My #1 tip, link or suggestion for all new 7 Cups users is.....
#1 tip:
YOU ARE NOT ALONE SO IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE...
YOU AREN'T! WE ARE A SAFE HAVEN WHERE YOU CAN SPILL YOUR GUTS AND JUST TALK TO PEOPLE WHO'VE BEEN THROUGH THE SAME THING. HAPPY 7CUPS-ing!!!!
Say hello to new people in chats ❤️
Try to relate experiences/situations in your life to the place they find themselves in. I also find it helps to make the member laugh if possible.
@Laura Don't be afraid to ask for help in a group chat!
Don't let a few bad people or rooms let you down. Some people might be trolls but there are still many people who genuinely care for each other.
@EarlyOwl The one issue I have is the private requests and almost immediately the chat leads to something sexual. I stop them and explain our policy. Sometimes I think it's the same person using different user names bcause the topic is usually nudist related.
@Lewie2018 Yeah, I hate that too, though I'm not familiar with that specific incident. Personally I try my best to give a good impression to new users.
@Lewie2018 yes you are right i happens to me aswel.few members are coming again and again with different user IDS.
Put yourself out there. Make yourself known in group chats and forums. Share your feelings, dont repress them. Youll see how many people feel the same way and care. Welcome to our community
It's a safe place for people, if we can't help by listening, we can guide them ahead.
That we are so glad the member is here on 7cups. Its a huge step, and you've done it which is incredible!
Under Path you will find some great self-help guides, mindfulness exercises, your impact which is very useful information on your growth on 7cups, Training that you can work on. Under Chat you will find some great Group Support Rooms that you can participate in and some will only appear during open time. Under community you find Forums and you will also find the Group Support Rooms and a Calendar when Groups are please note these are all Eastern Time. You will find an amazing wiki link that has lots of new information and let the owners of those pages know if things need to added since this is a growing collection of information.
Be Yourself! People will see it in your conversations.
Be understand and unjudgmental, members will appreciate that ❤️