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User Profile: SugarFreePlumFaery
SugarFreePlumFaery February 11th

Hi there,

I am not sure if I am posting this in the right spot or not, but my name is Liz and I have just joined.  My avatar is my little Pomsky, Mia.    I am very isolated and have zero to little social life and it can be very lonely at times.  I keep myself busy by reading, listening to music, doing a few hours a day of cycling, caring for my 3 dogs and 2 cats, watching movies.    Nice to be here.   💙

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat February 11th

@SugarFreePlumFaery

Hey hii, Liz 😊 

Welcome to 7cups, I'm the happiest among all to have u here with us, Yayy💐....!!!

n yeah, ur absolutely right to post it here 💞

n I'm so sry to hear that, that's so much to go through fr..!! n yeah, i do feel the same often before joining cups but cups, completely changed me the way I used to be. 

Ik the depth of loneliness, the pain n sufferings... especially the when the intence silence speak loud. that's so much to carry, sweetie...!! u deserve far better ❤️.

So, anyways... we're not letting you alone 😉, we got ur back. let's get rid of this loneliness. Yayy, together we got this 😊..!! I'm here for u, n everyone do...! you don't have to feel isolated atleast right here..!! 🦋

N heyyyy???? u pet 3 dogs, at the same time 2 cat's?? won't they fight 😭? I've got cat's too... they're apart of soul. 

Sending lots of love n Embrace ur way 💞 

Hugs u closer to my heart ❤️ 


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User Profile: SugarFreePlumFaery
SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 11th

@Ailuraphilelove8tear9

Thank you so much !!!!!!     You have made my day.   💗

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat February 12th

@SugarFreePlumFaery

My pleasure 😊 

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine February 11th

@SugarFreePlumFaery

Only a few hours a day cycling, easy answer cycle more 🤪🤪 if you're like most cyclists I bet you have n+1 bikes 😁😁

I can't cycle to health reasons now, running just isn't the same. I'm also lonely and joining Cups has helped, welcome.

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User Profile: SugarFreePlumFaery
SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 11th

@RunningMachine

Howdy !

I have both osteoporosis and arthritis and a body that hurts quite a bit of the day.   I am a cyclist but perhaps not classified as a ' real ' one as I use a stationary bike which I have positioned in front of the TV, so if I want to watch something the deal I made with myself is - get on that bike !    I do 2 to 3 hours per day and it has been instrumental in my finally getting to a decent weight for the first time since the 90s when I was still in my 30s.

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine February 11th

@SugarFreePlumFaery

It all counts in my eyes, well done in getting your weight back down. I was born with Ankylosing Spondylitis, inflammatory arthritis in pelvis, hips and lower back, cycling kept the worst of the ankylosis at bay.

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@RunningMachine

So these days what are you able to do without too much pain ?

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RunningMachine February 12th

@SugarFreePlumFaery

The arthritis particularly affected me throughout my twenties and the diagnosis wasn't confirmed until my early 30's, it has eased since then. I fortunately there is ankylosis that has obstructed a deep vein that runs through the pelvis and I'm checked annually now as the deep vein is 60% occluded. I still have to be a little mindful when I wake after sleep, avoid sitting or standing in one place too long as it becomes increasing painful and stiff. Fortunately I've still got full range of motion, a couple of my cousins haven't been so fortunate and I attribute that to a combination of cycling and regular Pilates and sheer *** kindness not to be beaten by it.

Unfortunately I have suffered a couple of pulmonary embolisms so no longer cycle as too dangerous on anticoagulants and occluded vein, so I just do conrrolled maintenance running to keep some fitness on a treadmill.

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User Profile: SugarFreePlumFaery
SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@RunningMachine

Wow, color me super impressed !!!

I have been taking Omega XL since Sept but no luck.  My bathroom is filled with all sorts of creams and rubs.  I am not sure why I hurt so much, perhaps my age, and the osteoporosis, or just doing too much. I am SO stiff when I get up, but as the day/nite progresses I loosen up a little ( still can not touch my toes ! )

It is amazing how you have not given up - well done !!!    👍

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RunningMachine February 12th

@SugarFreePkumFaery

Discovering I had arthritis was a blow, the 2 pulmonary embolisms were as close to death as it gets, being resuscitated and being reliant on a oxygen mask were all 'scary' but it taught me a lesson that has empowered me, and I'm reminded of every time I focus on my breath, life is valuable, breathing in oxygen is priceless.

Keeping myself as active, fit and as mobile as I can is my attempt to keep breathing. Be proud of yourself to cycle in front of the TV, I know I'd struggle, I don't particularly get on with TVs ð¤ªð¤ª

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@RunningMachine    💙💜💗

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User Profile: luvArisu
luvArisu February 12th

Hi Liz! Welcome in, I am very happy to see you here! And Mia is the cutest 😩❤️

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@luvArisu

Hello there !

So nice to meet you - Mia, she is a ' lot of dog ' for the money.  20 pounds but there is a LOT of dog to that 20 pounds !!!!

I also have Edward who is a border collie with an intense stare who alternates between running in fright at the sound of pin dropping and bullying Gretchen with bared teeth !

Gretchen is a black and white Cockerpoo.

I also have a one eyed cat named Hope.

I have a wooden ornament on my kitchen wall that says ' My kids have paws ' - never a truer word spoken !!!

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User Profile: luvArisu
luvArisu February 12th

Awww I love your animal family! I have a Yorkshire girl, she has the biggest attitude! Although shes super cute and super cuddly 🫂

And I love that wooden ornament! Sounds funn💛

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@luvArisu

What's your little girl's name ?    🐶

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luvArisu February 12th

Oh it’s Amya!

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User Profile: Magicpawsoffuture
Magicpawsoffuture February 12th

@SugarFreePlumFaery

welcome to cups.

nice pfp

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@Magicpawsoffuture

Thanks so much !    It is nice to be here and I am getting my feet wet and enjoying the site.

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User Profile: horcrux7
horcrux7 February 12th

Hello Liz... Good to know you...

Where are you from?

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User Profile: SugarFreePlumFaery
SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

Originally fron Brooklyn, NY but now in Ohio for the past 2 years.  

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User Profile: LadyInSilence
LadyInSilence February 12th

@SugarFreePlumFaery

Hi Liz, welcome to this beautiful and supportive community. feels like a neighborhood I never had. We talk, laugh more and compete in making others feel less lonely. Ironically we are sharing valentine playlist which I find nice. I’m single by the way, but loved the initiative. Its the love I can freely share unconditionally.

Genuinely you will never feel lonely here. Oh I haven’t been able to keep up :) Awesome people

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@LadyInSilence



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unsocialduck09 February 12th

Hope you haveing nice days with u pets <33

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@unsocialducky


3 spoiled brats but I wouldn't be without them !!!😀

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OdeAmour17 February 12th

@SugarFreePlumFaery Hello! Lovely to meet you! Your pomsky, Mia is sooo cute!!! And looks so fluffy!!!

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 12th

@OdeAmour1

I love her to bits !  dog-smiling.gif

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User Profile: hopefulSoul17
hopefulSoul17 February 12th

Welcome! I cycle to work. You do a few hours great.

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 13th

@hopefulSoul17

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User Profile: YLEEN3
YLEEN3 February 12th

hi sweety. so nice to read your post. I can totally feel you. also having a shiba inu 🥰 i miss her so much as I am currently abroad and having no social media also dealing with heaps of kind of lonliness also bec huge time difference to my hometown. it‘s like the dark night of the soul. Sitting with it.

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SugarFreePlumFaery OP February 13th

@YLEEN3


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