Self love Test question

@Creamyyy

A not so long time ago, I was talking to someone in a really bad place and they said this stuck with them and made them feel better.

We all experience things to a different degree. Your tolerance for stress could be higher or lower than someone else's. If someone else had your life, then they'd crumble under the weight because they couldn't survive the things you've gone through.

Everyone has baggage.

I wouldn't trade my life for any other because I know the true value of it... and someone else would squander the riches it comes with. I prosper in ways that money could never buy.

All I think of is the episode of Steven Universe when Blue Diamond is using her powers to make others feel her pain. Everyone crumbled to the ground in agony. But Lapis stood there and said "I've felt worse"

There's so much power in that.

Blue Diamond was so caught up inflicting her suffering upon others that she couldn't see they were suffering.

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@Creamyyy for many years I would have said yes. But now nah I wouldn't wish that on anyone else😂 but seriously though all the struggles, life is good now I wouldn't want to be anywhere else 💖 

Also comparison brings you no good, only jealousy and hatred. So self love is important 💖

@Creamyyy

My answer would be straight and definite "NO".

Even if my life was a great pain sometimes, why should I assume it was not the kind of pain I was designed to cope?

Some people are born with a permanent minor depression, some die young in accidents. Some are coping with a chronic paranasal sinuses inflammation and allergy, some with breathing or heart issues. I would strongly prefer keeping what is mine and not desiring someone else's.

Though, I must admit, I feel a bit irritated when people tell about their financial/material wellbeing. I still remember being a child whose mother had a choice between giving me 5$ for my favourite comic book about a helicopter pilot and keeping it as spare money for food.

Recently I've re-watched an old movie called "Tootsie" and I started to imagine how it could be to be a woman: wear stiletto heels and a fancy dress, catwalk, have some makeup and curly blonde hair, with all those high notes and smiles, and small but perfect gestures... But only for one day! 😆 

@Creamyyy This is a very interesting question and i think i would like to see how it feels to live another life and experience what they do. I think that will make me realise how important my life is and the value of it.

@Creamyyy
My answer is also: No 
but i have tough life but i will fight with it. No matter  what's going on. I know its hard to see difficulties. but i can face it i can do it. i can make my life better than this one.🌷🙂

No I don't think so. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Just because you can't see someones problems doesn't mean they aren't there.

@Creamyyy This is a really good question. I have often thought that I wish I was different. But when I actually look at others’ lives, even when I perceive that there’s something about their life I wish I had, in the end I let go of the idea.