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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus August 6th, 2025

Hello everyone!

I just joined 7Cups and I'm planning to make it my home for a while in hopes of it helping me to finally stick to my goals, amidst depression and (social) anxiety.

I'm currently looking for listeners with whom I can build a long-lasting, consistent support relationship. Do you think I'm aiming for too much?

Nevertheless, I'm glad to be here and thank you for the space♡

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow August 6th, 2025

@asjafocus Welcome! 💫🤍 I wish you find the support you're looking for 🍀 and things starts to feel a little lighter 🤍 You truly matter. Sending lots of love your way! ❤️❤️

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 7th, 2025

@fossilfellow thank you so much for you kind words and even kinder wishes🤗

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User Profile: PinkThistle
PinkThistle August 6th, 2025

Hi @asjafocus!

You're not asking for too much at all! That's is the point of 7 Cups - for you to form bonds with someone you can learn to trust and lean on for support. 

I'd be happy to support you long term if you would like. If not, please tell the listeners you are talking to the type of support you would like. 

Best wishes ❤️ ♥️ 

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 6th, 2025

@PinkThistle Thank you so much for your welcoming and honestly - generous - offer🤗

I'll send you a message✨

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User Profile: Niloy12
Niloy12 August 7th, 2025

@asjafocusHi!
I don’t think you’re aiming for too much at all. In fact, wanting consistent and long-lasting support shows your strength and commitment to healing. Finding listeners who truly understand and are there for you can make a huge difference, especially when dealing with depression and social anxiety.
I’m really glad you found this space too — it’s a safe place to share, grow, and find support. Wishing you all the best on your journey!

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 7th, 2025

@niloy12 thank you very much for the (much needed) encouragement and a warm welcome🤗

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User Profile: GentleListener333
GentleListener333 August 7th, 2025

Welcome to 7cups, I am GentleListener333 and we're glad to have you in board. We're here to best support. PS please let your expectations of what 7cups has to offer. I hope your able to get everything and more out of this experience.

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 7th, 2025

@gentlelistener333 thank you so much for the warm welcome🤗 If you have time to chat, I'd be up for it🌟

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User Profile: GentleListener333
GentleListener333 August 7th, 2025

Hello @asjafocus Of course I would have time and I would be happy to provide you with a listening ear. Whenever your ready please don't hesitate to send a message my way!😊

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User Profile: Joyfulflowers
Joyfulflowers August 7th, 2025

@asjafocus.

welcome  to cups

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 7th, 2025

@reachforthestars00 thank youu🌟

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User Profile: sensitiveTree9185
sensitiveTree9185 August 7th, 2025

@asjafocus Hi and welcome! ❤️

I feel the same way. I'm also dealing with social anxiety and going through depression, so I really understand where you're coming from. You're not alone, and I'm glad you're here too.
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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 7th, 2025

@sensitivetree9185 thank you so very much for welcoming me and sharing a piece of yourself - it means so much to be understood❣

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User Profile: sensitiveTree9185
sensitiveTree9185 August 7th, 2025

@asjafocus You're so very welcome. I'm really glad it meant something to you. I know how powerful it can feel just to be understood, especially when things feel heavy. You're not alone here. 💛


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User Profile: xsoupyplants12
xsoupyplants12 August 7th, 2025

@asjafocus I’m so glad you’re here!!! I’d love to connect on the penpals forum with you! We’re all here to listen and support you no matter what and you will absolutely find people that you can build long lasting relationships with (that’s what we’re here for)! 🫶

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 7th, 2025

@xsoupyplants12 Thank you so much! I was wondering about the penpals forum - can you help me find my way around there, because I would love to connect with you on there, as well🤗

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User Profile: xsoupyplants12
xsoupyplants12 August 7th, 2025

@asjafocus Yes of course!! If you’re on phone, at the top of this post (top left) you should see Forum / Newbie Hub. Click on Forum. At the top of that page, scroll to Peer Groups, then scroll down and you’ll find Pen Pals. I can make a forum post later today where we can chat!

If you’re on computer, click on the Community tab. Click on Peer Groups (on the left, under Explore communities) and click on Pen Pals. Let me know if you’re having trouble navigating and I can try to help more!!

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 7th, 2025

@xsoupyplants12 Thank you for your detailed explanations, they're much appreciated🤗 I just joined the community - can't wait to get in touch there💌

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User Profile: xsoupyplants12
xsoupyplants12 August 7th, 2025

No problem!! Looking forward to connect! 🌟

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User Profile: Oldsoul1618
Oldsoul1618 August 8th, 2025

@asjafocus thank you for sharing, as im glad to know youre looking to make our 7Cups universe a home to you ( which is for many of us here )

And youre not aiming high at all by seeking long term listeners, its even encouraged here at 7 cup if a member would feel more comfotable to have a co sitant support and you welcomed to ask listeners on the first chat if they do such type of listening .

I will be honered to do long term listening for you and i wish you all the best in your goal seeking and overcoming your obstacles.

You are always welcomed in you new home where you can plant a seed of hope and we would care for it as it grows.

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 8th, 2025

@Oldsoul1618 thank you so much for your encouraging words, and even more for your generous offer🤗 I will send you a message, so we can try and work something out to build a long-term support cycle💛

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User Profile: carefreeSunshine4934
carefreeSunshine4934 August 8th, 2025

@asjafocus you’re at the right place. You can message me and I can be your listener for a long term 

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 8th, 2025

@carefreeSunshine4934 thank you for the offer - I'll send you a message right away🤗

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User Profile: FlawedButDope29
FlawedButDope29 August 8th, 2025

I am too! I’m the only female in my home and it’s very isolating

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User Profile: asjafocus
asjafocus OP August 8th, 2025

@FlawedButDope29 That must be so isolating💔 If you're looking for more women based spaces on here, you can, maybe, join Women Issues forum🌻

User Profile: carefreeSunshine4934
carefreeSunshine4934 August 8th, 2025

@FlawedButDope29 hey you’re not alone here. I’m a listener and have helped a lot of people. If you want you can hit me up and I’ll be your listener 

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