Let them Theory discussion
Hello ladies!
I know it has been a moment, but I am here just celebrated my birthday on the 8th of this month. Then got sick lol! However, I do want to talk about the book from Mel Robbins. Especially as a woman who is closing in on her last stage of 20s, and closing in on her 30s.
Mel Robbins described how being a woman in search of friendship is harder as an adult than as a growing child/teenager. I truthfully believe her.
What are your thoughts on friendship?
@InsightfulPhoenix
I am not sure if it is harder I met my bestie as an adult. it is just harder to find time and going thru same things at same time. One may have young kids and other have older more independent kids.
People want different things out of friendship. setting outline helped only one of us can fall apart at a time. offer support not fix and respect the other persons limits.
In school and teens we have same situations of school friends have shared interests and exp[eriences.... I think of all those who moved away or went to different high schools etc... same as work friends as adults except teens have less responsibility so they have time to chat and meet up then adults that have home maybe kids/ family that takes up our free time.
Adults know their time constraints and often try to make" friends" with someone close I mean I can walk with neighbor.... but if other friend lives farther we have to plan a meet up who is driving in my area traffic makes even short distance seem a lot farther so if someone moves out of the zone they might as well be on the space station.
@toughTiger6481
Thank you for your participation on the post, and it’s a valid perspective! As adults we do have more constraints on our time
Hey Phoenix, I want to boost your post.
Also, I want to say that women don’t have to put up with this shyyyit. Like seriously.
I’m watching “Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich” and it’s making me feel all “Girl with the Dragon Tattoo."
Much love,
your Bud
@CalmRosebud
that’s super valid, and I understand why you would feel that way!
@Aayla
Thank you for participating on the post, because I absolutely agree. From personal experience, my parents relied on me for ALOT of things, and also had a sibling that relied on me to. Sometimes, parents and friends even don’t realize the genuine impact
