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Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist
by Tazzie
Last post
March 2nd
...See more This thread controls an auto-updating taglist. To see the current list, go to Brand New LGBTQ+ SC Taglist [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/taglist?d17cde0a21c5d3b86fca178bd4197012]. To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words, Please remove me. 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LGBTQ+ Chatroom Weekly Discussions - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
February 12th
...See more hello everyone :) this thread will be used by the community's leader(s) to share the week's upcoming discussions! subscribe to be one of the first to know about each week's discussions!
LGBTQ+ Chatroom Feedback - Masterpost
by KateDoskocilova
Last post
June 1st, 2023
...See more hello hello everyone! today we're here to share some feedback from people participating in our chatroom discussions :) feedback for @Rubylistens22: warm and welcoming host, not too many questions/not too long feedback for @EmotionsListener: I didn't know the word 'gatekeeping' before, but I knew of its devastating effects on the LGBTQ+ community, how it separates us instead of uniting us. It was good to talk about what labels are meant to be for, not what they are often used for currently. feedback for @KateDoskocilova: Kind host, cool questions, informative and thoughtful  feedback for @Jefferythebunny319: We got a bunch of cookies and I also learned a lot thank you all for the wonderful feedback and for supporting the effort the team puts in holding events and discussions! wanna join the room? click here [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mGlmdHydmeJO45maWVqV]! wanna keep up with the schedule of discussions? click here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/lgbtq/CommunityCulture_2541/LGBTQChatroomWeeklyDiscussionsMasterpost_305197/]!
Trans friends??
by orangeMango6014
Last post
33 minutes ago
...See more Anyone that’s trans reply to this thread! I want to make some friends that relate to the trans experience
Last one to post in this thread wins!!!
by AlexFox800
Last post
8 hours ago
...See more You see the title. Anything goes in the comments, just try to be the last one standing!
Coming to terms
by hiimcaitlin
Last post
20 hours ago
...See more Hi, I just joined the community and I have been struggling to come to terms with the fact that I might be a lesbian. I have been pushing it to the back of my mind for a long time and I recently educated myself about comp het and my internal world shifted. I now believe I am either a lesbian and I just have some intimacy issues I need to work on, or I am asexual but would date anyone (as I before believed I was pansexual). I have kissed a AFAB non binary person and a man, neither of whom I had butterflies thinking about, but I preferred kissing the non binary person a lot more, either way though I find all aspects of physical intimacy weird and a bit uncomfortable. With men it is way way worse though. I guess this was just kind of a rant. Can anyone relate?
I'm hoping to finally start therapy!
by Samahmira
Last post
2 days ago
...See more Hi, i just really needed to share that im making steps to go into therapy again. Hopefully it will work out and i can be helped by a less transphobic therapist that the last one. Best wishes for people who want to start too out there!
Confusion
by Whovian1012
Last post
3 days ago
...See more Hello all. First of all I’m 44 male. Lately I have been having dreams and thoughts of being with another guy, and being with a trans. It’s very confusing. Should I act on it? Is it just because I have always been with a women and this is normal?
Me being stupid 🤦
by DreamyPal
Last post
Monday
...See more Okay, this post is going to make look sooo stupid but I just want to share this because it's been bugging my mind. I was playing this game, BitLife, basically a life simulator game. I started a random life as a bisexual man and I have a girl partner. Then she came out to me as trans, she told me she's a 'he' now and changed his name. And I'm like okay, I still love you unconditionally. Then so I decided to 'make love' with him and to my surprise, he got PREGNANT. TWICE (because I tried again think it might be a bug) And I'm like WHAT? How the did happen? But she's a he now and what? Is this a game bug or what? And that when a mind-blowing revelation of my stupidity came in 🤦 My understanding of LGBT is quite simple (or I thought they were simple) but very limited. And honestly, I thought I have everything understood now as easy as 1+1=2. See in my mind: Lesbian = girls are attracted to girls. Gay = guys are attracted to guys. Bisexual = people (girl or guy) attracted to both guys and girls. ... And Trans = people (girl or guy) two takes surgery and other supplements to change themselves to the opposite gender they are born with. I need a new a definition. Because I'm wrong I think? And I figured this out in a mobile game of all places 🤦 (Don't get me started on q+ part. LGBT is all I've ever know in my life, and others I more or less have understanding of them)
Confusion and Mirrors
by AssumingVillage
Last post
Monday
...See more I look in the mirror and I see myself and I wonder why I can't seem to be a woman, I am a woman physically but when I see myself it doesn't connect. I'm so confused, I want to be a woman but I can't seem to be, and I don't understand why. I am AFAB but I want to be a woman. I've struggled with the concept of gender for a long time but this has just been keeping me up tonight. I stare in the mirror and don't see a woman when that is what I want to see.
To all LGBTQ Community
by SherweetSherif97
Last post
Monday
...See more We will face struggles and obstacles from people or society who doesn't wish for us to live in peace or happiness. We will face bullying and confusion from people who doesn't understand why we are part of the LGBTQ+ community. But we will overcome this all together because it's our lives and our happiness.
No confidence because of being trans
by communicativeApple9560
Last post
Monday
...See more Hello! I feel really uncomfortable with myself because I have no confidence because I don't feel comfortable in my skin. I always see people in my age taking pics of them and they feel good and pretty but I can't do that : ( I also really want that. But i can't. I was thinking that mabey medical transition helps but getting an appointment for that takes a really long time. Help
How do I tell my friends im non binary
by sammysfight
Last post
Monday
...See more I don't know how to come out to my friends thay I'm non binary I'm very nervous that they won't accept me so what is the best way to come out? I don't know what to say. Any advice would be nice
genderfluid kid
by idk2000
Last post
Monday
...See more i want to meet other genderfluid people to talk about each others experiences but i dont know anyone else who is genderfluid and ive never met anyone and im just kinda lost :') please helppp. if anyone wants to talk about anything though feel free to post on this thread too 
dysphoria is a meanie :/
by hemlocksaretasty
Last post
Monday
...See more i've only discovered my gender recently and that just kinda opened the flood gates to absolutely hating my body. it doesn't help that i'm going through puberty and i'm getting the crappiest facial hair and makes me look like a total pedo in my massive hoodies and sweatpants so i can hide my body from myself. I would tell my parents but my stepdad would probably literally kill me and my mom wouldn't even care. she'd either think it's some phase or not help me get through it at all. she never even acknowledges like... any of my problems. that's part of the reason I'm here lol. girl clothes make me happy but I can't get my hands on them because my parents monitor every purchase on my card and even if they didn't see what it was they snoop through all my packages. and I don't have any stores within walking distance so cash is out of the question. So, dysphoria hoodies it is for now. Anyway, dumb rant over. dysphoria is mean.

