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Sleep, endless amount of food, someone to hug, and 0 workload
@JoltDW yes :D
@amiablePeace77
Hello everyone in the community 😊
Hope everyone’s doing great or if currently not then they’re in the process of turning their lives and themselves around for the better :)
How do you feel today?
I feel great! Why shouldn’t I be feeling great today?? I sent my sister a reminder to do list, kept track of her time, and helped my sister get into checkout at the airport this morning. Made me feel so good to be of that much help to someone.
What do you need?
While friends here are undeniably great and loving people, I’d love to experience having/being friends with people and a relationship with someone in person in person too. Because of no in person friends I’ve never had a true birthday party and would love to experience having that too. But I’d wanna have balance with my life once in person friends and a relationship enters it if any of them ever accept my invitation to come enter into my life. By balance I mean yes being happy being and interacting with people but not so much that there’s no time left for me to have some me time. I don’t wanna live one way so much that it dominates my life to where I’m overwhelmingly burnt out by it and need time off from it. I’m trying to prevent that situation from happening to me while at the same time still getting everything I need.
@akunknown
I am glad that you care about balance in your life and acknowledge the need for me-time!
@amiablePeace77
Its been said more than once to me and everyone else that we’re “social beings” or “social creatures” and while that might be true, our lives can’t be 24/7 socializing. We need to balance it out by having some me time and socializing with others time. But balance has to come in other ways too. Like while it’s great and important to take care of yourself, it’s ok here and there once in a while to let go of that responsibility for the sake of being free to enjoy yourself because you need that too before you get to an age where you regret not having fun when you could have. After all one life to live right?? Gotta make it a healthy balance of fun, responsibility, meaning/purpose, and everything else
@akunknown
Well said akunknown!
@akunknown I've never had a birthday party either. When is your birthday??
@Tinywhisper11
Whenever your dearest soul feels happiest to celebrate it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown then let's celebrate right now😁 haaapppyyy birrttthddayyyy sweeetieee 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈
@Tinywhisper11 and here's your present
@Tinywhisper11 open them up.... Yaaay! I got you a mosquito named Dave, and I large dried cod😁 your welcome😁❤❤
@Tinywhisper11
Love them despite not being overly fond of mosquitoes especially bc of their bites 😂😂 but hey it’s the thought that counts most so I greatly appreciate it. Thank you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown 😂😂😂😂 your welcome 😂😂
@Tinywhisper11
Thanks so much for the present. I’ll remember to get you one. When’s your birthday? Anything specific or special you want or need? Lmk and you’ll have it on your birthday ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown my birthday is November the third😁 I accept diamonds, cheques and all major credit cards😁 thanking you in advance😂😂😂
@Tinywhisper11
OMG thank you I love the celebration! We need to one day celebrate your birthday or both of ours together but I’d like to celebrate in person if that’s possible. Hopefully god willing it will be possible at least one year if not more than that ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown that would be a dream come true ❤❤ I often dream about meeting up with my friends here ❤❤ hugs you tightly ❤
@Tinywhisper11
So do I! Let’s make both our dreams - which are the same dream - a reality one day when it works out for both of us!!! (hugs you tightly back) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@akunknown ❤❤😁❤❤❤
@amiablePeace77 I need comfort prayer I need to chat be Heard I been depressed more I been other things
@dhabib
Depression can cause the most painful feelings. Please reach out for help. You can connect with a listener for a 1:1 chat and for some comfort here .
@amiablePeace77 yes it is it’s the worst you don’t when anyone next to to talk to be with you feel unsafe I need a female in my life more healing a lot of prayer I’m still struggling my dad also severely depresesee he doesn’t listen he ignores me
Today is hard. I have an abscess tooth and it's really painful. Yesterday was a good day, so positive and energetic. It's so hard to go from that to completely apathetic today. This is one of the most uncertain and terrifying, yet liberating, times of my life
It's always in September.
After 50 trips around the sun, you start to see the patterns
I need grace.
I need rest.
I need quiet.
I need validation.
And none of that is possible
Except maybe the grace part.
@DDPaintsStuff
It is hard when your needs are difficult to be met. Everyone needs to rest, having some quiet time and feel validated! I am glad you come here and express what is missing, your feelings are valid and matter!
Please be careful and get help if needed so that no complications occur (like pus or increase in infection).
@Heather225
Sorry for the late reply Heather, I must have missed your post.
That's a lot of coffee! 😮 Offers a cup of green tea 🍵 with a mindfulness mini break
@amiablePeace77
The thing I need most is for family members to respectfully listen to what I have to say and not reject or ignore it as insignificant.
@4Jasmine
It's frustrating and drains your energy when you have to explain things and feel no one really listens or understands. So sorry you're not getting the respect you deserve. I hope talking here helps you.
@4Jasmine I hear you. For many many years I looked for family members to accept me the way I see myself, but they did not.
Then 9 years ago I joined 7 Cups and people here accept me the way I am. I accept the things I cannot change and change the things I can.
@soulsings
I totally agree with you and understand!
@amiablePeace77
How do you feel today?
⭐︎♡⭐︎♡⭐︎♡⭐︎
What do you need?
@PetiteSouris sorry you are sad. Hugs for you.
@PetiteSouris
Hugs 💙
@amiablePeace77
My back aches from working too long. I wish I could go on a solo vacation.
@1CuriousHeart
I hope tomorrow will be better. Sometimes gentle stretching can help.
Where would you like to go on a solo vacation?
Paris 😍 hopefully someday.
@amiablePeace77 I'm new is there a way you can private chat with someone I'm just having boy struggles yk 😩
@compassionateBike9290
Sorry to hear that you are struggling at the moment. I am glad though you reached out for support, you don't have to get through this difficult time on your own. We are here for support and comfort. You can connect with a listener for a 1:1 chat here. 💙
This is a link which shows you a few options you have on the site to get support https://www.7cups.com/forum/7CupsOnlineTherapy_157/Resources_2155/7cupsTherapySubcomResourceSummaryPageUpdated142022_267900/
@amiablePeace77
Hi, i need some Time AND patience
@Angel0231
It's good that you know what you need! Here is a video on patience I find very good, hope you like it.
Jon Kabat-Zinn Mindfulness 9 attitudes - patience
@amiablePeace77
Hello amiablePeace77, thank for the video. Im a newbie in this
