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Today, I'd like to change..... [finish this sentence]

User Profile: Laura
Laura June 3rd, 2016

Are you wanting to make a change in your life? Share here & we'll support you!

Additionally, check out the entire forum section to learn more about the stages of change:

Stage 1: Precontemplation

Stage 2: Contemplation

Stage 3: Determination - Commitment to Action

Stage 4: Action - Implementing the plan

Stage 5: Maintenance

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User Profile: constellation15
constellation15 April 14th, 2018

nothing. personally, i think everything i do has a purpose. i regret nothing in life because the way life turns out is how it is and how it will be so theres no reason for me to have a desire to change it.

User Profile: peacefulllama
peacefulllama April 14th, 2018

How much anxiety rules my life.

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User Profile: greenCherry9746
greenCherry9746 April 14th, 2018

@cookeybear Hi, I suffer from anxiety too. Worrying about things in life. But reaching out to people and helping others helps me. On my phone I can get meditation videos free and I do these at least twice a day. You just have to type in the words meditation videos. Exercise always makes me feel better tho I haven't done as much lately. Music lifts my mood and sometimes keeping occupied or interested in something or someone makes me forget my problems. Good luck to you! Can you share with me some of the things you do. I have lots of tools in my chest, but lately because Im like this I've been feeling more worried and some is because of my behavior or situational. Its a long standing thing and I take medicaiton to help me.

User Profile: greenCherry9746
greenCherry9746 April 14th, 2018

@cookeybear Hi, I suffer from anxiety too. Worrying about things in life. But reaching out to people and helping others helps me. On my phone I can get meditation videos free and I do these at least twice a day. You just have to type in the words meditation videos. Exercise always makes me feel better tho I haven't done as much lately. Music lifts my mood and sometimes keeping occupied or interested in something or someone makes me forget my problems. Good luck to you! Can you share with me some of the things you do. I have lots of tools in my chest, but lately because Im like this I've been feeling more worried and some is because of my behavior or situational. Its a long standing thing and I take medicaiton to help me.

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User Profile: wildOnee
wildOnee April 14th, 2018

My fear of falling in love and depending on someone.

April 14th, 2018

Today, I'd like to change my habit of getting stressed out easily.

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User Profile: greenCherry9746
greenCherry9746 April 14th, 2018

@selfconfidentPerson2134 Try meditation videos on iphone or computer by typing in and exercise.

User Profile: greenCherry9746
greenCherry9746 April 14th, 2018

@selfconfidentPerson2134 Try meditation videos on iphone or computer by typing in and exercise.

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User Profile: Live2Learn2Love
Live2Learn2Love April 14th, 2018

My severe stress and self Consciousness

User Profile: oliveTree4742
oliveTree4742 April 14th, 2018

My mood, my pessimism

User Profile: baddfox
baddfox April 14th, 2018

how often I put other people before me. making people happy is good, but I can't keep sacrificing my own happiness. :(

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User Profile: kj3x
kj3x April 14th, 2018

@baddfox yeeessss! i have the same problem

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User Profile: baddfox
baddfox April 14th, 2018

@kj3x yeah :0 it's such a big problem for me but i feel so weird talking about it because then I feel like I'm flaunting "my selflessness." (Which I'm not trying to do at all).

Helping others is great but we deserve to be happy too. :0

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User Profile: kj3x
kj3x April 14th, 2018

@baddfox yes omg i have the same feelings about it...like i wont ask for help because i feel like im a pain to others...even with my husband i hate asking for help 🙁

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User Profile: baddfox
baddfox April 14th, 2018

@kj3x relate 1000x. I never want to be a bother or burden someone by making them feel sad/bad. So I just put myself aside. I'm glad someone else gets me. :P

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User Profile: kj3x
kj3x April 14th, 2018

@baddfox yes me too! everyone always talks about how easy it is to put yourself first...no its not. the mental breakdowns are no joke either

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User Profile: baddfox
baddfox April 14th, 2018

@kj3x

Yeah it's such a sinkhole because i don't want to ruin anyone's day with my problems so I bottle up and feel awful till I either panic or break and spill to someone but then the cycle repeats because I feel like I've ruined their day with my problems. At least thats how it works for me. :( It's really hard to break that cycle for me.

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User Profile: kj3x
kj3x April 14th, 2018

@baddfox i do the same thing. i had a break down today when my husband came home from work - im a sahm of 3 girls...our 4 month old has colic ands its been taking a toll on me...so ill basically be starting the cycle again...now

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User Profile: kj3x
kj3x April 14th, 2018

how easily i get stressed and how much pressure i put on myself

User Profile: ShyNorth
ShyNorth April 14th, 2018

How much value I place on romantic love. It isn't the only love or the most important; the most important is self love.

User Profile: OodlesofDoodles
OodlesofDoodles April 14th, 2018

Being able to function half normally in everyday life.

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User Profile: honestThinker5456
honestThinker5456 April 15th, 2018

@OodlesofDoodles

Being given a hard cock to stroke is perfect to be a Paedophile for sucking dicks..

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