Constantly left alone
I wish i could understand why i'm always left alone. No matter what i try and no matter how much i try at some point everyone stops talking to me.
It's not like i'm ever rude or anything it's just... i dunno...? I'm not worthy of having friendship or love supposedly.
It's hard to stay positive when you are constantly all alone and have no one to talk to or share your thoughts with.
I hate all of this 😔
@eternallyworthless sorry to hear that :( loneliness really sucks and it makes sense why you'd feel unworthy of friendship or love
I wish I had a more concrete proof to give to you so it's more "believable"? but you're worthy of company, friendship, love, happiness.. all the nice things like everyone else and I hope one day you have it irl also till then we can be cups friends if you ok? im happy to talk to you and am really glad your here 🤗
would you like to share about some of your interests or well feel free to talk about anything you want :)
@Optimisticempath
I don't really have any interesting hobbies or things i could share. i suppose i'm just an incredibly boring person in general.I like drawing the most. I use most of my time to try and get better at it but its nothing that helps me connect with others. i'm just constantly alone at that too. 😞
@eternallyworthless i consider myself pretty boring also but have noticed some people and some hobbies can bring out my fun side or make me feel boring and bored ...like I didn't even realise it existed if that makes sense? even if that doesn't last too long lmao but its still nice for whatever lil time!
other times we may have different interests or pov about things and that might make us feel excluded if it doesn't match with others but it's still ok to feel how we do
maybe try exploring some things you feel interested in, even remotely? you may find something new about yourself or something new to like and spend time on
drawing is so cool... hobbies are meant to fun for us we don't need to be perfect at them 💕 your art can help you connect with other artists in cups .. have you seen the arts forum here? you can even share your art or see others'
https://www.7cups.com/forum/crafts/
@eternallyworthless I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. Remember, your worth is not defined by others, and it's okay to seek support during tough times. You deserve friendship and love. Take care.
@eternallyworthless
Hey, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. I just wanted to let you know that I understand it can be really difficult to feel like people don't want to be around you. I just wanted to say that although I don't know the specifics of your situation, that I think maybe the people around you don't know how you're feeling, or maybe you haven't found the right people yet. I know that that doesn't make it feel any easier, but I just wanted to say, I hope that things get better for you, and you can find people who don't eventually stop talking to you someday. You're not as worthless as you think, and I hope someday you can see that. You have a lot to offer other people, and I really hope someone gives you the appreciation that you deserve. I'm so, so sorry you feel like this, and I hope that in one way or another, things get better for you. I just hope you know, you're not worthless, and your feelings are completely valid and understandable. Please take care!
@Dorkywizard
Oh everyone knows how i'm feeling. I can hardly
hide it anymore but even before that no one cared. I thought maybe
reaching out will do something but it's just more dead silence. I just
have to deal with the fact that i have no friends. People i talk to
online can hardly understand me or act kind until it gets too
frustrating or uninteresting for them then leave too.
I don't know what i need to give to finally receive something in return and not be thrown away at some point.
@eternallyworthless I don't know the specifics of your situation, whether people are actively ending talking to you or merely drifting away into silence...but if it is the latter, I suggest considering genuinely talking to them about it. Sometimes, the other person is actually feeling the same way. I know I tend to be very shy and it is hard for me to start convos with others, so if they don't seek me out I find it hard to start interacting. As a result, I can seem to "ignore" people when truly I am just as eager -- if not more -- to talk if there's an opportunity.
So, maybe just try shooting people a "hey, you free?" or something easy to jumpstart a conversation. It's worth trying.
Alternatively, you might just still need to find the right person or people. I have a lot of hobbies like reading that I am super into...but none of my friends are, so I get how it sucks to not be able to talk about your thoughts and gush about what you like because others just aren't interested.
What are some of your own interests? Maybe I or someone else who finds this post might share some.
@AvidSilverbell
I doubt they don't know. If someone reaches out its always me and never the other person. I'm tired at this point... all it does is make me feel worse. Like what did i do to deserve this treatment?Yeah i think i need to find the right people but there just don't seem to be any... everyone i meet is just unfriendly and uninterested. I feel like i do not belong anywhere at all.
I also like to read books but can't find the energy anymore lately. I spend most of my time drawing and watching movies. I try to go out as often as possible so i can meet people but it always ends with me sitting somewhere alone...
@eternallyworthless
I don't know whether its the same with me or kinda different but the feelings are similar. What i found to cop is that i come here and listen to people. Thats makes their need of listener fulfilled and my need of talking fulfilled.
Ypu too have to find something like that. People always leaves.
Be willing to walk alone because many who started with you won't finish with you
Maybe you too should find something to do which makes you feel great and less lonely. Like the painter can find another world in his paintings etc....
I wish you never get hurt again
@eternallyworthless sooo sorry I understand how you feel I feel the same way always alone everyone else seems happy and put together but yet it’s never my turn never my time …just time after time I’m soooo alone
@indigoAcai7256
I want to hope that in the end it will at least all be worth it... but it's getting harder and harder to believe in something good.
@eternallyworthless hey yeah i totally know where you are coming from i am older and find it hard to find friends even relationships my youngest 27 son disowned me and left home a year ago and i live alone now but have never lived alone in my entire life i dont have a family and few friends so its very lonely
@eternallyworthless
I can relate so well with you. It had been same with me too. But yeah I know why they stop talking . Because they r busy in life. Their priority change .got better friend than me. I know as i express what I was expecting or hurt me. There answer gave me clarity. I don't believe in running after who don't want me. Rather to be alone.
I think it hard to find someone who want to stay long. Or if they want than situation make them leave us.
I am learning to enjoy my company more. Hope I meet good people in life and they stay long. Tired of searching ..trying. n hoping. Accepting make me feel sad less.
You too have to find some way to feel good.
Ping me whenever you feel to talk to someone.
@eternallyworthless
Im so sorry to hear that, I understand you compeletly because I have a same situation, and Im so exhausted of try and try and always being alone. But be sure you are worthy.
And people's behavior is not worth making you think you are unlovable.
@courteousOwl8938
Well what good does it do if im the only person on earth that sees some worth in me? Isn't that pointless?
@eternallyworthless
Actually I think the same,
Because we need communication and not to be alone. Its really hard. And also me, I dont know what I have to do?
@Marycourteos
Yeah if you don't have someone to communicate you might as well not be here at all. it's very frustrating. I try to not let it get to me so much but after some time the exhaustion is just too much.
@eternallyworthless
No, I did not find any way
and I dont want this situation
Relatable 💔