Im tired
Hello, I think its my fourth post on this app, its about the same thing I wrote about there... low self-esteem and comparing myself to others. I feel guilty for writing this because I feel like im making this like a much bigger problem than it is(I don't think I wrote it right...) but I feel like whoever controles the world hates me, like I envy this one girl, Amelia, she is the rebel girl who plays on guitar, is funny, is super pretty and has many friends and crazy stories...my dream life...I feel boring next to her, but I wanted to ignore her and start living my life, but...EVERYONE TALKS ABOUT HER, even some random things like "Amelia's mom bought pretty presents on the teachers day" like I didn't want to hear that...and its always Amelia this Amelia that, I can't ignore her because everyone yaps about her. I really feel like someone hates me, know she was gossiping about me, but she's still very popular and cool and ugh...
I don't know what to do...help...please...because they "ignore her" advice doesn't help as you can see
@Glitteryprincess17 I'm really sorry you're feeling this way 🙁 I can relate to you ❤️ I hope you find some helpful insights here 🍀 Sending you lots of love 🐾💕
@Glitteryprincess17 You’re not less than her , your worth isn’t measured by noise or attention, it’s in the quiet strength of who you truly are. Admire yourself
@Glitteryprincess17
hey, these kinds of feelings can be really draining. Please don't feel guilty about writing it here. Your feelings are yours and they are valid. We are not here to judge you for what you feel. We are here to help each. It makes sense that you feel this way. When they have so much attention and popularity it may make you think whether you are missing something.
If you think about it, what makes you think more - to be seen, to be heard or to be popular?
The comparison, it may be like she is celebrated but I'm overlooked. This would be about visibility and affirmations I feel.
You are not alone. Many feel that same way but they may be afraid to open-up. You are more transparent with how you feel. That is not a weakness, it is a strength and honesty.
You could always find a listener here and talk to them more if you wish.
I hope that helps you in some way! 🌿
Thanks💕
