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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in Friday 8th September 2017

User Profile: Softwhispers
Softwhispers September 8th, 2017

Hey everyone! Hope your enjoying your Friday so far and are fully prepared for the weekend ahead. So I though today we could discuss how to better care for ourselves while struggling with trauma. I personally understand what it's like and staying strong and pushing through does get tiring but it's the other things we do while pushing through which help us.

After a trauma, its important to keep your body healthy and strong. You may be healing from injuries or feeling emotionally drained. Good physical health can support you through this time. Think about a time when you felt physically healthy and try to think about the routine you had then, for example like how was your sleeping pattern? What sort of foods were you eating? And what sort of activities were you doing at the time?

But that's just physical emotional pain is quite difficult to deal with too and that is a big factor in the road to getting past this. Emotional self-care means different things to different people. The key to emotional self-care is being in tune with yourself. Think about a time when you felt balanced and grounded. Once again try to think back to a time when you were really happy and emotionally fine and think about things like: what activities did you enjoy? Was there any places you liked going more than anywhere else? Were you keeping a journal/diary of all your thoughts? Who were the people you spend tome with? Sometimes being with close friends can really help even if they don't know what your going through they can distract you, what did you do with your spare time? Hobbies are a great way to escape and temporarily distract your self and help you calm down.

Have you got any healthy coping methods to help get through a bad day? What are those methods?

This is a safe space feel free to share your thoughts we are all here to help and support each other. *huge hugs to everyone*

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User Profile: sensitiveShade5337
sensitiveShade5337 September 8th, 2017

@Softwhispers

Hi

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User Profile: Softwhispers
Softwhispers OP September 8th, 2017

@sensitiveShade5337 Hey how are you hun?

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User Profile: sensitiveShade5337
sensitiveShade5337 September 8th, 2017

@Softwhispers

Not so well but it's okay

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User Profile: SoftForestHSP77
SoftForestHSP77 September 8th, 2017

@sensitiveShade5337 why aren't you doing well?

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User Profile: sensitiveShade5337
sensitiveShade5337 September 8th, 2017

@SoftForestHSP77

cause I'm sad

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User Profile: SoftForestHSP77
SoftForestHSP77 September 8th, 2017

@sensitiveShade5337 why are you sad? I'm so sorry to hear that.

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User Profile: sensitiveShade5337
sensitiveShade5337 September 8th, 2017

@SoftForestHSP77

i don't know why.. I just feel low about myself cause Im so useless and stupid I can't do anything right. I hate myself so much and I wonder why I keep fighting.. I feel like everyone hates me.. ugghh just so many feelings I can't even identify them all 😭😭😭

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User Profile: SoftForestHSP77
SoftForestHSP77 September 8th, 2017

@sensitiveShade5337 hang in there. All we can do is try our very best each day. I'm really sorry you feel that down. Have you seen a doctor?

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User Profile: roseMelody95
roseMelody95 September 9th, 2017

@sensitiveShade5337 I'm sorry to hear you're having such a sad, difficult day.

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User Profile: BeeLeigh
BeeLeigh September 8th, 2017

"After a trauma"....how can you have an "after", if you didn't have a "before"? Meh. Today's been pretty good though. Pretty easy. Just doin homework for the most part 😊

User Profile: Zombii
Zombii September 8th, 2017

@Softwhispers

I'm just... crashing down pretty hard today.... :(

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User Profile: Softwhispers
Softwhispers OP September 9th, 2017

@Zombii why hun?

*hugs*

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User Profile: rozie
rozie September 8th, 2017

@Softwhispers

Really like your post thank you. It has reminded me to go back to being by a stream in the bush and listening to the gurgling water... its always been a tranquil and soothing place to be. And its timely for me now.

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User Profile: Softwhispers
Softwhispers OP September 9th, 2017

@rozie I'm glad to hear that ypu liked it xx

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User Profile: MKJart
MKJart September 8th, 2017

Hi everyone,

I just activated my account again long enough to say goodbye to 7cups. I'm needing to focusing on my teaching and the children more. I've enoyed getting to know so many of you and wish you all the best. You've inspired me and helped me navigate some hard time. Thank you.

Hugs, Mary

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User Profile: DeborahUK
DeborahUK September 8th, 2017

@MKJart

Aaww, I for one shall be sad to wave goodbye. I always enjoyed reading your posts which both inspired me and made me think. As you know, we had some similarities in our history, and your strength was also a source of strength to me. Having said all that, I'm delighted you feel well enough to move on, and that you have something to focus your energies on. Just know there's no shame or defeat if you ever feel the need to pop back in on your member account for support, or why not just wave at us from time to time :)

Very best wishes to you Mary

Deb ❤️

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User Profile: MKJart
MKJart September 9th, 2017

@DeborahUK

Best wishes to you too Deb heart

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User Profile: melliotm
melliotm September 9th, 2017

@MKJart Hugs, Mary. Sorry to see you go. Glad you found what you needed. Take care of yourself.

User Profile: rozie
rozie September 9th, 2017

@MKJart

All the best to you Mary! Loved having you here with us. Know there is a time to move on with your teaching and the children. Take care. x

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User Profile: insightfulVoice
insightfulVoice September 9th, 2017

Hello everyone