Request please
Hi
I spoke to 2 listener in my experience not good at all so I ended the conversation
I felt worse in some ways after talking to one as well
I am looking for someone who has empathy and understanding and supportive so if your out there and would be ok with chatting to me please could you let me know ?
also does anyone have any understanding in trauma and recovery ?
thanks
Farrah
@123479
Hi Farrah.
It might be you have "try" some listeners before you find one who is good for you, just like going to a shoeshop, trying shoes. But when you search for a listener you can seach for one that is good in a specials issue www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
When you go to the blue line above at this site and press "community" there will come a list of sub-community. You can scroll down to "t" - where you'll find Trauma-support.
Hi Farrah,
I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a bad experience with a 7 cups listener.
I hear that you’re looking for high quality support with trauma and recovery. If you’d like to get this support 1-1 from a listener, you can use the ‘Browse Listeners’ link as already suggested. I recommend filtering the results you get so that you only see Verified Listeners as these should be providing a higher level of support. When you find a listener, you can view their profile and it will show you a star rating and review- another good way to see if a listener is right for you. Their profile will also list topics they are comfortable chatting about, and there will be a small icon next to some topics to show they have personal experience with it. You might like to chat with someone who has personal experience with trauma and recovery because it sounds like it is important for you that the listener has a deep understanding of these topics.
You could also use our SubCommunities to find support if you’d like.
Hope this helps!
Emi
I would love to talk with you. I am experienced with lots of different kinds of trauma. I can just listen to your story or I can talk you through some positive thinking. I feel the first part of recovering is giving yourself permission to let go of any judgement or guilt. What you went through, whatever it was, you don’t need punishment on top of it. It is very natural to feel many conflicting emotions when your experience overwhelmed your ability to process it. It takes time and patience to understand how it affected you and to heal. I can be a safe companion for you to share thoughts with.
@123479
Dear Farrah:
I do have experience with Trauma with knowledge about coping and recovering from PTSD.
You can always reach me by sending me a message from here: https://www.7cups.com/@HealingTalk where you can watch my profile to see if it seems ok for you.
All the best!
Marcelo
I’m so sorry that you didn’t have a good experience with the first 2listeners.
I would be happy to chat, but I’m unsure how to make that happen through this app.
stimulating the Vegas nerve and retraining your body that it’s safe can help some; I hope you are able to find the support you are in need of 💜
@humorousAvocado You have to use the website to create a new account as a listener: Become a Listener. Then you have to do some training.
After doing that on the website you can use your listener account in the app to chat with members.
Charlie