Smiling as a coping mechanism
Let’s do an experiment today 😊:
- Look at something like a picture, a flower or something else and notice how you feel.
- Now put a smile on your face and hold it for about 1 to 5 minutes.
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Notice again how you feel.
Did your feelings change, even if only slightly? Did you feel more positivity whilst holding the smile?
The more you smile, the more effective you are at breaking the brain's natural tendency to think negatively. It does not mean to suppress negative feelings and to see the world through rose colored lenses, it means helping your brain to rewire itself for more positivity.
What makes you smile?
Here is a link to a video which impressed me a lot. A man tells his story about the challenges he faced as a very young child to adulthood and how smiling helped him. I hope you will find this video as impressive as I did. Maybe thoughts come up like “ I’m not as strong as he is” but remember he wasn’t that strong from the beginning, he built up his strength and this is something we all can do.
Finding your coping mechanism https://www.ted.com/talks/joseph_lewis_finding_your_coping_mechanism?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare
When we're dealing with a mental illness, be it depression or anxiety or any other condition, we can find it hard to be enthusiastic about doing anything.
If you have serious, long-term problems and feel depressed, see your doctor or talk to a therapist if you feel they are related to any mental challenges.
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@amiablePeace77
I have never used smiling as a coping mechanism. I am trained to present a positive happy demeaner for my work which i am required to have including saying Hello to everyone I meet.
It does not help me be happy in reality.
@Notsogoodtoday
When I had to smile at work, like on exhibitions, it never felt true but it changed when I wanted to smile at people because it felt more from the heart. This is only my personal experience, it's different for everyone. Something though I find helpful is watching videos, movies or reading something to make me smile. It trains my brain to be happier without me having to make an effort.
@amiablePeace77
Surprisingly, even "replicating the facial movement of a smile by holding a pen between your teeth, causing the corners of the mouth to lift" (or by other mechanical devices), improves your mood.
There have been many lab experiments on this...
Here, an article in VeryWellMind:
https://www.verywellmind.com/news-science-shows-smiling-really-does-make-us-feel-better-5075811
@HealingTalk
Thank you for sharing this link! There is truly a lot of research work on this topic and I hope that everyone can agree to the fact that smiling just feels good 😊
@amiablePeace77
Yes it does! 😃
So easy but very effective...
Hi,
Tried to listen to the video, but it would not play. I think this is a good practice to learn. Thanks
@scarletPear1945 sorry the link does not work for you. Here is a link to TED talk that may work better https://tinyurl.com/3xr2cu4p