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How can I stop feeling anxious?

Profile: Jenna
Jenna on Jun 15, 2015
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Living with anxiety is never easy. There are ways to learn how to reduce your anxiety by a lot. Control your breathing is one important step. When we panic, our body begins to take short, shallow breaths, and the decrease in oxygen can make you feel more panicked. If you don't know of any breathing exercises, you can find various types by Googling them. Speaking of exercise, exercise is a great alternative to help burn away stress that creates the anxiety. Find what relaxes you or distracts you the best. Talking to someone, music, movies, drawing/painting, etc.
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Profile: MelissaElissa17
MelissaElissa17 on Apr 6, 2015
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Try to talk about it with a friend, and try to take deep breaths. When feeling anxious think of positive thoughts instead of negative thoughts.
Profile: kindmusic
kindmusic on May 5, 2015
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Unfortunately, anxiety is not something you can poof away. However, there are lots of coping techniques. For myself, I like to organize the things I feel anxious about into two categories: (1) Things that I can change and (2) Things that I cannot change. From there, it's relieving to cut down the list of things that I feel worried about. Once I have all of the things that I can change taken care of, to the best of my ability, I focus on the things that I cannot change. Regularly, for me, these things include money, how a doctors appointment is going to go, how a trip with relatives I don't really get along with is going to go, etc. Sometimes I make "back-up plans," as in, if the worst case scenario actually happened, the thing I'm most worried about, what would I do? When I have a course of action planned, I find it easier to relax and wait for the outcome. After that, I make sure to be kind to myself. Distract myself with netflix or reading or playing a game, sometimes listening to music or cleaning my apartment, whatever you find most relaxing!
Profile: PoliteOcean
PoliteOcean on Sep 27, 2015
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Everyone is different, there is no one answer fits all. Anxiety affects people differently. You have to find what works for you. It could be your own coping or relaxation methods. Watching tv, reading, taking a walk or whatever works for you. It could also be something that you need more help with such as meds or professional counselor or therapist for further assistance.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 13, 2016
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take 4 deep breaths and relax you mind and think about how much you love your most prized possession.
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Anonymous on Jan 20, 2016
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Just take deep breaths. I find listening to DidgiPills- and online audio listening app helps. Watching funny videos to Xxx
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Anonymous on Jan 22, 2016
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tell yourself that worry is useless, its a trap that prevents people from directly channeling their emotions and strength to the present moment and seeing the beauty of it
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Anonymous on Jan 23, 2016
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Try some breath excersises, I know it doesn't work for eveyone but try it sometime! You can also try and remove yourself from what is making you anxious.
Profile: TheOneYouAreLooking4
TheOneYouAreLooking4 on Feb 5, 2016
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Setting up a new mindset, schedule activities to relax body and mind.. and most important.. Do one thing at the time. Step by step.. And everything will get done.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 5, 2016
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Try to think peaceful thoughts
Profile: SmallCupOfYogurt
SmallCupOfYogurt on Feb 11, 2016
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Usually anxiety is brought on by feelings associated with what could happen in our future. To feel less anxious it is good to just take everything in day by day and teach yourself to live in the moment rather than think about what could happen later. Breathing exercises could help to relax you so that you can feel less anxious. It is also good to have someone to talk to who could help sort out your thoughts and help with your troubles.
Profile: CameronJoseph
CameronJoseph on Jan 21, 2016
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My best advice is to go out on a limb and talk to someone! Even if they aren't necessarily someone you are bffs with or family with, it's better than nothing. Humans are not meant to be lonesome creatures. I think the truth is that most of our anxiety sort of stems from this loneliness. If you don't have a good roommate, a good girlfriend, or a good roommate, try finding someone who you think genuinely means well. Talk to them, even if you're not sure you fully trust them, and hope for the best.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 21, 2016
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Somethings are not going to turn out as bad as you thought, so try to be positive and just take a deep breath
Profile: blanket7
blanket7 on Jan 30, 2016
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You can try doing some exercises such as writing down why you are anxious on paper and then ripping the paper up or using a stress toy. When I feel anxious I usually connect to a listener here on 7cups to talk about it. :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 18, 2016
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stop it already
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Anonymous on Nov 15, 2016
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The first step is not to think about it purely as "stop feeling anxious"-- to overcome anxiety is a process. You have to overcome it little by little, and a good way to start that I have found is by realizing you can get through it. Any negative situation you're in right now is temporary and getting through and surviving it is guaranteed. Know your strength and believe in yourself to push through and overcome your anxiety :)
Profile: thoughtfulAngel79
thoughtfulAngel79 on May 23, 2017
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A poor diet can lead to anxiety, as can an erratic lifestyle. Cultivating a grounded state of being will reduce anxiety. This could look like making a commitment to daily practices such as yoga or meditation, and removing processed and poor quality foods from our diet, replacing them with whole foods.
Profile: Will22
Will22 on Nov 7, 2017
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There are many ways to feel less anxious. 7 cups' Mindfulness forum is one way to learn ways to relax and feel less anxious. Another way is seeking help from a therapist for coping skills. Finally, combining professional counseling with medication is another option.
Profile: colourfulUnicorns83
colourfulUnicorns83 on Mar 5, 2018
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Practice grounding skills, mindfulness, even journaling thoughts can help. Speaking to a supportive person who understands anxiety can also help.
Profile: endearingLion70
endearingLion70 on Apr 2, 2018
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There are several ways to deal with anxiety many of them has to do with relaxation techniques, breathing exercises and controlling your thoughts.
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