Question
I woke up in the middle of the night and my husband was having sex with me. He says I initiated it, but I was asleep. I’m so confused. Was this sa?
@warmheartedPenny1949 if you didn't consent then yes it is ☹️
@warmheartedPenny1949 hey dear. if you didnt consent to it beforehand or during, it is assault. i hope you are doing okay.
@warmheartedPenny1949 Yes, you weren't awake to consent.
@warmheartedPenny1949
Sadly there are people, both men and women, that feel this type of behavior is acceptable because you are married or in a relationship....that because sex is a regular part of your relationship they feel entitled to your body.
Nothing could be farther from the truth though! It is your body and it should not be touched in that way without your consent. Just because they are your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend, they are not given a free pass on getting consent.
Yes, this was a violation of your trust and body. No consent given by you...your feeling of it being SA is completely valid.
