One thing I have never told anyone is....[finish this sentence}
Just... blurt it out! Don't be nervous! Make your secrets not so secret....
Why do I still love her when she's already broken my heart, is she stringing me along just to get with my best friend
I'm very sus about it and it's driving me insane I even feel secretly angry at my friend because I know they talk but he never says anything about it
@sensibleCranberry651
Stay happy. Even if it bothers you..don't let them know it. This will pass away. I've been through break ups...the chest pain..the hard to breathe moment, but trust me, it'll pass.concentrate on you work, better friends, your body, your happiness. 😊
I am still living in the past and I hate it
@ChanelTerese same..
@ChanelTerese ahha I hear you me too
That I have done and seen things whilst serving my country I still can't comprehend and it's tearing me apart
@sunnySkies2873
Welcome to the 7 cups community :)
For the things you've done, you had a job to do. The actions you take serving your country are very, very different to those you would take outside of that role. For the things you've seen....goodness, I often wonder how people cope when faced with extreme sights.
Does it help to think that ultimately you were there for the greater good? That you had a job to do, and you did it. That these sights you see are a part of that, but without your service they would likely be even more extreme, and even more widespread.
I'm always terrified of abandonment and that everyone will leave me.
@hopefulNight75
That must be very unsettling for you, to feel terrified by that thought.
I guess there's a bit here about maintaining relationships isn't there? Sharing simple pleasures, being there through good times and bad. If you can be a supportive friend to people, hopefully they would never contemplate abandoning you, but instead be there for you too.
I hope in time you can gain a fresh perspective on this fear, and feel less burdened by the thought.
@hopefulNight75 that sounds like me, I'm so terrified, I get nightmares of attending the funerals of people close to me, I'm afraid awake and asleep
I think I'm going back to my old ways and it's only cause I'm trying to get away
@Destinee25 it's difficult to change, not impossible. We will all fall back sometimes but it doesn't stop us from trying to keep moving forward, just expect the downfalls and it will be less stressful.
I'm depressed and self harm more than I'd like to. (I haven't even told my therapist that)
@michelle2000
Hey there. I"m truly sorry you're feeling this way. Confronting those thoughts and emotions is definitely hard, but I hope you can begin to share them. I have faith in you. We're here with you and for you. -insert hugs here-
I've fallen in love with someone and they may honestly never know
@happyPillow66 well the person could know ;D if you wanted to tell them idk
I'm jealous of my 8 year old sister who with out trying you can see her ribs and she has a thigh gap
@Aloneagain I know!
@Aloneagain mee too, I am jealous
I tried killing myself by not drinking water when I was out on a hike with my mom. We live in Arizona, so I didnt think it would be hard.
It was taking too long though, so I gave up. My mom never made the connection.
@KindaFunny oh wow I am sorry to hear but yah Arizona is hot ;D
one thing I have never said to Anyone let alone let myself think is.... I've been married over 30 years to the wrong gender sexual partner
@baZzchik54
Hey, you've let yourself think it now, and well done in finally sharing that. I hope it's the start of being able to accept your true self, and in finding real contentment for yourself.
@DeborahUK
Thank you....baZ😞
@baZzchik54
You're welcome :)
You know, if you want to chat more about this, feel free to message me.....or any other listener who takes your fancy.
