Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in 9th November
heyy Trauma Community
So for my Check In this week just a light topic again however my first question what topics would you like me to do?
IceBreaker questions
If you could go anywhere on holiday where would you go any why?
Coffee or Tea?
Stay home or be outside?
Of course just a Hi or a a regular check In is just as good.I hope you are all well this week.
Something for your diaries too i lead my Weekly Trauma Discussions Sunday 2pm EST 7pm If in the UK my topic this week will be Session Two - The barriers to Disclosure of Childhood abuse
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If you could go anywhere on holiday where would you go any why?
I would go to Scotland, I've always been pulled there, The land is so beautiful.
Coffee or Tea?
Both or sure
Stay home or be outside?
I'm an outdoors girl
@Tinycupcake id love to go myself i reside in England id love to visit ireland too
awesome what sort of things do you love to do outdoors
@CaringBrit I'd love to go to England and Ireland as well. I love Hiking,swimming, rock climing, I like working out outside.
@Tinycupcake nice hobbies i love swimming too can never do climbing as fear heights
Englands a great place so many tourist attractions great history heritage etc
@CaringBrit
heya i would leave the past for a while and leave my family to go somewhere i can clear my mind.
i think both tea and coffee.
um im sure inside my house but not my house if that makes sense.
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So a check in ...I finished my book yesterday The Hate U Give. It was great. I love it. I stopped my mind despite the fueling thoughts. I have been experiencing heartbreak lately. The guy I ended up having feelings for and it was between me and the girl it seemed he picked her despite he would get arrested for having sexual relations with a underage like 3 years under. just feel bad. plus all the breakups I have been going through my head. I realized I dont like being alone because if im alone i feel more broken and not loved. I want to get over the heartbreak i have been feeling. It crushes me. We were on the bus and the girl he chose sits next to me. But she doesnt know he kissed me. I just sort of cried and said the loudness got to loud. She said oh makes sense. I just kinda sat and stared for a while and cried again. I just felt like I lost something I wanted but its okay. 
@Hope7879 i understand the leaving the past wanting to go somewhere where you can clear the mind for sure and yes it does make sense
yayy on finishing the book and that it distracted your mind and aww no i know that feeling when they choose it can really hurt bad hope hugs if you want one breakups suck. you are very much loved im sure by family close friends we love having you around here too hope.
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If I could go anywhere on vacation I'd go to Italy. I prefer tea, peppermint is my favorite. I'd also rather be outside most of the time, but it is nice to have a cozy home to return to!
@betterchoices
italy would be amazing! They have pretty views!
@SouthernFlame and terrific food and art!
@betterchoices
mmm the food
@betterchoices sweet choice of vacation and what would you do outside while out there then
@CaringBrit I'd paint the whole damn country haha! And eat myself comatose
@betterchoices lol
@CaringBrit
If you could go anywhere on holiday where would you go any why? Norway...seems cozy and beautiful :)
Coffee or Tea? coffee
Stay home or be outside? stay home
@Mellietronx im a stay at home too is there a particular type of coffee you prefer or just regular and nice choice for going somewhere
@CaringBrit just a regular black coffee :)
@Mellietronx my fav types of coffees are mocha latte etc and capucchino
@CaringBrit mmmm those are good too :)
@CaringBrit hi
@crimsonLime6525 heyy lime good to see you
@CaringBrit you
@crimsonLime6525 aww ty lime and i have tons of self care time in midst of everything else
@CaringBrit
Hi. Not sure what else to say.
@practicalIdeal2007 just wanted to leave you a hug and to say stay strong, you
@crimsonLime6525
Hey Lime, thank you for the hug. I don't know what peace looks like right now. This time of year is especially hard for me. To be honest I don't want to be strong anymore. I don't want to be alive anymore, I probably shouldn't share that here. I'm tried of fighting and holding what little I have together. I'm tried of spending money I don't have to try and get help. I'm just plain tired. I don't want sympathy or pity. I'm not sure what the point in sharing is.
@practicalIdeal2007 hey deal hope your ok hugs if you want one
@CaringBrit
I'd go anywhere so long as I had no responsibility, but staying home is my prefered choice. Right now I'm pretty anxious even though I felt great earlier :/ struggling with some ED thoughts and other things I want to write out but I have to keep reminding myself this is a community forum. And coffee, although I do like tea. I've found that both make me anxious lately. Maybe I'm buying the wrong kind. I have an urge to write and all of this energy and anxiety so I'm going to go do that and also, hi :) good night or morning
@Lexloveslife
hey love. Cant wait to see what you write.
@Lexloveslife yeah i hear you on the no responsibility bit and oh dear anxiety that overwhelming isnt easy . would love to see your writings if you ever wish to share
@CaringBrit
Hi there
I don't want to come across as mean but lately I am getting left off the trauma tag list, and when I bring it up, am ignored. So was just wondering if it's intentional, trying to send me a message or an oversight.
Thanks x
@Avaray
hey! I
@SouthernFlame
Thanks x
I did tag her in her last checkin but didn't get a reply. I'm tired flame, could you please just add me. Thanks x
@Avaray
im dont have access to wherever they keep the check in list but hopefully they add you. My turn is on Thursday so Ill make sure if youre not added to put you. Im sure you will be on it. Im sure.
@SouthernFlame
Thanks Flame xx
@Avaray its not mean for you pointing it out as southern says we used the old taglist and just add on my next check in if your not added ill add you in or can definetly pm kate
@CaringBrit
💜💚
@Avaray Hi Av fret not my friend it's not just you -- same issue that has arisen multiple times now: copy paste error that cuts off a portion of the tag list. I understand and share your frustration (as my name has also been omitted as a result of these ongoing errors lol). Please everyone who is doing check ins make sure you are posting the complete list and not leaving out members of the community.
I appreciate the effort you are putting in as you get to know the members of the trauma community -- please just take a few moments to confirm what you've copied before you paste as this is a recurring issue.
Here is the complete tag list cc @kate @caringbrit @anomalia @redmark @southernflame @summertimesamness (I know I've omitted other check in posters mea culpa I'm just as unfamiliar with staff as y'all are with us 😂)
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@melliotm
Mel.... Thank you ❤
@melliotm
Thanks!
@melliotm - My understanding is there is also some sort of bug that the developers are trying to figure out that is cutting off the tag list partway through (so that the whole thing is visible, but not everyone is receiving notifications) - I don't know the details, but wanted to mention it and tag in @Krinkthemellowunicorn in case he has more info!
That said, there may still be an issue of the wrong tag list being grabbed! To make sure everyone is clear, what is the best way to find the most current list?
IceBreaker questions
If you could go anywhere on holiday where would you go any why? Nice vacation
Coffee or Tea? Coffee in morning, tea during day
Stay home or be outside? Home or shopping
@Rebekahwriter13 where in the world though place name
@CaringBrit on cruise to the islands or European cruise
@Rebekahwriter13 ooo a cruise sounds awesome