I want you to know that you are better than me
Hello everyone,
I hope you guys are doing well and I understand many of you are going through stress and problems in your relationships but I think what I will write here today will make you feel alot better for sure. Im a male whos 26 years old, I've never a partner in my life , and I've never even gone out on a date in my life. Ive been called and still get called ugly by men, women, elderly, kids and even my own parents. Tbh at first I believed these ppl but I used it as motivation to do better in life, went to university , graduated and got a high paying job and now doing a masters part time. Own my own car and got my first house. Started going to the gym, became more confident in my life, maintained a good hygiene but I realized that many people never really care about those things now, its more of whats on the outside than the inside. Women told that im a great guy and amazing but its my face they dont like. They also dont like that im 26 and still a virgin as they see that a symbol of loser and weakness(alot of ppl make fun of me for that). Ive asked out 200 women in my life time and all said no which is okay, its there choice. I am giving on relationships as of today and will be single forever which isnt fine by me but we cant get everything in life. I wanted to share this because I know many of you have relationships problems. Just remember that if you've had a relationship in your life than you are better than me and I can never be as good as you. You guys deserve love in your life and I really hope you find it. I hope knowing that you are better than me made u feel better about yourself . Take care! ❤️🩷
@diplomaticBirch7532 hi there! thank you a lot for sharing this with us. <3
No problem!! I hope this made you feel alot better Kate!! If it did Im soo happy. My goal is to put other peoples happiness before mine. :)
Hello. You are doing everything that you need to do to live a perfect life but still there are things that we can not change.
I wish you all the luck. Stay strong and stay happy.
Yeah I guess the life I have is not attractive towards other ppl which sucks. Oh well!! Im not really happy so idk if i can stay strong.
Hey, that sounds really tough and im sorry that you're experiencing this. It seems like you're doing your best to work on yourself and still it doesn't seem to have an effect. I understand that this can be very discouraging and unfortunately i dont have much advice I can offer, but in the end personality is what matters most in a relationship. As you said there have been girls liking you for personality already, so i hope you will eventually meet someone who loves your personality, because people like that do exist. Wishing you lots of luck, focus on doing what you enjoy for now.
@diplomaticBirch7532
Sounds like they don't know what they're missing.
Nah, I'm not better than you... I've made deep connections in relationships... And none have gone all the way to marriage or anything, but the real regret I have is that I wasn't ready for a single one of them. Mostly I screwed up in them. Also, I "lost my virginity" to someone I felt no real attraction to, physical or otherwise... I only did it because I felt similarly to what you're saying. Basically, what I'm getting at, is I've made a lot of mistakes. You might feel that I've at least had my chance and got to try things, but none of that really matters, and you probably already know that deep down too. It's what we make of it. You've got your own story, and I hope it doesn't have to keep being a lonely one, but I bet your story is a heck of a lot more interesting than that of someone who judges someone for not having slept with anyone.