mentally feel whooped.
Just feel like im going crazy sometimes. Just want a real friend. The listeners are a joke on here... ive talked to one, asked to be my gf which isnt great for someone who struggles with lonliness so bad. Then the other 2 dont ever reply. Works been rough and is just mentally draining. Had friends that turned out not to be true friends. Just feel nobody makes a real attempt to be my friend or care. All i want is a hey how are you here and their. Not to be chained to someone. A girlfriend who loves me or a friend who truly cares. Im glad i have parents who love me but i just want to talk to people other than them sometimes. It just sucks. Im 24 and i dont have any opportunities to meet people. Idk what to do. It just feels hopeless to me.
@jonesj22
Hi! I'm Kiara. Tell us more about you? <3
You'll make a TON of friends here, just wait and see! <3
@jonesj22 Nice to meet you 😊 Can you explain why you think the listeners are a joke and why your experience has been so bad? And welcome to seven cups, don't give up, it can take time to navigate your way through what works best for you 🥰
If you want a recommendation for a good listener, @Amanda84 (who posted above) is AMAZING! She’s super sweet and kind <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 so nice of you to say 💜🥰
It is the truth. You are one of the most thoughtful people I've came across here 😊
@jonesj22 seeing this post reminds me of myself ..well I didn't mean listeners because I just signed up..
We’re here for you, too <3
I can be your friend! I feel lonely lately, my ex-friends got mad at me for rumors that I supposedly created of them, I didn't do that, they ignored me and even took that to another level, I had to go to the counselor with them, she make me promise that I wouldn't do that again, I felt pressured to accept even though I didn't do that, they said that they still wanted to be my friends but they don't even talk to me anymore, just one, but she only does that if she doesn't have anyone else to talk, I feel used, I have new friends, they are really kind to me but I feel like they only talk to me for compromise
@jonesj22 I can relate to your experience with listeners here. Many are here for dirty talk . It disgusts me that people would use a support forum to take advantage of others. I remember blocking and reporting numerous people when I was seeking support.
That being said - I don't want to undermine the support I DID receive. After hit and try I would land on a really kind compassionate soul who would give insights and genuine kindness.
I hope you find help. I'm also glad you are using the forums - no one can misbehave here as these threads are accessible to everyone.
@Creamyyy I do see that, it's sad that many listeners are here for that reason, but sadly so sre many members, as a listener, I habe had to navigate my way through alot of the same problems 💜🥰
@Amanda84 yes I'm not surprised. it's the same mindset.
@Creamyyy but the main thing is the genuine and good listeners and members outweigh the bad 💜🥰
@Amanda84 yes I agree 💯. Just that it can be frustrating to deal with nonsense when you're badly in need of help. ... but patience pays off. At least for me it worked 🙂
@jonesj22 Hey! I'm down to be friends (: Loneliness is a hard thing to endure, you're not alone and you don't have to deal with this on your own.
@jonesj22 hiiiiiii
@jonesj22
hi, totally know how it feels and first and most importantly sometimes and literally all the times its not us its them. everyone wants people to listen to them and to feel for them but no one really cares abt how u feel and I think that's smth we all do we all are the main leads of a film called life and I'm not saying its ok for ppl to be there for their own needs its not, not at all sometimes all u need is someone to listen to u and ur not demanding or overreacting if ur asking for urself its ok to put urself first u matter and looking at ur age u have time and this is the time to go out and meet new pl sometimes its totally strange how u meet new ppl and they help u show the best of u. and honestly reaching out and writing this was the most gutsy thing to do its very cool of u to look out and explore and not ignore the issue and just by reading the text I'm already dying to be ur friend
I feel the same bruh