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ResonantRadiance
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PathStep 26 Compassion hearts298 Forum posts17 Forum upvotes85 Current upvotes85 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2026 Member sinceAugust 16, 2025
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Alone forever
General Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 September 6th
...See more I have no friends and have never had friends. People who see me in community and are always happy when I'm around. But no one cares about men or wants to be friends with guys. Girls all stick together, they show up for each other, they share in each others' joys and sorrows. I'm always home alone while my wife goes out with the girls. Because I have no one. I had no best man or groomsmen at my wedding. I get along better with women but that's not allowed by society. Sometimes my wife will invite over one of her friends she doesn't even like that much so I can hang with her because she knows we get along better. But society doesn't allow for platonic friendships and no one will ever show up for me the way they'd show up for a woman. I'm so lonely. I'm so exhausted of being alone my whole life. Life doesn't feel worth it anymore. And don't give me those stupid suicide hotlines, that's all anyone does so they don't have to actually sit with me and listen and feel what it feels like and admit that the world hates men. And I've tried those hotlines and the people on there are so fake and are just looking to check boxes so they can go home and say they did something.
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7 cups is causing me more anxiety than anything
General Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 August 19th
...See more I keeo trying to connect with listeners. They are green. No one responds. When they do, I share what I am trying to discuss. They immediately stop answering. I am not sharing anything inappropriate or sexual or anything, just loneliness and sadness and hopelessness, and this app just has me constantly checking my phone, hoping for a reply and it never comes. No one cares, no one wants to talk to me. I feel like I'm a mistake and the world would be happier if I wasn't here.
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I don't know where to turn...
General Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 July 23rd
...See more I've been abandoned or ghosted by almost every listener I've tried to talk to. One person told me i should talk to a therapist. Well even though I have a therapist, I bought the therapy package so I could talk to one here. She responded and said she'd be back tomorrow and she just checks everyday and responds to a message or so. She hasn't been on, hasn't checked in, and this whole weekend I've been spiraling into a darker and darker hole. I just wasted money i don't have trying to find someone, anyone to talk to, and i can't even pay someone to care. Everyone just shuts me down, confirms that I will be alone forever. 7 cups is not a safe or friendly place. I'm not wanted anywhere in the world. I don't have anywhere else to go!
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7 cups is a sham
General Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 July 28th
...See more I have never had a positive conversation on here. I am so exhausted trying to talk to these listeners who either ignore me, are mean to me, or just ghost me. I already feel like the world doesn't want me, and this app has made things so much worse. I was really hopeful, but I feel such a deep despair now. I don't know what to do. I have nowhere to turn anymore.
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Lonely
Friendship Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 July 28th
...See more Hi I'm a 36 year old guy, happily married with 2 kids. I don't resonate with most guys though and always get along great with women. Growing up, I would always gravitate toward the girls and have good friendships. But once adolescence hit, that stopped, and i became much more alone. It's really hard for me, it feels like I'm not allowed to have friends because anytime I meet someone and we hit it off, she'll say "oh you would like my husband, you two should hang out" and I get setup on some blind date with a boring guy I have nothing in common with, when i would much rather have coffee or drinks with her. So I end up having no friends. My wife is not very good at being there for me emotionally, she just says "I'm sorry you're having a hard time" and just encourages me to find guy friends. So basically confirming that just because i have different equipment, I'm not allowed to have girl friends. Apparently platonic friendships aren't a thing. She's not opposed to it but basically acknowledges that it's not normalized. But it's been my whole life. In my 20s, girls would get upset if I tried to be their friend and didn't make a move.. so no one wants to be my friend and I'll be alone forever.
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No one cares
Group Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 September 17th, 2025
...See more I've been abandoned or ghosted by almost every listener I've tried to talk to. One person told me i should talk to a therapist. Well even though I have a therapist, I bought the therapy package so I could talk to one here. She responded and said she'd be back tomorrow and she just checks everyday and responds to a message or so. She hasn't been on, hasn't checked in, and this whole weekend I've been spiraling into a darker and darker hole. I just wasted money i don't have trying to find someone, anyone to talk to, and i can't even pay someone to care.
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Alone forever
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 September 6th
...See more Every listener I've talked to on here abandons me. Shuts me down, confirms that I deserve to be alone forever. I will never have a good life, never have real friends. I've tried talking to so many people and they all ignore me. 7 cups is not a safe or friendly place. I'm not wanted anywhere in the world.
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Feeling alone
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by ResonantRadiance
Last post
 August 22nd, 2025
...See more Life is really hard as a neurodivergent human in a male body who doesn't resonate with the male experience and is intensely lonely as a human like me. I am burnt out on decades of being me in a world that doesn't support individuality and especially men. I am exhausted looking for someone. I have been ghosted by multiple therapists, after working with them for multiple sessions, so it is hard to trust that anyone will care. It makes me feel like I am too much, and indeed my experience is that no matter how much I show up for people, no one will ever show up for me. I am posting against my fear that I will be judged or rejected. Someone please prove me wrong.
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