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Anxious or Nervous?

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings June 6th, 2024
  • What makes you feel nervous?
  • How can you calm your nerves?


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User Profile: alysianna
alysianna June 6th, 2024

@soulsings

  • What makes you feel nervous? fear of abandonment 
  • How can you calm your nerves? music,books

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 June 6th, 2024

@alysianna

Fear of abandonment can be overwhelming. I am glad you're here and reached out for help. It's good that you have something to help like music and books. Reading takes a lot of focus. What genre of books do you like to read?

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User Profile: alysianna
alysianna June 7th, 2024

@amiablePeace77 

i think they are mostly romance but some mytry realy what ever i can as it distracts me fro thinking most of my negitive thoughts

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 June 7th, 2024

@soulsings what makes me feel nervous, fear of the past coming back, fear of anger from people and fear of letting someone down or failing someone

what makes it  better, is cry it out then keep on trying my best, and trying to live the best life I can live ❤

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 7th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 you really never quit and I like that about you. Keep on going..

User Profile: simplyexisting28493
simplyexisting28493 June 7th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 That's amazing that you do things even when it makes you nervous! Definitely shows you're strong. Though I know it's not always easy! You got it!

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User Profile: Riot22
Riot22 June 7th, 2024

@soulsings 

What makes you feel nervous?

Talking in public


How can you calm your nerves?

-Taking a deep breath

-Music

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 7th, 2024

@Riot22 breathing helps me too.

I sort of look at 7 Cups like practice in what I would say to someone else. 

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User Profile: miraculousTouch2949
miraculousTouch2949 June 7th, 2024

@soulsings

As an introvert, it makes me nervous to socialize with group of new people lol. Usually a bit of alcohol helps me to open up a little more in order to better socialize with them, especially in career wise situations.

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User Profile: simplyexisting28493
simplyexisting28493 June 7th, 2024

@miraculousTouch2949 especially when they seem to know each other too! Are there other things that help to make you feel more comfortable when meeting a new group of people?

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User Profile: miraculousTouch2949
miraculousTouch2949 June 8th, 2024

Bonding with one person first as your “safe partner” would help lol ask that person to introduce other people to you is definitely helping when they all know each other.

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User Profile: simplyexisting28493
simplyexisting28493 June 7th, 2024

What makes me feel nervous is not really having control over a situation, or knowing the full information. Especially if I have to make a decision. I guess it's a fear of failure.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 8th, 2024

@simplyexisting28493 I have a fear of making mistakes so that causes some nervousness but with both my parents gone I feel like that is not a real worry as it was when I was 5 years old. 

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User Profile: pamharley003
pamharley003 June 12th, 2024

@soulsings

  • What makes you feel nervous?
  • going out of my comfort zone and making mistakes, being around people who I know but am afraid to talk
  • How can you calm your nerves?
  • mindfulness, yoga, exercising in my pool 
    


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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 12th, 2024

@pamharley003 I do not like making mistakes either. 

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User Profile: Sun2024
Sun2024 July 11th, 2024

@soulsings social events or a lot of attention on me