would you change moments/ people /time
if anyone saw that movie a small change maybe adding a person or not meeting a specific person changed your whole life....
I have put in some thought on this subject ....... what would my life be if i had not done certain things....
if i dated more ..... if i did not have children ........ if i had pursued a different job/ career path...
i try to remind myself that people interact with add something to me .... maybe they are here to show me a different path ... teach me empathy ..... make me stronger as i need to stand up to a bully etc
think of times in your life ....................that you had a great boss but a bad job ....
then a bad boss but a good job....( you can substitute teachers for boss) ..... would you have excelled if the right fit ? would you have stayed or left a job earlier?
I am in love .... but not with my spouse ........ all i can think of is what if ...... would i be happier would some unseen part of my love does not match up..... i mean i see good bad and ugly with my spouse but only see the good in my friend.......
if i met my friend in another time would i feel the same? ........... would we have found each other ?
who would i be if i took another path?
@toughTiger6481
Hello!
This is an interesting question.
Personally, I feel it is better not to look back at 'what if's'
The journey's we experience in life shape us, we can't go back. So, I feel it is better to look forward<3
If there is something we wish to change in our current life, then it's never too late! :)💛💫
@innateJoy9602
Exactly as the questions can never be answered .............i would be a different person and most likely have very different concerns.
I know that in trying to make the best decision for any item.......... more often then not people make choices based on an ever changing criteria......
I have just been faced with real acceptance that items........ i once held as constant and true are not......