LGBTQ+/MOGII Support

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Welcome to LGBTQ+/MOGII Support! We are so pleased that you have found our little rainbow here in the 7 cups forums. Our community is here to support you as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person, family member, friend and/or ally. Whether you are curious and questioning, or out and proud, and all the stages in between, this is a place where you can find support in being who you are and coping with the challenges that come with it. We strive to keep this a safe space for all. Here you can discuss anything and everything related to the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and being LGBTQ+/MOGII.


What are the different forum topics for LGBTQ+/MOGII Support?

Asexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about asexuality? Explore more here!

Checking in and breaking the ice: A place for you to introduce yourself, take part in our community check-ins and get to know other community members by participating in fun games!

Community & Culture: Want to know more about the LGBTQ+/MOGII community and cultural contributions? This is the place to learn more!

Discussions and Resources: Want to participate in meaningful discussions and access additional resources? Join in here!

Gay Support: Got a question or want to share more about being gay? Uncover more here!

Gender Identity Support: Questioning your gender identity? Want to share your experiences? Discuss it here!

Intersex Support: Got a question or want to share more about being intersex? Learn more here!

LGBTQ+ General SupportStruggling with other issues as an LGBTQ+/MOGII person? Working to cope with issues impacting the wider LGBTQ+/MOGII community? Find more support here! 

Lesbian Support: Got a question or want to share more about being a lesbian? Share your experiences here!

Multisexual Umbrella Support: Got a question or want to share more about multisexuality? Discuss more here!

Questioning & Coming Out: Are you questioning? Thinking about coming out? Maybe you already have? Share your struggles and stories here!


How can I heIp?

You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable to). Alternatively, you may wish to join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information. Even just participating in events, check-ins and group chats can be a great way to help build and support the community!


Helpful Threads

Taglist: Do you want to stay up to date with our community? Then join our taglist to be notified every time a new discussion or update is posted!


LGBTQ+/MOGII Suppoort Q&A

Are there any sub-community specific guidelines that we need to adhere to? All sub-community specific guidelines can be found below and should be followed in addition to the general forum guidelines.


HelpI still have a question!

You can ask your questions in this thread and someone will respond to you as soon as possible.
Community Guidelines

1) Be kind & open minded at all times!

2) Do not impose any beliefs onto another in any harmful way!

3) Please don't express judgments or attack anyone within the community!

4) Please respect each other's gender, pronouns, sexual orientation, identities in general!

 

Community Leaders
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Community Resources

1. Abuse, Violence, Discrimination & Safety

(Abuse guides and resources, violence prevention and staying safe, normativity, discrimination, privilege)

2. Allies, Families & Friends

(Resources for allies, caregivers, families, organisations, communities, schools...)

3. Asexual & Aromantic Spectrum

(Resources, guides and websites, finding your identity, gray-asexuality and demisexuality)

4. Coming Out

(Resources for you before, while and after coming out)

5. Emergency & Crisis Resources

(Helplines, hotlines, emergency numbers, crisis information)

6. Gender Expression

(Understanding gender expression, feminising, masculising & binding, names and pronouns)

7. Gender Identity

(Understanding and finding gender and gender identity, gender terminology and glossaries)

8. Health, Dysphoria & Transitioning

(Gender Dysphoria help, transitioning resources, LGBTQ+ health information)

9. Religion

(LGBTQ+ supportive religious resources by denomination)

10. Sex Diversity & Intersex

(Understanding sex diversity and intersex, resoruces)

11. Sexual & Romantic Orientations

(Understanding attraction and orientation, finding and accepting your identity, gay, lesbian, bi, pan resources)

12. Workplace & Education

(Being LGBTQ+, coming out at and seeking work, university or school)

13. Trans Resources

(Resourses for the Trans community)


Full LGBTQIA+ Resource Spreadsheet