One quality I look for in a friend is.....
Open minded. I don't want negative and ignorant people in my life anymore.
Loyalty!
A goof listener. Someone you can talk to, and someone you can share the quiet with (no talking required)
That the friendship is 50/50. Not me being a doormat and them taking and taking from me.
It is OKAY to not be 50/50 ALL the time bc we will have different needs at the time - but, in the end - if i feel that they give and take as much as I give and take and NO ONE is a doormat - that is a true friendship....errr, one of the most important qualities.
Wasted too much of my life not putting up boundaries, being taken for granted and giving and giving and getting nothing back in return.
@blissedNblessed I feel exactly the same way! Good hearted people need to find other ways to spend time doing things that make them feel good and not worry about everyone else who you do everything for but they don
Trustworthy. I've never experienced any trauma related to trust, I just hate being lied to. It also makes me sad when my friends don't find me trustworthy enough to tell me things sometimes.
Kindness, compassion, authenticity.
Someone who can relate and love the stuff i love
I look for someone who is open and is willing to stay through the tough times
I look for kindness, Forgivesness, trust, sometimes love, and companionship
Someone who values effective altruism. Someone who really will stick together and let me console them and have them console me. So and so.
@TeleportingAdeel thats perfectly put to words
