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Does anyone else’s partner use onlyfans? I think it’s cheating but my partner doesn’t, his also talking to people he knows personally on onlyfans in a sexual manner..?
@Bkx
I'm sorry that you feel so excluded!
This is of course cheating.
Talking to any other person, whose not your partner in a sexual way and looking at their intimate pictures is wrong!
I guarantee if the shoe was on the other foot, he would have plenty to say.
You deserve a whole lot better!
If he doesn't respect your boundaries, you might have to ask yourself a few hard questions!
Genuinely wishing you the best!
💜💜
I’m so sorry, I’m going through the same BS.
If nothing more it’s emotional cheating talking with other people, I define cheating if you have to hid things from your partner like OF people and convos then you aren’t being open you are choosing to hide things there for cheating.
Role reversal how would he feel if you were doing that?
I’m sorry I wish I could help or offer advice but I’m in the same *** and trust feels gone.
Only thing I can say is lay the rules down.
@Bkx
right off the bat, you stated that you think it’s cheating. regardless of how any one else feels about this topic, your feelings matter! You deserve respect from your partner and communication.
If they are unable to respect your wishes, I hope that you do what is best for yourself and your happiness 💜
I’m really sorry you are going through this. I’m in a similar situation where my partner has been using porn and recently downloaded a dating app. These are really hard things to deal with because people have different views but like others have said, if you are not okay with it and he’s doing it behind your back, it is 1000000% cheating. It’s extremely disrespectful, breaks trust, and diminishes intimacy, and connection. How can someone claim they love you and do this to you? I’m currently trying to decide what to do in this situation and if he will change but to be honest I don't think he will, the disrespect has gone far enough. You may feel the same.
I’m really sorry you are going through this. I’m in a similar situation where my partner has been using porn and recently downloaded a dating app. These are really hard things to deal with because people have different views but like others have said, if you are not okay with it and he’s doing it behind your back, it is 1000000% cheating. It’s extremely disrespectful, breaks trust, and diminishes intimacy, and connection. How can someone claim they love you and do this to you? I’m currently trying to decide what to do in this situation and if he will change but to be honest I don't think he will, the disrespect has gone far enough. You may feel the same.