What is something you would say to your younger self?
What is something you would say to your younger self if you had the chance?
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You’re not ready for a relationship. TELL HER THAT YOU’RE NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP.
Stop taking it personally. It’s a joke. He doesn’t like you like that.
He doesn’t fucking BELONG to you.
You barely know him.
You have to stop latching on to every person who treats you a certain way. “Not being used to it” isn’t an excuse. STOP.
Take it easy. Enjoy the present moment.Nothing ever stays the same.This too shall pass.
Go to counseling after your mom's passing, your just a kid and you need help to cope with this situation.
When you mention " younger self "which shows that you are admittng or fallen into the rumour called OLD. Ppl should learn that only this physique has the quality of losing its stability as time goes. But your mind is always young and it will keep running at the same speed as when you were born. Without understanding the basic quality, One should not consider himself/herself as that thr person is older enough to take chances to rectify their past.
There are no older or younger in the living beings arcade. There is just an amateur or well practised brawl/arcade in here. Younger self means you are ultimately gonna think about like you are aging and aged to the certain point consider yourself as a matured person. In reality, no one is young, no one is old in this society.
So, it's Mirage everywhere. Understand the basics.
Never give up hope and don't let the little things bother you. It's not your job to keep the family together when all is lost during certain times.
@MoonLightShadow423
But sometimes it just feels like you need to carry the weight, you need to support the whole family.
@MoonLightShadow423 I think I might have struggles similar to yours, I have lots of problems with my family. I think that sometimes letting ourselves let go of blaming ourselves and guilt and maybe letting go of what others have told us that is hurtful can be better for ourselves - instead of engaging with the fire of our families get out a hose or walk away.
Sorry if I came on too strong.
Thanks for your thoughts and opinions. I hear you all. Yes, it's important to support family. Gets a bit out of control when people are paranoid and no one listens. Family wants to be delusional, let them be. Throw a few hints to keep things somewhat normal.
@SoulPitstop
Be strong. Life's journey will not always be easy. But remember there's always a rainbow after the rain.
@SoulPitstop
I would tell him to keep looking, that she was just not the one for you, that you can do so much better.
@SoulPitstop
@SoulPitstop I would tell my younger self to not blame myself, but to be kind and be grateful. I would also tell my younger self to not be so self- reliant and to reach out to help from trusted adults.
@SoulPitstop I think that they just mean your past self, someone who hasn't gone through everything you have yet because they have not lived as long.
I would tell myself to be true to myself. I feel like a lot of the problems I faced when I was little was because I wasn't honest with myself, and I also didn't trust myself at all. Growing up in an environment like that can really hurt your self-image. It didn't help my parents making me feel the same way. Thankfully, I've grown heavily as a person, and I'm more accepting of myself as a whole. Trust me when I say the more you believe in yourself and have that confidence, even if you fake it, it get's easier to be who you really are.
~ t.
It wont get better some days will feel better some days will feel worst but you will get Through it
Life is going to be tough little man, you might not like it but you're going to make it through. Not everybody will always want to be your friend and not everybody is going to like you; just make sure that you like yourself at least.
Keep going. You’re going to help people which in return will help you. And babygirl you don’t need a man - be the independent women I know you are.
"Don't hold back on what you want to do in life...go for it"
I probably should tell my mid-30 self this too.
