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Opposite Action Skill

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 April 5th, 2023


Do you know the feeling of waking up in the morning and not wanting to leave the bed because so many negative thoughts come up in your head and make you lose the courage to face the day?

DBT skills like the “Opposite Action Skill” can be very helpful in getting us back on track.


For example:

Depression gets us ready to be inactive. It activates us to avoid contact.

The opposite would be getting active. So instead of staying in bed get up and do a few exercises like stretching, walk around the room clapping your hands like if you want to cheer yourself up or do anything to become active.


Participation question:

What is a feeling you have which causes an action that is not helpful?

What could be an opposite action?


Helpful Video:

Opposite Action Skill https://youtu.be/fDWn-cqKKrg




Helping yourself is always a great option but sometimes it’s simply not enough and professional support is required.

If you feel that you need more guided support please reach out to your doctor or a therapist.


7cups has online, certified therapists with a paid option. For more information click on link https://www.7cups.com/online-therapy/?ob=1


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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful April 5th, 2023

@amiablePeace77

The feeling if not wanting to complete something procrastination can start small and snowball. It can be debilitating! However I am that indeed a procrastinator on some things … but I also love to check lists to help me get focused and have a plan … then ready to dig in and get it done. Organizing is that for me I hate it but love it when it is done. 💯💯💯💯💕💕💕💕

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 6th, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

Good that check lists and your love to get organized helps you with procrastination!

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings April 6th, 2023

@amiablePeace77

What is a feeling you have which causes an action that is not helpful?

When I get irritated when things do not turn out as I expected them too it can turn into anger

What could be an opposite action? An opposite reaction is to explore my irritation and even laugh at it or sit down and figure out what I expected to happen.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 6th, 2023

@soulsings

Taking it with a bit of humor and exploring what you really expected might give a lot of answers.

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User Profile: Harmony8682
Harmony8682 April 7th, 2023

@amiablePeace77

I feel less motivated to complete any DIY tasks and socialise.

To help I could start off doing little jobs to complete around the house first before getting to big ones like painting my shed. In terms of socialising not sure... I've started here on 7 cups.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP April 7th, 2023

@Harmony8682

Starting small sounds good. I hope that socializing will become easier and translate into your real life too.

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