How can I stop always wanting what I can't have?

When you look inside of you, and realise that you're worth much more than people who dont want you. When you are contented with what you have right now, and strive for what you can achieve. When you remember how much you tried to get that thing you cant have how much pain it gave you, and you promise to never let yourself feel that way again.That's when you stop wanting what you cant have.

Changing your way of thinking & perseption of life. As life is not as simple as black & white.None of us can always get who or what we want all the time.That's just life.Not because you don't deserve it,but because that's just life.

Maybe asking yourself and looking into the deeper underlying need those desires fill in you? Some times people prioritise things they can't have because they want to have control their disappointment - if you know you can't have it, you'll never been unexpectedly surprised when you can't have it. What are you wanting that you can't have - if they are things that boil down to more basic needs like validation, admiration, security and control - ask yourself why those things are so important to you. Maybe by fulfilling those needs in other ways you can stop wanting the other things too.

Remind yourself why you cannot have it. It will take practice but over time you will become more equipped on resisting the urge to have what you know you cannot have.

Start counting all the things you are grateful for every day :) Focus on what you have as you could lose it one day.

It is not wrong to want more, want something different but it should not be consuming. Grasping for more is natural and helps to reach for bigger things and can give the right drive to achieve awesome goals. But this should not be excessive and rather used with the right focus and ideas. Focus is most important to not lose control.

You can't. Human beings are greedy, if we already have all the things that we desire we just want more, and we'll just find more things to obsess about.

I think this really requires an attitude change. You have to focus on appreciating what you do have and making the most out of your situation. Some quotes I like that speak to this: "The grass is greener where you water it" and "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

The thing is, you can't! There's always going to be something we can't have. You just have to accept it.

Stop looking at the belongings of other, stop comparing your life to someone else's and find happiness in your life right where you are.

You may have heard it before but the first step is to appreciate what you have. Trust me, you honestly don't know what you have until it's gone. The answers may be cliche, but there is more truth in them than many know about.

try to think of things you already have and things you couldn't live without that you have. Be happy of all the things you have.

I've found the best answer to this is to be greatful for what you have. This may seem kinda stupid, but studies have shown that when we can actually name things we're grateful for we end up happier. A gratitude journal is a great way to start this.

The best way to do this is to focus on what you have. Make a list of what you're grateful for, and focus on how they've impacted your life. Focusing on other things means you begin to take for granted what you already have - take a step back and try to appreciate what's in front of you.

Many people find themselves wanting things they cannot have, whether they're physical things or otherwise. It is possible to stop doing this, like lots of people have done. You could try looking at things you have in your life that you're grateful for or others may wish they had in their lives. Perhaps some of the things you want but can't have may be wonderful in theory, but maybe in reality they wouldn't be what you expected and you may be disappointed by the reality of it. I find that it really helps to find things I'm grateful for rather than spending time thinking about what you want but can't have!

By fulfilling the desire in mind. Desires are good. You need to know what exactly the desire is.Depending on the desire, we need to dream of that in mind and fulfill in the mind itself.

Find your automatic thought. Are you Catastophising? Black and white thinking? Once you can identify your unhelpful thinking styles, you can start to notice them – they very often occur just before and during distressing situations. Once you can notice them, then that can help you to challenge or distance yourself from those thoughts, and see the situation in a different and more helpful way. http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/unhelpful.htm

Write a big, pretty, fancy poster of things that you CAN have and things you ALREADY have! Sometimes it's easy to forget what we do have, but we need to take a moment to be grateful for that!

think about what you do have an relize what you have and be thankful, those are thankful get more! simplicity is the better way, the less you have the better you feel inside and outside just be humble

By valuing what you have, by exploring the things you have so that you start liking them and eventually do not want the things you cant have