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My parent discourages me from expressing my emotions. How can I vent?

Profile: 2genpoet
2genpoet on Dec 22, 2015
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Parent are human beings, believe it or not we are. And no one likes facing their limitations. And no one hold up a mirror to my face and shows me my shortcomings better than my kids. We get hurt. And you guys can hurt us. A lot. So sometimes we ask you to stop. Go find a sibling or a friend to vent to. Understand our pain
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Profile: Dovah
Dovah on Apr 30, 2015
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A diary is a great idea! Not only can you vent anonymously, It's often good to track your progress, see what makes you feel happy, and what potential triggers have caused anxieties, sadness and so on :)
Profile: Pandette
Pandette on Nov 18, 2014
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I am really sorry to hear that your parent discourages you from expressing your emotions. Sometimes it is necessary because you don't want to keep all of this in the back of your mind. What about trying to write in a journal or expressing your emotions through music or art? There are tons of things you can do! Just see what works best. Sending lots of love and hugs your way!
Profile: Hopefulfuture95
Hopefulfuture95 on Sep 22, 2015
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There are many different ways to vent, you could get your own diary, you can vent all your feelings out in there. Write everything your feeling down, all your anger and frustrations out into the diary. You can vent your anger by joining a gym and using a punch bag, hit it as hard as you possibly can. Get all that anger out into the punch bag. You could draw how you are feeling, so make pieces of art that represent how you are feeling. There are many different ways, you just have to find the one that works for you.
Profile: DayDreaming
DayDreaming on Sep 26, 2014
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Is important to tell your parents how you feel about this. Then, try to write down all your feelings, talk to a friend or look for some theater class.
Profile: JenTink
JenTink on Oct 28, 2014
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I find writing gets stuff off my chest and allows me to say whatever I'm feeling at the time. The writing doesn't even have to be kept, it can be thrown away!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 6, 2014
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on here is a great way to vent, ive been there. feeling as if theres no way to express my emotions. I feel how frustrating it must be. come on here and vent. if you want to talk to me im here for you. writing is a great way to vent. and im sure friends would be a great listening ear for you as well
Profile: JoJo17
JoJo17 on Nov 16, 2014
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Try a new sport or hobby? For example, I run 100m and it helps to burn off any anger or frustration.
Profile: openmindkindheart
openmindkindheart on Nov 19, 2014
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7 Cups of Tea is a great place to vent. Of course trusted friends are okay to vent to as well, however just be careful to not constantly talk about your problems. Often times friends will not know what to say or they feel like they cannot talk about their own problems. It is a two way relationship. There are are also professionals such as counselors, or even other family members you feel comfortable talking with. Writing in a journal might also be of some help.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Mar 21, 2016
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You can take time alone in your room or anywhere that you feel private and just vent. You don't have to vent only when there is people around. You can also vent in private by yourself just to feel better.
Profile: ezria
ezria on Oct 20, 2014
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You can always speak with a close friend or find support websites, such as 7 Cups, to vent and speak to someone about your thoughts and emotions.
Profile: RaleighC
RaleighC on Oct 23, 2014
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You can go for a run; write your feelings in a journal or express yourself through poetry or song; scream into your pillow; talk to a supportive friend; find a great listener on 7 Cups Of Tea :). There are lots of ways you can vent, even if showing emotion isn't encouraged in your family.
Profile: AnnieElen
AnnieElen on Oct 26, 2014
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Just tell them how you feel. Letting feelings out is not a bad thing. They're your family, they will understand.
Profile: RYBH
RYBH on Oct 26, 2014
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Your friends are really great people you can vent to, or another trusted adult at school is always a good idea.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 27, 2014
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There are many forms of expressing ones emotions. Often times, people think of "venting" as a communicating verbally, but there are many other ways to vent. Such ways include painting, listening to music, writing in a journal, or even coming onto 7 cups and listening to our trained listeners!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 9, 2014
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Is there someone else in whom you can confide, like a family member or a good friend? Is it possible to see a therapist (many colleges offer free therapeutic services)? Does talking to a listener on here one-on-one help, or perhaps the group chat? You can also vent in other ways, like art, music, and writing. What do you imagine would relieve you?
Profile: Uniqueg
Uniqueg on Nov 13, 2014
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You can always talk to one of our listeners, or talk to your friends, or let your parent know that expressing your emotions is something you need to do!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 14, 2014
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Online of course! Talk to online listeners on 7 Cups of Tea or Blah Therapy, other ways you can express yourself is through a hobby such as writing or art. Invest in something productive and turn your emotions into something beautiful/meaningful
Profile: TurtleTurtle
TurtleTurtle on Nov 18, 2014
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7 cups is a wonderful way to do just that. If you don't have a signal, a friend works, or even a diary. Many also like art or poetry as coping mechanisms.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 26, 2015
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You can vent to any of us the listeners on this website! This is why we are here, and we will always be here for you :)
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