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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings April 6th

Everybody struggles with  challenges at one time or another, but sharing them with others may help relieve some of the stress.

  • What aspects of your daily life that you struggle with right now?


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User Profile: tacocat22
tacocat22 April 15th

@soulsings i'm constantly surrounded by people, i could use some time alone.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 April 15th

@tacocat22

I can relate! Me-time is so important for me too. A nice walk in a park very early in the morning when the park is not busy can be nice. 

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@soulsings I struggle with basic little things taking care of myself. I find the energy to take care of my kids and neighbors, but I'd like to be better about my basic care routine.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP April 20th

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas taking care of yourself you will have more energy for others.

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User Profile: eternalHero77
eternalHero77 June 24th

@soulsings My daily stress I live wit daily is knowing I am homeless and thereby prevents me to do any follow up appointments to tend to my many medical issues.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 24th

@eternalHero77 sorry you are homeless. Have you looked at services that might help ypu have a stable lifestyle?

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User Profile: eternalHero77
eternalHero77 June 24th

@soulsings I have tried. Even a social worker I dealt wit in program and nuttin has been found.

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User Profile: ElinorM
ElinorM June 24th

In no particular order: Fibromyalgia and other health challenges; redundancy and money worries; solitude, isolation and chronic loneliness; coping in a neurotypical world; gender dysphoria, intrusive thoughts and internalised sham; oh, and the heat! And yet here we are.


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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 28th

@ElinorM yet here we are!

Go on my friend. Go on.

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User Profile: neonWriter8115
neonWriter8115 June 26th

Not being responsible yikes .

I am having a hard time trying to put this in words that make sense.  I've re-written this numerous time so I hope it makes sense right now.......Something I always struggle with is I downplay or do not acknowledging my feelings about my own "problems/issues".  I was raised "you should be grateful because there are people out there that have it worse"....so I take the things bothering me and shove them back in and don't really deal with them.....over time, this thought process does something to you in a negative way.....Someone recently told me that just because what I'm going through is small compared to someone else, my feelings about it are still valid and I should address that, no matter how small the issue is.....and this is hard for me because I really don't have it that bad and feel like I shouldn't let some of things I think are "issues", bother me the way they do.....so here I am, in my 50s, trying to reprogram my thought process and rethinking the way I think about my life....and deal with my things no matter how small they are.....

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 28th

@CyclingThroughLife I hear you loud and clear.

Expectations are what get n the way for me. What are your expectations of yourself?

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@soulsings

I expect way too much of myself.....I put the pressure on myself of thinking I have to have it all together at all times.....

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Grief and other things

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP June 28th

@enthusiasticLunch1114 I am sorry for your loss.

I find focusing with gratitude on what I had rather than focusing on what I lost stops fueling my sadness and slowly starts the healing process.

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User Profile: LilMadHatt3r
LilMadHatt3r June 30th

Being able to do adult things. I just turned 18 and I already feel so behind. I can’t even call the DMV and ask for a permit extension without being coached by my parents or make another call without having an anxiety attack. My friends already have their lives put on a stable path and I can’t even get a decent sleep schedule together. I want to fix this so badly, I know I need to but I have no idea what to work on first.

User Profile: philes
philes June 30th

Please pray for my brother. He was involved in an accident and is currently in the hospital. He urgently needs surgery, but unfortunately we don't have the mon*y to pay for it. Please pray that God will provide a way, heal him, and give our family strength during this difficult time. 🙏❤️

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 June 30th

@philes


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Scrupulosity, depression, feeling anxious for hours

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 June 30th

@enthusiasticBirch9701


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 June 30th

@enthusiasticBirch9701

Sending you a big, warm hug 🫂

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 1st

@enthusiasticBirch9701 I hear you and hope you see a ray of light to lead you beyond this.

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