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Smiling as a coping mechanism

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 September 28th, 2022


Let’s do an experiment today 😊:

  • Look at something like a picture, a flower or something else and notice how you feel.
  • Now put a smile on your face and hold it for about 1 to 5 minutes.
  • Notice again how you feel.

Did your feelings change, even if only slightly? Did you feel more positivity whilst holding the smile?

The more you smile, the more effective you are at breaking the brain's natural tendency to think negatively. It does not mean to suppress negative feelings and to see the world through rose colored lenses, it means helping your brain to rewire itself for more positivity.

What makes you smile?

Here is a link to a video which impressed me a lot. A man tells his story about the challenges he faced as a very young child to adulthood and how smiling helped him. I hope you will find this video as impressive as I did. Maybe thoughts come up like “ I’m not as strong as he is” but remember he wasn’t that strong from the beginning, he built up his strength and this is something we all can do.

Finding your coping mechanism https://www.ted.com/talks/joseph_lewis_finding_your_coping_mechanism?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare


When we're dealing with a mental illness, be it depression or anxiety or any other condition, we can find it hard to be enthusiastic about doing anything.

If you have serious, long-term problems and feel depressed, see your doctor or talk to a therapist if you feel they are related to any mental challenges.

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy September 28th, 2022

Thanks for sharing this reminder. Smiling feels wonderful 😊

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 28th, 2022

@Creamyyy

I agree, keep smiling 😊

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User Profile: kala
kala September 28th, 2022

@amiablePeace77


Thank you for sharing this. I listened to the video. It was nice. I will try this. Smile helps for sure. I will give it a try.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 28th, 2022

@kala

👍 kala, you can always come back and share your experience with us, would love to hear it 😊

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User Profile: dogsinapile
dogsinapile September 28th, 2022

What makes me smile the most, is anything that makes me laugh. I make myself laugh a lot, and even if nobody else thinks it's funny, it makes me smile. And people respond to the smile.


Genuine smiles are magnetic.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 28th, 2022

@dogsinapile

Great strategy dogsinapile!

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User Profile: Gettingbettertoday
Gettingbettertoday September 28th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

I have never used smiling as a coping mechanism. I am trained to present a positive happy demeaner for my work which i am required to have including saying Hello to everyone I meet.


It does not help me be happy in reality.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 28th, 2022

@Notsogoodtoday

When I had to smile at work, like on exhibitions, it never felt true but it changed when I wanted to smile at people because it felt more from the heart. This is only my personal experience, it's different for everyone. Something though I find helpful is watching videos, movies or reading something to make me smile. It trains my brain to be happier without me having to make an effort.

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User Profile: HealingTalk
HealingTalk September 28th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Surprisingly, even "replicating the facial movement of a smile by holding a pen between your teeth, causing the corners of the mouth to lift" (or by other mechanical devices), improves your mood.

There have been many lab experiments on this...

Here, an article in VeryWellMind:

https://www.verywellmind.com/news-science-shows-smiling-really-does-make-us-feel-better-5075811



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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 28th, 2022

@HealingTalk

Thank you for sharing this link! There is truly a lot of research work on this topic and I hope that everyone can agree to the fact that smiling just feels good 😊

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User Profile: HealingTalk
HealingTalk September 28th, 2022

@amiablePeace77

Yes it does! 😃

So easy but very effective...

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings September 29th, 2022

@amiablePeace77 What makes you smile?

Just about anything can. When I am aware of my face being tight my natural reaction is to smile and loosen up.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 29th, 2022

@soulsings

Great idea soul, I will try this the next time my face feels tight.

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October 1st, 2022

Hi,

Tried to listen to the video, but it would not play. I think this is a good practice to learn. Thanks

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings October 1st, 2022

@scarletPear1945 sorry the link does not work for you. Here is a link to TED talk that may work better https://tinyurl.com/3xr2cu4p

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP October 1st, 2022

@soulsings

Thank you soul!

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