The whispering stuff makes them sound bad; they're actually good, nice, likable people. We have no common interests at all.
I used to care about them, I used to think I was in the best group of friends ever. I don't know what has happened.
Should I keep sitting with them, just because they haven't done anything wrong and it'd be weird to suddenly leave? Should I start an argument over a little thing and leave? (just so I have a reason) Should I just be like 'hey guys im gonna chill by myself' and get lost?
@orangedog12 Your situation is unique to you so I don't think it would be helpful of me to give you specific advice on what you should do. Rather, out of the different options you outlined above which do you think would be the most beneficial for you?
@orangedog12
Are they really friends of yours or did they just accepted you into there group its up to you who you hang out with during lunch are they being mean if so just say hey sorry gotta go somewhere for awhile I'll see you around your the only person who can stand up to them and the only one who.can make the choice if they are really your friends why whisper to each other why not talk amongst each other get everyone involved in the conversation not leave you out true friends don't whisper to each other about each other that's rude and not nice at all if you don't want to hang out with them tell them if you don't feel comfortable around them just walk away if they ask where your going just say going to do something for awhile you don't have to sit there and feel like your the odd one out its not right hope this helps Best of luck :)
@orangedog12 It sounds like maybe you and your friends have grown apart. Sometimes you "grow out of" people, or your interests change and over time you don't have much to talk about with them like you used to. It doesn't mean that you don't have the ability to care, though - I'm sure if they gave you a reason to care, you would! I will agree with the others who have replied that only you know what's best for the situation. Are you sure isolating yourself from them would be the best idea for you? Maybe you can try to encourage a friendship with someone more like you. Whatever you decide to do, just take your time to think through it and how it will really affect you first. Best of luck to you and let me know if you need a listener.
Thanks everyone! Your replies really helped. I will keep thinking about it. On days they are being difficult, I think I will just go and read and see how I feel about that.
